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Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I feel like that if I wear a thong with a skirt, but not if I wear one with pants. Not sure why that it. A thong is the only thing I'll wear with shorts or pants, but I have to have boyshorts or something with skirts.
. . . That's actually a brilliant idea. Boyshorts get out of place in pants sometimes and it's annoying. o.o

I want to know how people keep their pants tucked into midcalf length boots. I have a lot of trouble with that if I try it. x_x
11/07/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I've been calling g-strings thongs for so long, thanks. xD
11/07/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by LoooveMonkey
. . . That's actually a brilliant idea. Boyshorts get out of place in pants sometimes and it's annoying. o.o

I want to know how people keep their pants tucked into midcalf length boots. I have a lot of trouble with that if I try it. x_x
I've noticed tucking the bottom part of the pant leg into the sock you're wearing will help keep it in place. If you don't wear longer socks you may want to invest because they help with boots. Other than that I have no clue lol.
11/07/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I would like to know how other moms find the time to do a full makeup application and their hair before getting off to their kid/s school in the morning.
11/07/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
What does CIS mean?
11/07/2012
Contributor: steelsop steelsop
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Originally posted by So Long Ya Doofuses!
Since I'm not too well-versed on any of the subjects above, I shall offer a question about something I've always wanted to know:
Is there a difference between a fetish and a kink?
A fetish is an attachment to a body part(feet, armpits ect.) or an object such as feathers or rubber. A kink is an abberation of a normal function such as pulling of hair or slapping during the sex act. i guess thats the way it is
11/07/2012
Contributor: tasselcat tasselcat
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Originally posted by Kitka
I would like to know how other moms find the time to do a full makeup application and their hair before getting off to their kid/s school in the morning.
I think they have the instant-makeup gadget from 'The Fifth Element'.
11/07/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by tasselcat
I think they have the instant-makeup gadget from 'The Fifth Element'.
Good one!
11/07/2012
Contributor: Stooshy Stooshy
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Originally posted by Ansley
Just because college is decades behind you, or months away from being over, doesn't mean the learning stops. There is a teachable moment or an opportunity to learn everywhere in life. We at Edenfantasys encourage everyone to always be on the ... more
Why do penises curve so funny? :s
11/07/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Kitka
I would like to know how other moms find the time to do a full makeup application and their hair before getting off to their kid/s school in the morning.
I get up at 4am. My son wakes up at 6am. So that gives me two hours to get my hair and makeup done before he's up. If he wakes up early I'm screwed. lol
11/07/2012
Contributor: Phantom2291 Phantom2291
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Originally posted by Ansley
Just because college is decades behind you, or months away from being over, doesn't mean the learning stops. There is a teachable moment or an opportunity to learn everywhere in life. We at Edenfantasys encourage everyone to always be on the ... more
I've heard that there sis a way to train a male to orgasm multiple times. I've wondered how this is possible, or is it made up?
11/07/2012
Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
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Originally posted by Ansley
So would say you a corset is more of an outerwear garment and a bustier is more like lingerie?

Another good question! The only thing I know is one likes to inflict pain (sadist) and the other likes enduring the pain (masochist) and that the ... more
I actually did research on sadism and masochism in undergrad to present at a conference.

It is true that the Marquis de Sade is where sadism came from, but it was specifically due to the heinous sexual crimes that he committed against those in more unfortunate circumstances than him. He got caught and imprisoned because one of his victims, although she had been tortured and tied up by him, jumped out of the window. She hurt herself, but lived and was able to get help.

Leopold von Sacher Masoch, famously known for Venus in Furs (a wonderful read btw) used to put ads in the newspaper asking for people to do various things to him. He was known as wanting to always be in the weaker position, hence the term masochism.

What is important to remember, is that a true sadist wouldn't want a masochist as a victim, because they would not want their victim to enjoy what is being done to them. Hence, why our modern version of S&M is a bit different from this.
11/07/2012
Contributor: Ayumi Ayumi
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
I hate g-strings and thongs. I prefer boyshorts for everything.
BOYSHORTS all the way!
11/07/2012
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
I prefer thongs
11/07/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
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Originally posted by travelnurse
What does CIS mean?
Cis as in cissexual?

It's a way to say someone's biological and conscious sex (or gender identity) is aligned. So in other words, a non-trans*, non-genderqueer, non-agender, etc. individual.

Sorry to copy/paste my original answer
11/08/2012
Contributor: Istarbel Istarbel
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Originally posted by Ayumi
BOYSHORTS all the way!
I find boy shorts super comfy but there some special occasions that a lace thong is all I need
11/08/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by LoooveMonkey
. . . That's actually a brilliant idea. Boyshorts get out of place in pants sometimes and it's annoying. o.o

I want to know how people keep their pants tucked into midcalf length boots. I have a lot of trouble with that if I try it. x_x
There is a device you can buy that has two metal or plastic clips that attach to the bottoms of your pants and an elastic strip that goes over your foot to keep your pants straight, unwrinkled and firmly in your boots. They sell them anywhere you buy dressage wear (for dressage riding) If you like wearing boots and pants these clips are amazing!
11/08/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by steelsop
A fetish is an attachment to a body part(feet, armpits ect.) or an object such as feathers or rubber. A kink is an abberation of a normal function such as pulling of hair or slapping during the sex act. i guess thats the way it is
Actually, a fetish is a condition wherein the object or act being fetishized must be present for arousal-either physically or in the mind's eye.
A kink is a desire for objects or acts that are considered out side the "norm". With a kink, not having the desired object or act doesn't inhibit arousal.

The fetish is a slightly more demanding desire than the kink.

Now as a noun a fetish is an object used to represent something else, often it is used in sympathetic magic or other ritualized activities.
11/08/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Stooshy
Why do penises curve so funny? :s
It is a genetic quirk in how the blood flows and is trapped inside the penis coupled with the shape and size of the penis itself. It can indicate certain conditions or it can simply be a little quirk like uneven breast size. It can also be genetic.
11/08/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Phantom2291
I've heard that there sis a way to train a male to orgasm multiple times. I've wondered how this is possible, or is it made up?
It is possible for some men to have multiple orgasms, however it doesn't always include ejaculate.

There's some good information here.
11/08/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
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Originally posted by Katelyn
This drives me nuts! Maybe because some channels are more expensive than others and grouping channels allows the company to work less while earning more? Filler stations of a type? I also know that HBO won't allow you to buy it's online ... more
Having some family in Alabama I see why some of that stuff is the way it is. They are such Bible thumpers and a lot of the state seems to be that way, so it's something they are clamoring for. I get a speech every Christmas when I have a glass of wine with Christmas dinner because it's of the devil. The one time someone mentioned sex my aunt literally started hyperventilating. So if they knew I was active on this site they might spontaneously combust. So that might be why Alabama has those crazy laws.
11/08/2012
Contributor: Unrepentant Unrepentant
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Originally posted by Silverdrop
I want to know whether people who wear thongs feel like they have a wedgie all day? I can't stand to wear them for that reason!
This is why I prefer g-strings over thongs, there's less material up your butt. With a thong, I sometimes get the wedgie feeling, but g-strings are much more comfortable to me. Getting the right size is really important too, IMO, much more than with other styles of underwear. When you have a sling up your butt, you don't want it to be pulled too tight.
11/08/2012
Contributor: GenderIrrelevant GenderIrrelevant
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Originally posted by So Long Ya Doofuses!
Since I'm not too well-versed on any of the subjects above, I shall offer a question about something I've always wanted to know:
Is there a difference between a fetish and a kink?
It doesn't have to do with whether you need it to get off or not. A fetish is a sexual attraction dealing with an object (e.g. a foot fetish), whereas a kink is a "non-normative" sexual behavior (e.g. BDSM)
11/08/2012
Contributor: GenderIrrelevant GenderIrrelevant
Quote:
Originally posted by So Long Ya Doofuses!
Since I'm not too well-versed on any of the subjects above, I shall offer a question about something I've always wanted to know:
Is there a difference between a fetish and a kink?
-whoops, double posted-
11/08/2012
Contributor: Applecrush Applecrush
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Originally posted by Ansley
Just because college is decades behind you, or months away from being over, doesn't mean the learning stops. There is a teachable moment or an opportunity to learn everywhere in life. We at Edenfantasys encourage everyone to always be on the ... more
Has anyone here officially lost their virginity with a Dildo ? if yes? do you regret not having it being done with the real thing? and how was that experience for you?
11/09/2012
Contributor: SubReiSkyeM SubReiSkyeM
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Originally posted by Silverdrop
I want to know whether people who wear thongs feel like they have a wedgie all day? I can't stand to wear them for that reason!
Whenever I wear them, I feel the exact same way you do. It's very confusing and I really don't understand why people opt to wear them everyday. My older sister refuses to wear anything else!

Boy shorts or normal panties for me, thanks
11/09/2012
Contributor: ADrew ADrew
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Originally posted by Ansley
I would like to know what the difference between a bustier and a corset is.
As I understand it for the ones I have purchased for my wife a bustier is primarily designed to enhance the breasts and cleavage making the chest look even larger and sexier than it might already be. Where as a corset is more specifically designed to make the waist area appear smaller through the use of compression.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by ADrew
As I understand it for the ones I have purchased for my wife a bustier is primarily designed to enhance the breasts and cleavage making the chest look even larger and sexier than it might already be. Where as a corset is more specifically designed ... more
Interesting. I guess that makes the most logical sense!
11/14/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
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Originally posted by Silverdrop
I want to know whether people who wear thongs feel like they have a wedgie all day? I can't stand to wear them for that reason!
Not me! I find thongs/g-strings to be the most comfortable- I much prefer smaller underwear that fits closely to my body. The string right in the middle of everything really isn't uncomfortable at all; indeed I usually can't feel it
11/14/2012
Contributor: Bpage Bpage
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Originally posted by geliebt
Not me! I find thongs/g-strings to be the most comfortable- I much prefer smaller underwear that fits closely to my body. The string right in the middle of everything really isn't uncomfortable at all; indeed I usually can't feel it
I have to agree. I usually can't feel them either but other styles tend to get aggravating at times.
11/15/2012