The only question I have is whether or not these will be optional. I don't think for example, every transgender person will want their gender history announced on their profile. I especially think that that particular title will turn many people off, because Frankenfurter is a crossdresser and not transsexual (in spite of the misleading song). Some may think it's great and want to use it, but I'm sure many others wouldn't want to. I have to say, I love the binary joke for "bisexual" though - really nerdy and adorable! I also really love the Marco Polo title; I would happily use that one!
Nicknames and Badges: Feedback!
10/28/2011
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I missed this one, but I agree. Maybe "Peggy Bundy" could just be for pegging, and another title could be for genderbending. A lot of couples with a pretty heteronormative gender dynamic love pegging, and a lot of genderbenders don't peg. I agree the conflation is a little problematic, but can be easily solved just by separating the two things!
Originally posted by
namelesschaos
This one stood out to me:
Peggy Bundy – Gender-bending couples (pegging)
While pegging can be a part of gender bending play it doesn't have to be and conflating one with the other just reinforce that stereotypes and by extension ... more
Peggy Bundy – Gender-bending couples (pegging)
While pegging can be a part of gender bending play it doesn't have to be and conflating one with the other just reinforce that stereotypes and by extension ... more
This one stood out to me:
Peggy Bundy – Gender-bending couples (pegging)
While pegging can be a part of gender bending play it doesn't have to be and conflating one with the other just reinforce that stereotypes and by extension all the stereotypes about sexuality and gender roles that stereotype is built upon. less
Peggy Bundy – Gender-bending couples (pegging)
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10/28/2011
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There are some that we think will be awarded based on activity, like toy choices for reviews. Anything that is an identifier, like that one, or the binary code one, will be TOTALLY optional.
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
The only question I have is whether or not these will be optional. I don't think for example, every transgender person will want their gender history announced on their profile. I especially think that that particular title will turn many people
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The only question I have is whether or not these will be optional. I don't think for example, every transgender person will want their gender history announced on their profile. I especially think that that particular title will turn many people off, because Frankenfurter is a crossdresser and not transsexual (in spite of the misleading song). Some may think it's great and want to use it, but I'm sure many others wouldn't want to. I have to say, I love the binary joke for "bisexual" though - really nerdy and adorable! I also really love the Marco Polo title; I would happily use that one!
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10/28/2011
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Easily, and noted! Thanks for that feedback. I liked the name, thought it was funny, but this is one of my eggshell names. We can definitely make it specific to pegging, rather than gender-bending.
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
I missed this one, but I agree. Maybe "Peggy Bundy" could just be for pegging, and another title could be for genderbending. A lot of couples with a pretty heteronormative gender dynamic love pegging, and a lot of genderbenders don't
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I missed this one, but I agree. Maybe "Peggy Bundy" could just be for pegging, and another title could be for genderbending. A lot of couples with a pretty heteronormative gender dynamic love pegging, and a lot of genderbenders don't peg. I agree the conflation is a little problematic, but can be easily solved just by separating the two things!
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10/28/2011
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That makes a lot of sense, and is comforting to know. Thanks for responding so quickly!
Originally posted by
Jaimes
There are some that we think will be awarded based on activity, like toy choices for reviews. Anything that is an identifier, like that one, or the binary code one, will be TOTALLY optional.
10/28/2011
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Haha, I actually love Peggy Bundy's character so I'm actually fond of that identifier, too. If you decide to keep it for peggers, I would definitely use it (as I'm a pegger, but not a gender-bender).
Originally posted by
Jaimes
Easily, and noted! Thanks for that feedback. I liked the name, thought it was funny, but this is one of my eggshell names. We can definitely make it specific to pegging, rather than gender-bending.
10/28/2011
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You'll notice we made that update on the list! Now it's just for pegging.
Originally posted by
Owl Identified
Haha, I actually love Peggy Bundy's character so I'm actually fond of that identifier, too. If you decide to keep it for peggers, I would definitely use it (as I'm a pegger, but not a gender-bender).
10/28/2011
I LOVE the title of luxury lolita.
Perhaps we can have the option of displaying a few nicknames and badges on our profiles at one time? That way people can pick out their favourites and customize their profiles however they like!
Perhaps we can have the option of displaying a few nicknames and badges on our profiles at one time? That way people can pick out their favourites and customize their profiles however they like!
10/28/2011
Totally love the Lady Gag-a one. I'll PROUDLY sport that one, and Taste the Rainbow of course.
10/28/2011
For the gendered badges, maybe a genderless version too? Having a badge with an assignation of gender would make my skin crawl.
And for sexuality, maybe something for asexuals? Might sound odd off the bat given the nature of the community, but there are asexuals who masturbate or who are in sexual relationships, and even if only one person in a hundred would use it, it'd be nice to have the option there... I also know that we have a few demisexuals in the community.
And for sexuality, maybe something for asexuals? Might sound odd off the bat given the nature of the community, but there are asexuals who masturbate or who are in sexual relationships, and even if only one person in a hundred would use it, it'd be nice to have the option there... I also know that we have a few demisexuals in the community.
10/28/2011
These are a riot.. and SO awesome. I think we share that same strange sense of humor
10/28/2011
This is awesome! That's all I got at this point LOL
I'm going to be checking back in to see more of the suggestions!
I'm going to be checking back in to see more of the suggestions!
10/28/2011
I loved them all and spent the time trying to figure out how they would all fit on one badge for those particularly active folks. I can't wait to see all of their titles
10/29/2011
I like them (and you get points from me for the Star Wars nods) but what about badges for activity in the forum? One of the great things about this site is the forum.
10/29/2011
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Thank you, to both suggestions. I agree wholeheartedly on this one.
Originally posted by
Kkay
For the gendered badges, maybe a genderless version too? Having a badge with an assignation of gender would make my skin crawl.
And for sexuality, maybe something for asexuals? Might sound odd off the bat given the nature of the community, ... more
And for sexuality, maybe something for asexuals? Might sound odd off the bat given the nature of the community, ... more
For the gendered badges, maybe a genderless version too? Having a badge with an assignation of gender would make my skin crawl.
And for sexuality, maybe something for asexuals? Might sound odd off the bat given the nature of the community, but there are asexuals who masturbate or who are in sexual relationships, and even if only one person in a hundred would use it, it'd be nice to have the option there... I also know that we have a few demisexuals in the community. less
And for sexuality, maybe something for asexuals? Might sound odd off the bat given the nature of the community, but there are asexuals who masturbate or who are in sexual relationships, and even if only one person in a hundred would use it, it'd be nice to have the option there... I also know that we have a few demisexuals in the community. less
10/29/2011
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BWAHAHAA!
Originally posted by
ToyTimeTim
lol, great list!
I called my students Padawan, so I love that and the Obi Wan.
You have one for size queens but what about Kings? Cave of the winds???
I called my students Padawan, so I love that and the Obi Wan.
You have one for size queens but what about Kings? Cave of the winds???
10/29/2011
I didn't see anything for Subs and Doms or Dommes or Slaves. At the moment I can't think of anything...maybe Princess Leigha chained to Jaba the Hut? Something cool for Doms and Dommes. Brain not working at the moment?
10/29/2011
I love this idea! But some of the ones I'd probably end up with (specifically "Peggy Bundy" and "Lady Gag-a") don't really appeal to me personally ^^;;
10/29/2011
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Will we still have the option of writing our own? I like describing myself as straight (but not narrow)---because it's possible to be straight and still have your eyes open and respect and accept everyone's identification! And I'm sure lots of other folks appreciate the freedom to self-describe.
Originally posted by
Jaimes
There are some that we think will be awarded based on activity, like toy choices for reviews. Anything that is an identifier, like that one, or the binary code one, will be TOTALLY optional.
I hope typing our own will still be possible?
10/29/2011
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Actually, that's a great idea. I was once a member of a forum where we could create our own titles to place under our avatar and screen name (mine was usually 'The Duchess of Tardis').
Originally posted by
Antipova
Will we still have the option of writing our own? I like describing myself as straight (but not narrow)---because it's possible to be straight and still have your eyes open and respect and accept everyone's identification! And I'm sure
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Will we still have the option of writing our own? I like describing myself as straight (but not narrow)---because it's possible to be straight and still have your eyes open and respect and accept everyone's identification! And I'm sure lots of other folks appreciate the freedom to self-describe.
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I hope typing our own will still be possible? less
10/29/2011
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Cave of the Winds!
Originally posted by
ToyTimeTim
lol, great list!
I called my students Padawan, so I love that and the Obi Wan.
You have one for size queens but what about Kings? Cave of the winds???
I called my students Padawan, so I love that and the Obi Wan.
You have one for size queens but what about Kings? Cave of the winds???
I think they're all quite funny. I love the one for 400 reviews!
10/29/2011
Ooh, one other thought---Lots of mentors take on students who are already advanced, and devote a good amount of time to it. When you take on a basic student, and they graduate, the mentor gets a gift card, but for an already-advanced student there's not really much compensation aside from 'knowing you did something that benefits your student and the community.'
If these badges are for giving folks a little recognition, I'd say that mentors who take on advanced students deserve recognition! I'm not clever enough to think of a name, though, maybe something like Mentor of Masters or whatever the jedi equivalent of that would be.
If these badges are for giving folks a little recognition, I'd say that mentors who take on advanced students deserve recognition! I'm not clever enough to think of a name, though, maybe something like Mentor of Masters or whatever the jedi equivalent of that would be.
10/29/2011
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How about Yoda?
Originally posted by
Antipova
Ooh, one other thought---Lots of mentors take on students who are already advanced, and devote a good amount of time to it. When you take on a basic student, and they graduate, the mentor gets a gift card, but for an already-advanced student
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Ooh, one other thought---Lots of mentors take on students who are already advanced, and devote a good amount of time to it. When you take on a basic student, and they graduate, the mentor gets a gift card, but for an already-advanced student there's not really much compensation aside from 'knowing you did something that benefits your student and the community.'
If these badges are for giving folks a little recognition, I'd say that mentors who take on advanced students deserve recognition! I'm not clever enough to think of a name, though, maybe something like Mentor of Masters or whatever the jedi equivalent of that would be. less
If these badges are for giving folks a little recognition, I'd say that mentors who take on advanced students deserve recognition! I'm not clever enough to think of a name, though, maybe something like Mentor of Masters or whatever the jedi equivalent of that would be. less
10/29/2011
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Ooh. I like this. Something specifically for masochists and sadists would be nice too!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I didn't see anything for Subs and Doms or Dommes or Slaves. At the moment I can't think of anything...maybe Princess Leigha chained to Jaba the Hut? Something cool for Doms and Dommes. Brain not working at the moment?
10/29/2011
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Just a few comments:
Originally posted by
Jaimes
Hey guys! So we here at Eden are considering coming up with a badge and nickname system for your profiles. They can identify toy or sexual preferences, orientations, and possibly review/activity accomplishments. I have a list put together, and I
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Hey guys! So we here at Eden are considering coming up with a badge and nickname system for your profiles. They can identify toy or sexual preferences, orientations, and possibly review/activity accomplishments. I have a list put together, and I would love some feedback about hits and misses. PLEASE bear in mind I have a strange sense of humor, and intend ZERO offense, but will apologize ahead of time if I hit a nerve. If you see one that feels inappropriate or possibly offensive, please politely let me know. None of these are set in stone, I am just looking for some feedback and direction. The nicknames are intended to fit in line with the sex positive community we have, and they are meant to be fun and funny, while communicating a sexy-smart attitude, something our community does a brilliant job of rallying. So, here they are! Let me know what you guys think:Nicknames:1. Snake-Charmer – dildoes expert2. Plastic Casanova – Male masturbators3. Marco Polo – G-spot toy expert4. Padawan – New student5. Obi Wan - Mentor6. Krack-en – Anal toy expert7. Riddle Me This – Someone who starts lots of poll discussions8. Santa Baby – Someone with lots of wishlists9. Rockefeller- Someone who has earned X (large) number of points10. Love Mannequin- Lingerie specialist11. Sexscal and Ebert – DVD specialist12. Peggy Bundy – pegging13. EnSexlopedia – Has a high number of Very Useful votes14. Lady Gag-a (feminine); Bondage, James Bondage (masculine) – BDSM15. Glass-amore – Fond of glass16. Steel-y Dan; Steel Garters (like girders); Be Steel my Heart; Suddenly Steel-moure – Fond of steel toys17. Silicum Carne – Silicone18. Sextacular – high number of useful votes19. First! – Someone who makes the first response to lots of posts20. Slippery When Wet – Lubricant specialist21. Pampered Pet- Lots of beauty products, massage candles22. Muscle Car Momma – Loves powerful toys23. That’s one big Twinkie – Size queens24. Francis Ford Copula– Video reviewer25. Ernest Cummingway - Blog writer26. Luxury Lolita -High end product afficianado27. Vintage Vixen - Garterbelts and hosiery28. Reubenesque Muse - BBW29. 010010011 - Bi-sexual30. Viva la Vector - Straight31. One of these things is just like the other - Homosexual (May be a bit long, but thought I'd get a little feedback on this one!)32. Taste the Rainbow - Homosexual33. OmniXXX- Pansexual34. Dr. Hedwig Frankenfurter - Transgender/transexual (help me out with making sure I have the appropriate group identified!)35. Poly Pocket - Polyamorous 36. In the Swing of Things - Swingers37. Playtoy Bunny - Rabbit specialist38. Bullet in a China Shop - Bullet Fan39. Domo Arigato Mr. Hitachi - Hitachi fan40. I have a Liberator Playplace - Liberator shape collectorAchievement Titles (similar to titles you earn in popular videogames)1. 10 reviews – We’re off to see the wizard, the wonderful wizard of O’s!2. 20 reviews - Houston, we have an Orgasm3. 30 reviews – XXX, Get it?4. 50 reviews – Intrepid Sexplorer5. 75 reviews – Sex Trekkie6. 100 reviews - SupercaliBangilisticSe xpialidocious7. 150 reviews – Lara Croft, Poon Raider8. 200 reviews – Bi-Sextennial9. 250 reviews - We’re Gonna Need a Bigger Boat10. 300 reviews – This is Sparta!11. 400 reviews – Are you telling me you built a sex machine out of a Delorian?12. 500 Reviews – Edmund Hillary of Mount SexeverestOnce again guys, please offer me polite feedback about the hits and misses you see up there, and whether or not you think these badges would be a fun profile addition.-Jaimes
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2. Plastic Casanova - It doesn't work for me, but I don't have a better suggestion.
5. Obi Wan - I'm fine with it, but it does have a gender implied. If sticking with the Star Wars theme, you could instead go with Jedi Knight or Jedi Master. Alternatively, you could go with another common word for teacher such as Shifu or Sensei.
12. Peggy Bundy - I appreciate that you took out the gender bending aspect. However, this one like Obi Wan, implies a gender from the character. Could we use a term that has no gender implied?
Thanks for coming up with all of these. I love the creativity and cleverness.
10/29/2011
These are great. I like the strange humor. Only ones that make me cringe are the Star Wars ones. I'm a bit of a geek (but not a space geek.) So, I hear way too much about that stuff already. Otherwise, I'll have to look through again when I have more time & focus, but can't see anything missing. Maybe one for writing excessively long posts, just for me!
10/29/2011
These are cool.
10/29/2011
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but those of us that do play cornhole might get confused....or not. lol.
Originally posted by
Beck
Corn holer- butt plug expert?
10/29/2011
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I'll second the lack of enthusiasm towards Plastic Casanova. I'll also cop to not having alternative at the ready to suggest, but I promise to keep thinking about it.
Originally posted by
Kindred
Just a few comments:
2. Plastic Casanova - It doesn't work for me, but I don't have a better suggestion.
5. Obi Wan - I'm fine with it, but it does have a gender implied. If sticking with the Star Wars theme, you could ... more
2. Plastic Casanova - It doesn't work for me, but I don't have a better suggestion.
5. Obi Wan - I'm fine with it, but it does have a gender implied. If sticking with the Star Wars theme, you could ... more
Just a few comments:
2. Plastic Casanova - It doesn't work for me, but I don't have a better suggestion.
5. Obi Wan - I'm fine with it, but it does have a gender implied. If sticking with the Star Wars theme, you could instead go with Jedi Knight or Jedi Master. Alternatively, you could go with another common word for teacher such as Shifu or Sensei.
12. Peggy Bundy - I appreciate that you took out the gender bending aspect. However, this one like Obi Wan, implies a gender from the character. Could we use a term that has no gender implied?
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2. Plastic Casanova - It doesn't work for me, but I don't have a better suggestion.
5. Obi Wan - I'm fine with it, but it does have a gender implied. If sticking with the Star Wars theme, you could instead go with Jedi Knight or Jedi Master. Alternatively, you could go with another common word for teacher such as Shifu or Sensei.
12. Peggy Bundy - I appreciate that you took out the gender bending aspect. However, this one like Obi Wan, implies a gender from the character. Could we use a term that has no gender implied?
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I know this might be a little too picky, but does anyone think Sexerest works better than Sexeverest? Maybe it's just me thinking the syllable count is part of the joke.
10/29/2011
So how would the optional ones be applied? Can we just check them or are we going to have to spend points to get them? Another site that I am active on link essentially charges people to have the optional badges as a way to motivate people on the site by making you spend "geek gold" which you acquire through adding content to the site, being tipped for the content that you added or by donating funds. I'm not sure I would use the badges or nicknames if it meant that I had to use points to get them. I'd rather have the toy then the moniker if you know what I mean.
10/29/2011