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Contributor: Talena Talena
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I just wnated to get other people's take on this....

Do you think the person you are in the bedroom (or behind closed doors) is the same person you are in public?

Example: A friend of mine found out some of the things I have done in my past and she still to this day does not believe it because she claims I'm "not that kind of person".
10/21/2011
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
No one would ever guess we're into the things that we are, and that's fine by me.
10/21/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by Talena
I just wnated to get other people's take on this....

Do you think the person you are in the bedroom (or behind closed doors) is the same person you are in public?

Example: A friend of mine found out some of the things I have done in ... more
Lol... I am very outgoing and outspoken and often dress the part so its not a huge shock to most who know me - though most dont know everything . That being said I hate people who say stuff like that to you because its almost like they are trying to pass judgement or imply your a bad person because you dont hide from sex or sexual topics. Ask her the next time if she has ever been laid and liked it. If the answer is yes point out then shes just the same as you - your just more self-confident.
10/21/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I don't think I'm any different behind closed doors than I am out in public, but apparently sometimes I'm judged based on just looks and people who don't know me very well are surprised that the "well dressed, innocent looking one" is an animal in the bedroom and kinky.
10/21/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I don't think I look particularly kinky but then I've had a lot of people tell me I look like I would be a freak in the bedroom. Perhaps I misjudge my own apperance? I've been told they can tell by the way I walk more so than whatever I happen to be wearing that day. I'm not sure what that means exactly, just what I've been told. So I guess I am who I am no matter where I am.
10/21/2011
Contributor: Talena Talena
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Originally posted by CreamySweet
Lol... I am very outgoing and outspoken and often dress the part so its not a huge shock to most who know me - though most dont know everything . That being said I hate people who say stuff like that to you because its almost like they are trying to ... more
No what I ended up doing is telling her MORE of the stuff I've done..I think I scared her... oh well... I had fun LMAO
10/21/2011
Contributor: Talena Talena
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
I don't think I'm any different behind closed doors than I am out in public, but apparently sometimes I'm judged based on just looks and people who don't know me very well are surprised that the "well dressed, innocent looking ... more
Exactly my point...I'm the innocent normal looking one...and I always tell them no I don't look normal, I look socially acceptable..it makes them think.
10/21/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I think it's not so much that I'm a different person, because I'm totally the same person - I just allow different aspects of my personality to show in the bedroom. I'm still the same me, it's just a different side of the same me. I'm very demure around others, but in the bedroom it's almost anything goes. I don't think people would guess that about me, but that's just because they don't know that side of my personality.
10/21/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I am usually a very private person and very shy, I also live in a very conservative area. It suits me to look and act like others do when I am in public, and I kind of like having a dirty little secret that only a couple of people know about. I also don't see a benefit in everyone knowing what my sex life is like.
10/21/2011
Contributor: chicken12 chicken12
I think people would be shocked that I masturbate.

People always get a surprised look on their face when I swear, because I'm "just not the type of person" to do that.
10/21/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Hell yeah!! I am a quiet, conservative and shy person to the public. I do talk nonstop around my friends and am still reserved about personal issues. However, when my husband and I close the door, I relax and let myself go. I think everyone is this way to an extent, just some more noticeable than others. If my friends even knew I cammed, had pics on the net, was part of adult forums, and a bunch of other things we have done I would be attending a lot of their funerals. From the heart attack I gave them.
10/21/2011
Contributor: Talena Talena
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Originally posted by chicken12
I think people would be shocked that I masturbate.

People always get a surprised look on their face when I swear, because I'm "just not the type of person" to do that.
What exactly makes a person the "type to do it"? that always gets me.
10/21/2011
Contributor: Talena Talena
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Originally posted by js250
Hell yeah!! I am a quiet, conservative and shy person to the public. I do talk nonstop around my friends and am still reserved about personal issues. However, when my husband and I close the door, I relax and let myself go. I think everyone is this ... more
I love that answer..I am almost the exact same way.
10/21/2011
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
Exact same. Only im clothed in public
02/21/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm still the same person, but have more fun in the bedroom than most would think of me.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I don't think my personality changes; I'm an incredibly intimate and passionate person in real life- I just express that more of that with my partners. But I don't know if people "change" behind closed doors because I'm too apathetic to ask.
02/21/2012