Should I purchase Ella?

Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I keep hearing good things about Ella and it's intriguing. I'm highly considering making it my next purchase. I'm fairly inexperienced with g-spot stimulation, what have been your experiences with Ella and would you recommend her to me?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
39  (87%)
No
6  (13%)
Total votes: 45
Poll is closed
02/27/2012
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Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Quote:
Originally posted by cottonxcandy
I keep hearing good things about Ella and it's intriguing. I'm highly considering making it my next purchase. I'm fairly inexperienced with g-spot stimulation, what have been your experiences with Ella and would you recommend her to me?
The only reason I voted "No" is because there wasn't an other option. Something to consider is that she is a rather large toy for an inexperienced user. LELO makes smaller toys like the Liv and the Gigi that are great for g-spot as well. If you know where your g-spot is located and what kind of stimulation it likes, I really would never turn any one away from great vibes like these from LELO.

Also, these are expensive toys and an investment for sure (worth it and great warranty/customer service). I'm sure you have considered this. You can also check out the Mona by LELO. However, you are going to have more freedom of motion with the Liv, Gigi and Ella which would probably be good if you're experimenting with your g-spot. The Ella seems to be thicker and longer than the Liv and the Gigi. The Gigi has that flat tip that allows for more g-spot coverage.

But honestly, if you are really feeling strongly about this vibe, then I really would listen to your gut and do what feels right; this is what I do even after reading the reviews on things and it really has not steered me wrong before. I love LELO and truly believe that whichever vibe you choose from them, you will be happy with. I wish you all the best with your purchase. I'd really like to know how it works out!
02/27/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
Ella seems to be everyone's go-to dildo (Even my friend who never had any toys before lists her as a favorite out of the 10 or so toys I got her) but she didn't work for me. I personally like broad, light g-spot stimulation, and one side was too intense and the other was too pointy. For $40 (less on sale or as a buyout) I think that it's a great toy to figure out what you like and what you should invest in when you look at higher priced toys.
02/27/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I would recommend a harder material (i.e. glass or stainless steel) instead. Reason being, it's easier to 'find' your g-spot with such a material.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
^ Do you have the Ella ? I'm just asking because she is rather firm - there's hardly and squeeze there ! The "neck" takes a lot of pressure to bend, too and while I can bend it with my hand, I doubt it's bending inside me (my vagina is not that strong ).

I know that "silicone" sounds squishy and soft, but Ella's silicone is dense and firm.


This toy was the first toy that found my g-spot. I can't promise it will work for all anatomy - and there are certainly people it doesn't work for. It's about a 1.5" toy, and this was a "step up" toy for me from 1" - it took a bit of stretching, but I could use it first try.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
I used to think this was a pretty hot toy. After reading reviews and talking to those who have used it, not glowing.
02/28/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Ella doesn't work for me, but I know it does for many. It's very dependent on what type of stimulation you prefer and where your G spot is. Since you're new to G spot play, it will be hard to say 100% if Ella will be a fit for you or not. It's one of the cheaper Lelo toys though, so it's worth a shot.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Until I used Ella the first time, I was begining to wonder if I even had a g-spot. I still haven't had a g-spot orgasm, but Ella and Icicles no 17 both get me very close and one day I think it will happen. But I know we are all different, so you have to decide what is appealing to you, and what do you want to try?
02/28/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
It doesn't look appealing to me
02/28/2012
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I plan to get it for myself on of these days, and it has a reasonable price so I vote yes, definitely get it.
02/28/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Well it really depends, you better just do enough research, and give it a shot, then see if it is good enough for you or not... I doubt it though that it would be totally useless for you, you already know you want a silicone dildo, also that Ella works well for many people's spots, so I assume it is really something what you would enjoy at least a little bit if not so immensely, but yep, I am thinking about getting it too, and will see how much I like it... ^^
02/28/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
Thank you all for the responses! I'm fairly certain Ella will be my next purchase I've found my g-spot already and I'm able to hit it with a couple of toys, but nothing I own has quite been right. I've already decided that I'm purchasing the Uma with my next pay check, but honestly I'm hoping it will be the perfect clitoral vibrator for me. I know I want something a little more curved for my g-spot and for some reason the Ella has really caught my eye!
02/28/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
Quote:
Originally posted by cottonxcandy
Thank you all for the responses! I'm fairly certain Ella will be my next purchase I've found my g-spot already and I'm able to hit it with a couple of toys, but nothing I own has quite been right. I've already decided that I'm ... more
Uma doesn't do much for me externally - it's a strong toy, but if you need more "pinpoint" or "directed" vibrations, it's not great for that.

If you like more "diffused" vibrations, I can see Uma working well, but the shape just doesn't work for me unless it's super-strong like a wand - and this seems like a common preference. Just a thought.

Also, if it makes a difference, Uma is a fair bit larger than Ella to use internally, due to the shapes.
02/28/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
Any suggestions on a fantastically strong vibrator? I have the Hitachi but it isn't pinpointed enough. I tend to push my vibrators really hard against my clitoris and I need something that will stand up to that.
02/28/2012
Contributor: tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by cottonxcandy
I keep hearing good things about Ella and it's intriguing. I'm highly considering making it my next purchase. I'm fairly inexperienced with g-spot stimulation, what have been your experiences with Ella and would you recommend her to me?
It doesn't look appealing to me
03/05/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by cottonxcandy
I keep hearing good things about Ella and it's intriguing. I'm highly considering making it my next purchase. I'm fairly inexperienced with g-spot stimulation, what have been your experiences with Ella and would you recommend her to me?
Sure, why not? It's pretty inexpensive and have very good reviews.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I would go ahead and get it.
04/21/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by cottonxcandy
I keep hearing good things about Ella and it's intriguing. I'm highly considering making it my next purchase. I'm fairly inexperienced with g-spot stimulation, what have been your experiences with Ella and would you recommend her to me?
I havent heard of it personally.
04/21/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
I have been debating on getting the Ella for well over a year. And now that my collection has boomed in size because of EF (me lurve you wrong time Eden!!!) I am actually thinking of maybe saving my point for Olga rather than Ella because I can.

But meh. I have no idea!!!
04/21/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I just ordered an Ella because I kept hearing from women that Ella helped them find their G-spot and/or learn how to squirt and/or have G-spot orgasms. Really excited to see if Ella works as well for me as she did for some of the reviewers I've seen!
04/22/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
curious
05/17/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I just ordered mine - should be here this weekend. I'll let you know how it goes!
05/17/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by cottonxcandy
I keep hearing good things about Ella and it's intriguing. I'm highly considering making it my next purchase. I'm fairly inexperienced with g-spot stimulation, what have been your experiences with Ella and would you recommend her to me?
yes thay r really nice
05/17/2012
Contributor: bh253 bh253
Just got mine! You can always check out my review. I believe it is a staple everyone should have in their toybox, and it should work for most women.
05/24/2012
Contributor: SkinFlute SkinFlute
The Ella has pretty good reviews
05/27/2012
Contributor: FriskyInFlorida FriskyInFlorida
go for it!
06/19/2012
Contributor: heezag heezag
do it!
06/25/2012