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#SexIsSocial - November 2012 - Community Choice Monthly Topic Suggestion Contest

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Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray


Here we go again! A new Community Choice Monthly Topic Suggestion contest! What do YOU want to read or write about on SexIs Magazine? Drop us a line here on this thread with your suggestions.

Don't forget! The people who suggest the three winning topics get a prize!

Rules
• Contributors may post up to 3 topic suggestions each to this thread.
• If a winning topic is suggested by more than one person, the first person who suggested the topic wins.
• Each person can only win once. If you've suggested all 3 winning topics, you will receive only the 1st place gift card. 2nd and 3rd place cards will go to the runners up.
• You've got until October 29th to post suggestions. Topic poll will be posted to the SexIs section of the forum on October 31st.
• Winners announcement will be posted in the SexIs forum section on November 9th, so keep your eyes peeled!
• Winners must email rayne[at]edenfantasys[dot]com to claim their prize. Prizes not claimed within 90 days are forfeit.
• The three topics with the most votes will be added to November's Editorial Calender.

Prizes
#1 suggestion: 3000 EdenPoints
#2 suggestion: 2000 EdenPoints
#3 suggestion: 1000 EdenPoints

Ready?

Set.

Go!

Good luck!

Oh, and...

P.S.

We're always accepting quality content from anyone who has something to say on the subjects of sex, relationships and sexuality. It's really simple. All you need is a free EdenFantasys.com account, for which you can register with Facebook, Google, or AOL. Then, just find the "Publish SexIs Article" link in your EdenFantasys dashboard, enter your article into the system, and submit it to our editors for review. We've even got some great topic suggestions to get you started. You can find the details here in the SexIs Social Submission Guidelines.
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Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
- Redefining Societies Labels (society putting various genders, interests, etc. in a box)

- How to have open communication in a relationship

- The difference between lust and love
10/15/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
-How to keep your relationship as sexy and stress free as possible during the holiday season.

-In the spirit of Thanksgiving what are you thankful for sexually? (i.e. your partner, or lingerie, or oral sex, whatever)
10/15/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Spouses being dominant outside of the bedroom. For instance, Even with couples who aren't into the BDSM play there is a dominant and how do they exhibit it.
10/15/2012
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
(Review Program Mentor)
--planning a sexual holiday surprise for your partner

--being thankful that we live in a time of sexual exploration, and how things are ever becoming more open in terms of how relationships are defined

--hosting a holiday event if your relationship falls outside of the "norm", a la gender roles or alternate life choices
10/15/2012
Contributor: Jesyra Jesyra
Negotiated nonmonogamy or "open" relationships
-facts/data
-If you are in an open relationship, how did it begin?
-The good and bad of open relationships

Sex games: Your fun favorites and why

Is it appropriate to use discreet toys outside of the home? Why or why not?
10/15/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
Boundaries
10/15/2012
Contributor: freud13 freud13
How to handle your relatives and/or your significant others relatives during the holiday season.
10/15/2012
Contributor: LittleMissBliss LittleMissBliss
Beating the winter blues, by finding ways to "spice" up the sensual atmosphere during early fall, and get ready to hibernate.

Whether it be a new recipe at the dinner table over Thanksgiving holiday, a delicous body icing "mmm, vanilla and hazelnut!" new decorations to set the mood, or a "cuddle buddy" from eden fantasys to play with during the season. There are many ideas to keep ourselves floating above the winter blues, and nows the best time to prepare.

Remember, Winter is coming....
10/16/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
Will the next generation understand privacy the way we do? Or will it seem perfectly natural to them that everyone has nude photos or sex videos in some corner of the internet?
10/17/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Education on commonly misinterpreted concepts (Such as name calls and the real truth behind the word, common sex myths, common pregnancy myths for getting pregnant, etc).


Discipline in the bedroom.

Mental abuse is abuse, too - How to spot it.
10/17/2012
Contributor: ChuChii ChuChii
- Why do females get so uncomfortable with their body's, and what they can do to fix it.

- Why are people still sexist.

- New things to spice up your sex life with your spouse.
10/18/2012
Contributor: XxXxX XxXxX
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Here we go again! A new Community Choice Monthly Topic Suggestion contest! What do YOU want to read or write about on SexIs Magazine? Drop us a line here on this thread with your suggestions. Don't forget! The people who suggest the three winning ... more
1. Sex for Singles. Alone, or with a friend. ( Not everyone is with a partner)

2. How to test your own boundries. (tips and suggestions)

3. Ways to feel better about yourself. Through the holidays, and every day.

4. Who are you thankful for. The person/people who helped mold who you are today.
10/18/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Way out there kinks, not like the regular foot fetish, but balloons etc. It's a wide enough subject that not all the articles will be the same and repetitive.
10/20/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
1. history of the sexual revolution
2. bdsm representation in the media/pop culture
3. history of lesbianism in America
10/21/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
Pubic hair: Opinions as well as how-to guides for shaving, trimming, shaping, dyeing, etc.
10/21/2012
Contributor: Sunny Meadows Sunny Meadows
Women United

Long Distance Relationships

Winter Cold Causes Pain, How to contiune Having Sex.
10/21/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
"The labels we use and why we use them." - Why is it that we feel the need to label everything? There are hundreds of terms for sexuality, gender, fetishes, mindsets, etc... Why is it that we can't just be who were are?

"Changing roles... Or what a woman can do (romantically) for a man." - Times are changing and women still demand equal rights, but it seems that all too often, the man in the relationship is still expected to do all the "romancing." There are plenty of of things a woman can do for her man to show her affection and appreciation of her man, though.

"The next "hip" thing... Sex." Why is it that today's youth is so fascinated by sexuality and sex? Why did it ever become "cool" to be gay or even to be kinky? Are children maturing faster, are times changing, or is it just a fad that will pass sooner or later?
10/21/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
i just wanted to second the labels thing!
10/21/2012
Contributor: Molly Carter Molly Carter
1. Expressing your thankfulness to your lover.

2. How to pick the right sex toy as a gift.

3. How sex can make us thankful for other things in our life.
10/21/2012
Contributor: libra777 libra777
#1 The real deal behind what sex toys are made of
and why some materials are said to be better then others.

#2 Fun foods for sexy nights.

#3 Creative romance for the married couple.
10/22/2012
Contributor: sd11ke sd11ke
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Here we go again! A new Community Choice Monthly Topic Suggestion contest! What do YOU want to read or write about on SexIs Magazine? Drop us a line here on this thread with your suggestions. Don't forget! The people who suggest the three winning ... more
- How to set boundaries in a long distance relationship

- Emotional and Physical trust in a relationship

- The benefits of sex in a relationship
10/22/2012
Contributor: Jynxy Jynxy
Quote:
Originally posted by XxXxX
1. Sex for Singles. Alone, or with a friend. ( Not everyone is with a partner)

2. How to test your own boundries. (tips and suggestions)

3. Ways to feel better about yourself. Through the holidays, and every day.

4. Who ... more
I second 2, 3 and 4
10/22/2012
Contributor: meluaz69 meluaz69
1. 30 days of sex, for 30 days the writer will compile a journal with daily entries that describe their encounters with sex ie: Sexual activities, sexual images, sexual thoughts, sexual fantasies, sexual advances, Sexual mishaps etc....

2. Sexual mishaps.
10/22/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Masturbation--
--Solo techniques, boundaries, trials of wanting/needing to masturbate and personal issues.
--Couple masturbation, masturbating with a partner, how to get your partner to masturbate for you, boundaries, personal issues and personal experiences.
--Private, public, on cam, posting movies/pics....how do you get your rocks off?
--Health..benefits, risks, facts, etc.
10/22/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Dealing with Erectile Dysfunction and the man's emotional responses.
10/23/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by meluaz69
1. 30 days of sex, for 30 days the writer will compile a journal with daily entries that describe their encounters with sex ie: Sexual activities, sexual images, sexual thoughts, sexual fantasies, sexual advances, Sexual mishaps etc....

2. ... more
I am totally liking this idea. You are one awesome little lady Meluaz! I may give this a try, and see if anything comes of it. Sounds like a great way to learn more about your own self! Sexual mishaps, another one I like. Unique suggestions, I love em!
10/23/2012
Contributor: Xarien Xarien
1.GIRL: Guy In Real Life - It's the internet age and not everyone on the internet is who/what they appear to be. The psychology and reasoning behind the fact that a large number of males pretend/act like females over the internet.

2. After Sex Habits - Cuddling? Sleeping? Sudden case of the munchies? What do you tend to do after sex? Is it always the same thing or does it change depending on the type of sex you've had.

3. Porn for the couples - Does watching porn in the bedroom spice up your love life? Does it give you ideas? Maybe you read naughty stories online together, or pick up one from the bookstore. Does porn play an active role in your love life?
10/23/2012
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
in honor of Veteran's Day, how veterans are handling PTSD including their sexual life..
How veterans are handling any injuries they received while away and how this is affecting their sexual life
10/23/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Was wandering around the forums and just thought of another!

Defining "Sexual Liberation" - Where do you cross the line between being close-minded and having a legitimate, real boundary? Is a person who has very strict boundaries just close-minded or do are they being reasonable?
10/24/2012