Quote:
Originally posted by
VanillaFreeSex
That would be great! Thanks! I have some giveaways planned. I'm waiting to run them until I get more traffic, or it will just be embarrassing how few people enter, lol.
vanillafreesex.com
also on Twitter @vanillafreesex
...
more
That would be great! Thanks! I have some giveaways planned. I'm waiting to run them until I get more traffic, or it will just be embarrassing how few people enter, lol.
vanillafreesex.com
also on Twitter @vanillafreesex
less
Looked into the site, read the thread here with advice on easing your partner into kink.
It's funny you brought up pegging right away, especially, knowing about his ex-wife and the religious background.
I think an equivalent would be him asking you, 'dear, do you mind if one morning I piss on your face? You know I get so horny right after!'
Now I understand your push factor, but some kinks need preparation. My gf was against anal, I never asked her directly, but I got the idea.
First, I just did back massage, with some attention to buttocks 'Massage, it's a part of it!' Then a couple of times I accidentally started licking her there, as if I just steered off during 69, 'sorry, I didn't notice.' Then sometimes I caressed her anus when we had sex lying on one side. Later, after a lot more things she agreed to try. So far, we've tried maybe 5 times.
I don't know, but I think it took me a year if not more to get to anal.
So pegging can't be introduced so bluntly. Return to it, maybe 5 years later. In the meantime you've got preparatory steps to take. If he becomes ok with toys, it will be easier. I don't remember the thread, but a woman got her husband into prostate massagers by having sex with him and sticking vibes into her body. He got used to the buzzing and wanted to try himself.
Now, I'm not expert or anything, one woman I know faced menopause and became grumpy as hell. Later she got into dancing and a bit later she married some guy. So probably it was the regular exercise that helped - not necessarily 100 pushups, 10 mile runs - but giving your body a workout 2 hours a day X 3 times a week. I mean some people just need something to make the blood flow faster: yoga, swimming, hiking, the like. However, if you think these reviews and toy play will help you, your choice. You know yourself better.