i guess men enjoy seeing a bunch of naked women whenever they want... especially when those women are grinding up on em.

It's part of cultural expectation: "You haven't experienced Everything unless you (insert whatever activity here)." Besides, you never know what reaction he'll have - some are hot to go again, others decide that the fantasy is better than reality.

Personally, all jiggling flesh looked the same to me the one time I went with my boyfriend (his friends treated him for his birthday). It's an experience is all I can say. C said that he couldn't get aroused in such a place (too noisy and crowded), so he's rather indifferent about going to them anyway.

I'm not really a fan of strip clubs. If I wouldn't have been invited to a couple of bachelor parties, I would probably never have went. It's just a big tease to me. Why pay money for blue balls, ya know?

Speaking as a person, people get used to what they see all the time. Looking at a different person naked is just that, a different person. I wouldn't take it personal or compare strippers to girlfriends.

My husband has never been to one and has no desire to go. He doesn't get why you would waste money on bad drinks and getting sexually frustrated. I have never been either.

My husband has gone to a few over the years. Usually while on a business trip entertaining male customers or during bachelor parties.

He says he enjoys them, but it isn't a huge deal.

A while ago I took a bath with salts, used my scented soap, then put on scented cream and spray. He came in the room and said, "Damn, Woman! You ever been backstage in a Titty Bar right before the girls go on? That's what this bathroom smells like."

No. I have never been backstage of of "Titty Bar" right before the girls go on. Maybe he has. Evidently.

I asked him if it was a good smell or not so good. He said it was nice, but kind of strong.

I went to The Sugar Shack once when I was about 19 or so. Naked men. It was years ago, and my friends and I got invited to an after party by some of the dancers. We said no. I always wondered what would have happened. It was fun, but not something I ever needed to experience again. I'm glad I did it, but it was a Once in a Lifetime thing.

I think its fine to go with your partner...nothing to lose. I don't go to strip clubs regularly, but I've been a handful of times. Men like to see sexy women naked...plain and simple. That said, strip clubs are an illusion and I don't go, because it feels like you are getting hustled. If you have money to blow, that's another story I guess, but There's nothing really wrong with going to one now and then.

I've never been to a strip club and never want to.

Here's the thing: It isn't important. Your partner's desire to look at naked strangers does not override your comfort levels and what you would or would not be okay with your partner doing. If your partner really wants to go, but you are uncomfortable with it, he ought to respect that. I think it's more important to worry about your partner's boundaries in a relationship than to fulfill a fantasy when you know it would make them upset. Priorities, you know?

Not to mention, most women can go their entire lives without seeking out male strippers. And it's not like women don't like sex just as much as men do, as evidenced by all the activity on Eden Fantasys! Haha. So if a woman can go through life without feeling like she is missing some sort of fundamental experience, a dude will not die from missing out on a strip club.

Everyone's comfort levels are different, but yeah. When you're in a relationship, you absolutely have to consider your partner's feelings when you do stuff like this.