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What subjects would you like to see Sexis cover in greater detail?

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Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
SexIs is growing we'd love your opinion on the subjects you want to read about.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
more BDSM lifestyle material
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Luscious Lily , Backseat Boohoo , Nashville , LicentiouslyYours , Rose Unlocked , Valyn , Angel deSanguine , oliverHyde , dv8 , rdytogo , DeliciousSurprise , Shellz31 , Redboxbaby , MaryExy , padmeamidala , cburger , dhig , Equae , wwwww , icyqueen , satinlady550 , mastersonv , Feisty
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more general kink
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Mrs Melee , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Nashville , LicentiouslyYours , Rose Unlocked , Valyn , Angel deSanguine , User Unknown , LikeSunshineDust , darthkitt3n , rdytogo , Lily Night , DeliciousSurprise , Redboxbaby , Karakaten , padmeamidala , wetone123 , dhig , Equae , deltalima , SoloJoe , wwwww , icyqueen , sexxxkitten , satinlady550 , mastersonv , Feisty , burtnuh
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more social issues
Carrie Ann , Adriana Ravenlust , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Backseat Boohoo , LicentiouslyYours , Rose Unlocked , Valyn , User Unknown , Liz , Mamastoys , Mandy Van Deven , oliverHyde , LikeSunshineDust , dv8 , darthkitt3n , ~LaUr3n~ , Redboxbaby , EndlessFrost , Karakaten , MaryExy , cburger , Equae , SoloJoe , wwwww , icyqueen , satinlady550 , No-nita
28
erotica
Nashville , Liz , Redboxbaby , Gunsmoke , wetone123 , wwwww , icyqueen , satinlady550 , Feisty , pandasauce , No-nita
11
more stuff from dudes
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Adriana Ravenlust , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Epiphora , Backseat Boohoo , Nashville , LicentiouslyYours , Rose Unlocked , Valyn , Angel deSanguine , User Unknown , darthkitt3n , ~LaUr3n~ , Shellz31 , Redboxbaby , MaryExy , cburger , deltalima , wwwww , icyqueen , sexxxkitten , satinlady550 , mastersonv , pandasauce
26
less stuff from dudes
No-nita
1
more stuff from ladies
No-nita
1
less stuff from ladies
more interviews
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Backseat Boohoo , LicentiouslyYours , Rose Unlocked , Mamastoys , Mandy Van Deven , dv8 , Gunsmoke , wetone123 , satinlady550 , travelnurse
14
more articles about sex toys
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Adriana Ravenlust , Luscious Lily , Epiphora , Backseat Boohoo , LicentiouslyYours , Rose Unlocked , Valyn , User Unknown , Mamastoys , LikeSunshineDust , DeliciousSurprise , EndlessFrost , Karakaten , MaryExy , cburger , wetone123 , wwwww , icyqueen , satinlady550 , travelnurse , Feisty , SneakersAndPearls
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more discussion about body image
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Backseat Boohoo , Rose Unlocked , Mamastoys , DeliciousSurprise , EndlessFrost , Karakaten , cburger , wwwww , icyqueen , satinlady550 , travelnurse , mastersonv , SneakersAndPearls , No-nita
18
more pop culture
Sammi , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Backseat Boohoo , Valyn , dv8 , satinlady550 , SneakersAndPearls
8
more humor
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Backseat Boohoo , LicentiouslyYours , Rose Unlocked , Valyn , User Unknown , Mamastoys , dv8 , darthkitt3n , Lily Night , ~LaUr3n~ , DeliciousSurprise , Redboxbaby , Gunsmoke , EndlessFrost , Karakaten , cburger , wetone123 , ViVix , icyqueen , travelnurse , mastersonv , Feisty , SneakersAndPearls , pandasauce
28
less humor
more POV-based stories
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Luscious Lily , Nashville , Valyn , Redboxbaby , Gunsmoke , satinlady550
8
more journalism
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Adriana Ravenlust , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Epiphora , LicentiouslyYours , Valyn , User Unknown , Mandy Van Deven , dv8 , ~LaUr3n~ , SneakersAndPearls , No-nita
14
more blogging
Carrie Ann , Luscious Lily , Nashville , Rose Unlocked , Valyn , padmeamidala , deltalima , SneakersAndPearls
8
more regular columns
Carrie Ann , Sammi , Luscious Lily , Victoria , Backseat Boohoo , LicentiouslyYours , User Unknown , Liz , Mamastoys , Mandy Van Deven , darthkitt3n , rdytogo , Lily Night , DeliciousSurprise , Karakaten , cburger , satinlady550 , SneakersAndPearls
18
other (please elaborate)
Backseat Boohoo , Nashville , Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady , mastersonv
4
Total votes: 267 (51 voters)
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06/26/2009
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Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Greedy, ain't I?
06/26/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Greedy, ain't I?
Nah
06/26/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Other: Although it could technically count as a "social issue," I really want to read more articles on polyamory, polygamy, polyfidelity, etcetera, and not necessarily from a sociological lense. It would be nice to read more about practitioners rather than people who are on the outside and to hear about a variety of poly lifestyles. It would also be nice to read about psychological/medical aspects and/or opinions.
06/26/2009
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Other: Although it could technically count as a "social issue," I really want to read more articles on polyamory, polygamy, polyfidelity, etcetera, and not necessarily from a sociological lense. It would be nice to read more about ... more
Beautifully said.

I'd also like to see BDSM articles written from those that practice BDSM. The recent article about the Domme encounter was nice but I want to hear from the other side of the table or from someone who sees professional Dominatrix's often because it's their lifestyle, not just because they're writing an article.

I'd like to see more about marriage and the issues that arise within a marriage that decrease the frequency of sex. How to get past those issues, and what to do to keep yourself from going crazy in the meantime.
06/26/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I don't think there's any specific subject I want to see but I would like to see more professional-ish journalism as opposed to blog style journalism.
06/26/2009
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Quote:
Originally posted by Nashville
Beautifully said.

I'd also like to see BDSM articles written from those that practice BDSM. The recent article about the Domme encounter was nice but I want to hear from the other side of the table or from someone who sees professional ... more
Yup. More articles about long term relationships and keeping them fresh, talk about the troubles in them, etc, would be good.
06/29/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I don't think there's any specific subject I want to see but I would like to see more professional-ish journalism as opposed to blog style journalism.
I'm curious about what specifically you're looking for in "blog-style" versus "professional-ish". Subjects, Writing style, quantity/quality of research, something else?
06/30/2009
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I personally prefer blog style stuff. I like personal stories, thoughts, life experience.

I LIKE journalism, it just seems articles that have a more professional, investigative or researched type tone skim over the surface of a lot of area and blog style pieces dig in deep in a small area.

Which is why a mix of both is awesome. Like... here's this journalistic piece and then here are a few bloggy type pieces full of opinion and emotion and experiences to go along with it. Best of both worlds!
06/30/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
I'm curious about what specifically you're looking for in "blog-style" versus "professional-ish". Subjects, Writing style, quantity/quality of research, something else?
It would be writing style and research because any subject could be either. I think there's a place for that 'personal touch' and a lot of people can obviously relate to those blog style posts - and they have been relating. It just seems there's been a lot more of it on Sexis than anything else and it's just unbalanced. I also don't think journalism has to skim; it can be just as detailed.
06/30/2009
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I also would prefer to see a more journalistic approach to Sexis. While personal antidotes make a story - well, personal - I find many of the articles just don't apply to me because they are SO skewed to the personal viewpoints of the authors.
07/02/2009
Contributor: Sexis Editors Sexis Editors
poke/wave

Hi.

Thanks for all your fantabulous responses. We really appreciate it. And we are listening.

Keep it coming.

Love,
Luxury/Sarah/Lethe
07/02/2009
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
SexIs is growing we'd love your opinion on the subjects you want to read about.
I love humor!
07/29/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
More old school erotica
07/29/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
SexIs is growing we'd love your opinion on the subjects you want to read about.
I didn't know we had too much of men blogging?
07/30/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
more on isuses
08/19/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
More on guys!
08/24/2012
Contributor: mastersonv mastersonv
I'd be interested in reading things like fantasy stories. Stories that are true to toys that people have used, good experiences, bad experiences (which could certainly be laughable), even stories that are inspiring such as long term couples and things they do to maintain a healthy relationship but more in like a story style rather than an informative reading. I think it would just be more interesting and make for a true escape into eden with stories based on real life!
11/09/2012