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#BillofRights - 4th Amendment - You Have the Right to Remain...Sexy!

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Contributor: Ansley Ansley


Sexy. The definition of sexy according to Merriam-Webster's online dictionary is:

1: sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic
2: generally attractive or interesting : appealing

Ok, so that's all well and good, but how does one define sexy in real terms? Can a couch be sexy? What about an abstract painting or a song?



What is your 'State of Sexiness'? When do you feel like you're showing on the outside the sexiness you feel on the inside? Or, if you're feeling shy can you recall a moment where someone surprised you by telling you how sexy you were right then and there? Have you ever tried to recreate it?
11/08/2012
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Contributor: FreedominBondage FreedominBondage
I feel like I'm showing my sexiness the most when I'm not trying. At least, that's what my boyfriend tells me.
11/08/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I really don't try to show me being sexy. I have people tell me that my smile is sexy as hell. When they say that it makes me think ok good they are not looking at my boobs or my ass right away. It also makes me feel good.
11/08/2012
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
I don't try to be sexy and when I try the least is when hubby says I look the best. He always knows what to say to pick me up! Lately, that has been pretty often!
11/08/2012
Contributor: engineeredgoddess engineeredgoddess
Heels, lingerie, thigh highs, laying on the bedroom floor...that's when I feel sexy
11/08/2012
Contributor: MissManners MissManners
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Originally posted by Ansley


Sexy. The definition of sexy according to Merriam-Webster's online dictionary is:

1: sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic
2: generally attractive or interesting : appealing

Ok, so that's all well and good, but ... more
Sexy stems from confidence for me, I can't feel sexy if I'm not feeling confident.
11/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My best friend has the ability to make me feel sexy every time I'm with him. Last week we drove around town for a little bit during his lunch hour and then he left to go back to work. Within 5 minutes he texts me and told me I looked really good. I told him thanks I'd been exercising lately and had lost some weight. It's just random things like that from someone close that makes me feel good.
11/10/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
i feel sexiest when i take the time to pamper myself. the most surprising "sexy" compliments i've had....is the opposite, no makeup, pj's, just out of bed.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
So after reading the responses, do you think there is a difference between sexy and seductive?
11/13/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
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Originally posted by Ansley
So after reading the responses, do you think there is a difference between sexy and seductive?
Definitely. Someone can be Sexy without being seductive. Or visa versa.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Jroc Jroc
Aw yes.
11/13/2012
Contributor: ADrew ADrew
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Originally posted by Ansley


Sexy. The definition of sexy according to Merriam-Webster's online dictionary is:

1: sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic
2: generally attractive or interesting : appealing

Ok, so that's all well and good, but ... more
I think sexiness is totally in the eye of the beholder and has very little to do with what I see. Some of the things about me that my wife finds sexy I would never think of in that light. By the same token I find things about my wife sexy that she just looks at me with a quizzical look and says really? See her in a pair of jean short coveralls she has when she just wears a tank top under it. She thinks she looks dressed down I think she looks more sexy than when she is all dolled up... Just perspective...
11/13/2012
Contributor: AliMc AliMc
I'm in an LDR and I use IM or text my partner a lot so most of the time when he calls me sexy it's due to something I have said.
11/13/2012