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Contributor: js250 js250
Do you review the item? If so-how?

I include one or two items for him with every order. It gives him a surprise to look forward to--as well as our personal play! I also review the item using our experience together and also his from watching while playing or his telling me later how he used it and the other fun details about the item. I love doing reviews from our point of view!!
09/15/2012
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Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
He isn't really into toys, but once in awhile I will get something for us or just him. The last item was the Mio cock ring (which he adores, by the way.) We have found the ultimate cock ring so we won't be buying more of those, but I do want to get him the bamboo lounge pants with my next order.
09/15/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Yes, I have added things for him and I did the review on the Adonis pump. He won't write anything and doesn't touch the computer because of the sight issue but I will be writing reviews on the prostate toys I got him. I actually "interview" him about how it feels and such and we play together.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by js250
Do you review the item? If so-how?

I include one or two items for him with every order. It gives him a surprise to look forward to--as well as our personal play! I also review the item using our experience together and also his from watching ... more
Don't have a partner so it's all for me, maybe something for a friend here or there. I dont review them
09/15/2012
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
Lots of stuff I buy is for both of us (cock rings, cuffs, etc). I only buy something exclusively for his use once in awhile. I haven't reviewed any of those items, but I have thought about it.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I've only bought one thing for my partner so far and I did review it with his help. I do plan on buying him more though
09/15/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Depends on if he has added anything to the wish list or not. Most things we use together anyway.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
He's not into toys. I ordered him a super soft c-ring once, and he told me to keep it away from him, so I never bought anything else for him after that.
09/15/2012
Contributor: butts butts
He loves toys, I usually get something for him or something we can share. He wasn't so sure about toys at first, but now he's hooked haha. I usually review things but I haven't lately, I've been super busy.
09/15/2012
Contributor: wdanas wdanas
Just about everything I get will end up being used together anyway, but I have added just-for-him specific items before. I haven't done any reviews, so there is no concern on how to rate them so far.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Ryanne Ryanne
I have only placed one order an it was for me, I am sure eventually I will add somethings for him. An I am not sure if I will review them
09/15/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Nearly always.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
100% - they are always for her. She's never bought one for herself!
09/16/2012
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
It depends on who gets to the computer first (lol). I have been known to order a toy just for me, but then so has he. We just whittle the WishList down a little at a time. Most of the time we shop together though, and in the end they all wind up being for Us anyway.

~M
09/16/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I don't buy him toys, no. We live far apart, but I have thought about buying him toys in the past. Every time I talk to him about sex toys for men, he seems to have no interest. He says that he tried some in the past, and that they all let him down, and that he prefers his own hand. I have purchased cock rings for us to use though -- and BDSM gear.
09/16/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Do you review the item? If so-how?

I include one or two items for him with every order. It gives him a surprise to look forward to--as well as our personal play! I also review the item using our experience together and also his from watching ... more
Interesting question! This brings me to the rant about more guy things! Lol. I love that EF has been including boxers and things that all men can use instead of the typical ol' masturbators and thongs.

I grab something for SOMEONE almost each time I order. I haven't always been able to find anything my lovie would like, but lately have been able to

I have gotten him 2 pairs of boxers, Shunga energy supplement (he loved!) and a few bondage items. Next I may get him the PJ pants. I ordered a pair of the bamboo pants for me and the 15 yr old we care for, so I'm dying to get them. I ended up loving the bamboo boxers I got my partner, so I had to have the pants. I also got him the Fresh Max total body shave gel and fell in love with it! Then I ended up buying a bottle for my dad and using a Sharpie to blot out the words "sexual attractant!" Then I got a bottle for my sister since she complains of razor burn and one for my nephew. Yes, I LOVE that stuff. Every person who shaves should have some. I don't get to use it often since I epilate mostly and only shave my legs and armpits.

If I don't find anything for him, I usually add something for my mom or sister to my order. Sadly, it's hard to find things that aren't totally sexual. I got my mom the SmartWand, 2 dresses and one of the bras -- not at the same time of course! I've also gotten her a lot of the Dona products.

I'm like you, I really like surprising my partner with things. I do hope EF continues to add more man-friendly products since not all of our men use anal toys, masturbators and thongs. The underwear have been a huge hit with the guys on EF, so that's awesome!

I also do a little "interview" with my partner so I can review the item. I usually use it myself to so that I can really give an accurate review. It's been possible to do that since I order things I've been able to use to, except undies. I've tried them on to see how they feel, but only find it useful to give his personal opinion and experience. I remember when I reviewed the first pair. I was asking him a billion questions and writing down his answers. I have been reviewing for a few years now though -- I started with beauty products before I joined EF -- so he's almost got it down pat. He knows to give his opinion now. lol.
09/16/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Most of what I order is for my wife. Very few things have actually been for me, the selection is just so much better for women. She's a very willing helper, she'll tell me what she thinks of everything, and the first couple of times I usually will take notes on it for reviews. Sexy I know.
09/16/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
I've offered to get him something but he turned me down.
09/16/2012
Contributor: SimpleHedonist SimpleHedonist
Just ordered some stuff just for my guy for the first time yesterday!
09/16/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
everything is either for us, or for her. which end up being for me too.
09/17/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Everything is shared between us.
09/18/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I've been really into lingerie lately and I feel like that's for both of us since I get to wear it and he gets to see me in it. Usually I just go with the flow. Lately though I've been thinking of ordering stuff specifically for him.
09/18/2012