Honestly I don't mind if he looks at other women or men, or even if he talks to them and befriends them. He doesn't mind with me either. We are pretty open about who we talk to, though, and of course for me, I always leave myself logged in online to all my stuff where I would be chatting, and he has full permission to read whatever he'd like.

He can look at whoever he wants, hes in a relationship not blind, I rarely feel jealous (I'm actually quite well suited for polyamory but he is not). If I do feel jealous I just look at myself to see what is making me feel that way, maybe we haven't had sex enough lately or I'm feeling insecure, and once I identify the issue I mention it to him so we can fix it.

To a point. He is seriously jealous and I am somewhat....up to sharing experiences like the camming, etc. then it is shared together and not a personal issue. Doesn't make sense, but it is entertainment versus personal.

I don't care, but if he touches, he's dead. We actually agreed on one woman one time! He pointed out a very busty woman in Walmart, and I looked pretty quick and he just started to laugh.

me and my girlfriend are like that too, we love each other thoroughly but of course we look at other people, its natural, but we are just looking. If we didn't know when to stop then we wouldn't be in love would we?

I don't care, either. He can look all he wants, but I'm more than enough woman for him and he knows it!

We have never thought about this ever. There is no need to since we only have each other.

I'm poly, so my partner(s) and I can look and touch. Jealousy is sometimes an issue, but it's all about communication.

Look to a point, but never touch! I know my wife wouldn't want me touching another woman in a sexual way, and I'm the same when it comes to her and other men, so we fit each other well.

Umm...can't people look at whatever they want? Or are we talking about real-life or online flirting? I'm confused...but as far as looking goes:

My husband and I look at other people (doesn't everyone?), and when we're together we comment on them, for instance I might say "There's one that you'll think is cute!" but it has nothing to do with wanting to have contact with that person or with having an affair. If that's something that I worried about, I would think that's a sign that there is something wrong with our relationship. At a minimum, communication would need improvement.