I stare at our naked moving bodies so that the thought that I'm having sex right now would sink in. If that doesn't help - then the things I wish my partner was going. Or my exes...
So... what do YOU think about when the sex is less than exciting?
02/01/2011
Quote:
I don't really think about anything.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
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We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
02/04/2011
I usually think about my girl playing with other women, if anything.
02/04/2011
I just think what would make it more fun
03/05/2011
lol tentacle sex duh , We would try and find new things to do
06/02/2011
I think about all the stuff he could be doing to me lol
08/06/2011
most of the time just thinking about whats going on but there are times i find myself looking at the clock , watching us in the mirror on my closet door etc. but i usually snap out of it pretty quick.
08/06/2011
I think about how upset I am that the sex isn't exciting. Haha.
I can't handle that. Give me no sex over disappointing or dull sex.
I can't handle that. Give me no sex over disappointing or dull sex.
08/07/2011
Quote:
LMAO!
Originally posted by
Backseat Boohoo
"Did I remember to turn the gas off?...no, wait, I'm a fucking squirrel."
08/07/2011
think what he should of done and now how I am going fix it with my vibe
08/12/2011
All kinds of stuff.. not necessarily sex related.
08/12/2011
Quote:
I hate to say it but I find myself thinking about past partners that rocked my world in bed.Ive actually gotten off from not good sex doing that before
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
08/12/2011
the toy box!!!!!!
08/17/2011
Quote:
The stuff I wish my partner was doing
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
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We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
03/05/2012
During the sex I try to think of ways to speed it up so I can get to sleep.
03/05/2012
I just think about the things we could be doing instead.
03/10/2012
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I've never thought of someone else with my fiance. With my ex...the sex wasn't great at all and I admit I would.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
If I'm stressed/tired I'll think about all the crap I need to get done, what I have to do and when to do it =/
I feel mean saying this but sometimes when I'm not in the mood but want to satisfy him I'll go with it but I'm thinking "geez, how much longer are you gonna take?" lol. I feel like such an ass when I have that thought. Or I just focus on his face and how good looking he is to me, like how much I LOVE his lips and eyes.
03/10/2012
Quote:
I don't fantasize when I am physically with my partner.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
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We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
03/15/2012
I think about a few select hot older men I know.
05/01/2012
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i'll think about recent lovers who were really hot, or that hot girl i've had my eye on for months but haven't had the guts to make a move on.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
or... him coming in me. that's a super hot fantasy of mine. the whole 'pregnancy' fantasy. oooh god. i have an IUD if that tells you how much i actually want to have kids (not at all) but something about the idea of possibly getting pregnant, well. it's hot.
05/02/2012
Definitely what I wish hubby was doing
05/02/2012
Quote:
Mostly things exes do better, sometimes what I wish he/she was doing, sometimes counting ceiling tiles, etc.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
07/29/2012
Quote:
The stuff I wish my partner was doing
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
07/30/2012
I usually just think "okay, get done already". Haha.
07/30/2012
Pururin
I try to stay in the moment and concentrate on what I'm feeling physically. Usually that fails so I think about what I'd want him to do to me. If that fails then I think about hot and awesome things I've seen in porn lately and imagine how that would feel.
If all else fails, I tell him to get on with it because nothing is happening for me and we concentrate on him.
If all else fails, I tell him to get on with it because nothing is happening for me and we concentrate on him.
07/31/2012
Quote:
what he should be doing... lol
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than ... more
Relating to: Cerebral Wanderlust: What Men and Women are Really Thinking About
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
We all do it; our minds wander, we fantasize, we replay past sex or think about the sex to come. What do you think about when the at this moment sex is less than exciting? less
07/31/2012
Thinking about lots of things. My mind wanders terribly. It could be to an anime I'm watching, math, wishing he would shave or brush his teeth, wanting to switch positions... Lots of things.
07/31/2012
Things I've done in the past, often with my man but sometimes with previous lovers
08/01/2012
I think about what I secretly wish he'd do.
08/09/2012
It falls in the fetish category, but it's still what I wished my wife was doing.
08/10/2012