If you've gotten your birthday to Darling Jen before the month it's in, you'll get a $25 gift card. So for instance if your birthday was in November and you messaged her in October you'd be on the list.

And you can either click on the heart that shows up next to the name of the thread, or from the main forum page go down to where all the threads show up in one place and click on the tab all the way to the right that says "my discussions." less