Maybe idk what I'm doing but it seems I only get off to clitoris stimulation not my G-spot what am I doing wrong? Any help out there?
Am I the only person who's only gotten off to clitoris stimulation?
05/08/2012
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I haven't experienced a vaginal orgasm yet either. I keep buying toys and climax creams and hopefully one day I will find the correct combination for me. I'm just thankful that I can have clitoral orgasms.
Good Luck to you!
Good Luck to you!
05/08/2012
Thanks my friend tells me its like 2 3 inches inside the vagina and its the size of a quater mayb eand she says when you find it youll KNOW lol
05/08/2012
I definitely have experienced G spot simulation but not a vaginal orgasm.
05/08/2012
I thought the G spot was in the vagina ???....I think your thinking of clitoral stimulation not the G spot
05/08/2012
I've gotten close to a G-spot orgasm but so far I've always needed to combine it with clitoral stimulation to get off. My advice is: don't sweat it. If you had asked me a year ago, I would have said I didn't even have a G-spot; there's always time to learn more about your body.
I also don't really agree with the "you'll know it if you find it" thing. The thing is, I "found" it using my fingers a couple years ago but didn't think it was my G-spot because I wasn't instantly on the edge of an orgasm from touching it. A lot of women have to be pretty aroused to feel much when their G-spot is stimulated--personally , I tend to like it most after having had a clitoral orgasm. And you have to experiment with different kinds of stimulation too; my first G-spot toy wasn't curved at all and had a very pokey head, and it did nothing for me. Try out different toys and different ways of using them: vibrators, curved toys, toys with larger heads, firm toys, soft toys, thrusting, clenching, etc. Fingers can be useful too, because it really does feel different than the rest of the vagina--sort of ridged--and you can apply as much pressure as you want.
I also don't really agree with the "you'll know it if you find it" thing. The thing is, I "found" it using my fingers a couple years ago but didn't think it was my G-spot because I wasn't instantly on the edge of an orgasm from touching it. A lot of women have to be pretty aroused to feel much when their G-spot is stimulated--personally , I tend to like it most after having had a clitoral orgasm. And you have to experiment with different kinds of stimulation too; my first G-spot toy wasn't curved at all and had a very pokey head, and it did nothing for me. Try out different toys and different ways of using them: vibrators, curved toys, toys with larger heads, firm toys, soft toys, thrusting, clenching, etc. Fingers can be useful too, because it really does feel different than the rest of the vagina--sort of ridged--and you can apply as much pressure as you want.
05/08/2012
You can get off?
AWESOME!
Why fret?
AWESOME!
Why fret?
05/09/2012
Lol I guess thats a good way of looking at it
05/09/2012
The way most women orgasm is by clitoral stimulation. Like Adriana said, if you can get off this way, what are you worried about? There is (there shouldn't be) any stigma about women who "only" get off through clitoral stimulation. I've been having sex and having orgasms for decades and I have to have clitoral stimulation to come. At least with my first few orgasms. I wasn't able to have an orgasm from penetration alone until I hit my 30s. Big deal.
Honestly, I prefer clitoral stimulation orgasms with some penetration for fun. My G Spot orgasms alone aren't strong enough and don't leave me satisfied.
You're getting off. That's good. HOW isn't really a big deal. In fact, the reason women HAVE clitorises is to have orgasms. There's really no other purpose for the organ.
Keep on with the good work.
For your question; you are doing nothing "wrong." Clit stim is the way most women get off.
Honestly, I prefer clitoral stimulation orgasms with some penetration for fun. My G Spot orgasms alone aren't strong enough and don't leave me satisfied.
You're getting off. That's good. HOW isn't really a big deal. In fact, the reason women HAVE clitorises is to have orgasms. There's really no other purpose for the organ.
Keep on with the good work.
For your question; you are doing nothing "wrong." Clit stim is the way most women get off.
05/09/2012
Thanks P'Gell
05/09/2012
I haven't found mine yet, either. You are not alone.
05/16/2012
So far I've only ever had orgasms from clitoral stimulation, as well
I don't think I respond to gspot stimulation at all (or I don't have one? Hell if I know.) and have never had orgasms other than clitoral..
plus it's a fair bit of work to get me off, as well.
Nothing wrong with any of it, and you're definitely not alone!
I don't think I respond to gspot stimulation at all (or I don't have one? Hell if I know.) and have never had orgasms other than clitoral..
plus it's a fair bit of work to get me off, as well.
Nothing wrong with any of it, and you're definitely not alone!
06/04/2012
I've only had clitoral situation. But considering how many people struggle with that, I'm not complaining.
07/21/2012
not everyone experiences an orgasm, doesn't mean you can't enjoy sex or masturbation
nothing's wrong with you, don't worry D:
nothing's wrong with you, don't worry D:
09/03/2012
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