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Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Can we do a blog roll thread or is that spammy?

I just started my sex blog back up and would like to connect with other bloggers in the eden community.
09/24/2019
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Contributor: Croc Croc
I'm not a blogger, can I check yours out? address?
09/25/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
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Originally posted by Croc
I'm not a blogger, can I check yours out? address?
That would be great! Thanks! I have some giveaways planned. I'm waiting to run them until I get more traffic, or it will just be embarrassing how few people enter, lol.

vanillafreesex.com
also on Twitter @vanillafreesex
09/26/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
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Originally posted by VanillaFreeSex
Can we do a blog roll thread or is that spammy?

I just started my sex blog back up and would like to connect with other bloggers in the eden community.
I think we can try if any info that is posted won't break forum rules
09/26/2019
Contributor: Croc Croc
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Originally posted by VanillaFreeSex
That would be great! Thanks! I have some giveaways planned. I'm waiting to run them until I get more traffic, or it will just be embarrassing how few people enter, lol.

vanillafreesex.com
also on Twitter @vanillafreesex ... more
Looked into the site, read the thread here with advice on easing your partner into kink.
It's funny you brought up pegging right away, especially, knowing about his ex-wife and the religious background.
I think an equivalent would be him asking you, 'dear, do you mind if one morning I piss on your face? You know I get so horny right after!'

Now I understand your push factor, but some kinks need preparation. My gf was against anal, I never asked her directly, but I got the idea.
First, I just did back massage, with some attention to buttocks 'Massage, it's a part of it!' Then a couple of times I accidentally started licking her there, as if I just steered off during 69, 'sorry, I didn't notice.' Then sometimes I caressed her anus when we had sex lying on one side. Later, after a lot more things she agreed to try. So far, we've tried maybe 5 times.
I don't know, but I think it took me a year if not more to get to anal.

So pegging can't be introduced so bluntly. Return to it, maybe 5 years later. In the meantime you've got preparatory steps to take. If he becomes ok with toys, it will be easier. I don't remember the thread, but a woman got her husband into prostate massagers by having sex with him and sticking vibes into her body. He got used to the buzzing and wanted to try himself.

Now, I'm not expert or anything, one woman I know faced menopause and became grumpy as hell. Later she got into dancing and a bit later she married some guy. So probably it was the regular exercise that helped - not necessarily 100 pushups, 10 mile runs - but giving your body a workout 2 hours a day X 3 times a week. I mean some people just need something to make the blood flow faster: yoga, swimming, hiking, the like. However, if you think these reviews and toy play will help you, your choice. You know yourself better.
09/27/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Quote:
Originally posted by Croc
Looked into the site, read the thread here with advice on easing your partner into kink.
It's funny you brought up pegging right away, especially, knowing about his ex-wife and the religious background.
I think an equivalent would be him ... more
I've been lucky that I have not had the mood swings. I have bipolar disorder and my meds keep me "stable". I did have to have them adjusted, but all good there thankfully.

I am on and off with exercising. It's something I'd like to be more consistent about for both my mental and physical health in general.

I'm totally ok with him not being into pegging. It's not a deal breaker for me. We do already use toys, and he has consented to us trying out restraints.

On a side note, I actually have experimented with past partners with golden showers, so that wouldn't actually shock me, lol. I'm not easily shocked at all. I don't think he was shocked when I brought up pegging, it was just a no, but not shocking.
09/29/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Quote:
Originally posted by Croc
Looked into the site, read the thread here with advice on easing your partner into kink.
It's funny you brought up pegging right away, especially, knowing about his ex-wife and the religious background.
I think an equivalent would be him ... more
Two hours a day? Yah, that's not happening. lol Being disabled I don't have that kind of energy. Who does?
09/29/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
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Originally posted by Leil@
I think we can try if any info that is posted won't break forum rules
Great! Thank you.
09/29/2019
Contributor: Croc Croc
Quote:
Originally posted by VanillaFreeSex
Two hours a day? Yah, that's not happening. lol Being disabled I don't have that kind of energy. Who does?
two hours a day multiplied by 3 times a week makes 6 hours a week.
That's not too intense. Especially, since you don't exercise 2 hours non-stop. a day in between lets restore energy, but since you are disabled...

My gf likes stretching, which I hate. Went to a couple of practices with her and sweated out several pounds, though as an onlooker I thought it was easy))).

It all takes some looking for, I think. I tried different ways to work out, didn't like most of them. In the end I took up paintball games. Running with a paint gun is much more fun than hitting the treadmill. And if I could skip out running before, my buddies make sure I don't get away from our weekend games.

PS so golden showers don't shock you, but having your face licked...)))
09/30/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Quote:
Originally posted by Croc
two hours a day multiplied by 3 times a week makes 6 hours a week.
That's not too intense. Especially, since you don't exercise 2 hours non-stop. a day in between lets restore energy, but since you are disabled...

My gf likes ... more
Your PS! Lol good one
09/30/2019
Contributor: I preferred a mix between the two I preferred a mix between the two
Where is Your blog ??
11/17/2020