Does his size really matter?

Contributor: Yiz's #1 Bunny!! Yiz's #1 Bunny!!
So my bff's new guy is kinda small (if ya know what I mean). So we r trying to figure out if other people think size dowse matter. Help us
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
Yiz's #1 Bunny!! , Rossie , Shellz31 , wetone123 , melissa1973 , Ansley , Pink Jewel , butterflygirlxo , CreamySweet , voenne , poetprincess , jj1228 , slynch , Ms. Spice , GonetoLovehoney , dv8 , SiNn , Paladin Fantasys , Tuesday , bayosgirl , DeliciousSurprise
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No
arewehavingfun?
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Depends!
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Total votes: 44 (40 voters)
Poll is closed
11/25/2011
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
It matters if it's REALLY small, thank goodness I've never come across one like that.

One way for a guy to makeup for having a smaller penis, is to have great oral and handjob skills.
11/25/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
It matters to me if a guy is under 4" or over 8" in length. I'd rather a guy be shorter than longer (over 8") cause I can't cater for the length.
11/25/2011
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
Yes it matters just ask my X husband lol. I prefer a decenty 7" or so.
11/25/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I've only been with enormous and average. Average doesn't feel quite as good, but it also never hurts, and is attached to a much better human being. So it depends.
11/25/2011
Contributor: Pink Jewel Pink Jewel
of course
11/25/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
If it was so small I couldn't feel it or so big that it hurt that might be a problem, but we could always focus on other activities other than penetration. As long as he didn't mind that, I wouldn't mind.
11/25/2011
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Yes
11/25/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I'm not going to answer, maybe if our names weren't on it. But, hurt feelings could result by some answers.

Also, there is a lot more to sex than PIV. A partner's oral skills, skill with toys, positions, and his or her hands and mouth, imagination and endurance is more important than simply size.
11/25/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
Girth makes a difference more than length, IMO. But it is important to me, because if I can't feel a guy while he's too small, sex just feels like a chore. It differs from person to person, there's always a better fit for everyone.
11/25/2011
Contributor: allinonekid allinonekid
Bigger is nearly always better. If he's small though, it'd just be one more reason for me to get new toys !
11/26/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Yiz's #1 Bunny!!
So my bff's new guy is kinda small (if ya know what I mean). So we r trying to figure out if other people think size dowse matter. Help us
I'm sorry to say that I was at one time one of those woman who always said that size did not matter. my children's father was pretty big and he was not too bad in bed but the guy I dated after him and I was the size of my pinkie and it bothered me so much. The guy I am with now and have been with for the past four years is nice sized and he has never had a problem making me cum.
11/26/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
I wish this question would be put to rest. I agree with P'Gell. I like the word intimacy better than sex because if it is an intimate act, it is so much more fulfilling.

Women both complain that men are obsessed with the size of their penis and perpetuate the myths also. If you want your man to act like a man, in and out of the bedroom, act like a woman, in and out of the bedroom.
11/26/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I feel like it only does if he's under 2" or over 7", because my boyfriend right now is 6 and even then is too large on some days.
11/26/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Yiz's #1 Bunny!!
So my bff's new guy is kinda small (if ya know what I mean). So we r trying to figure out if other people think size dowse matter. Help us
i clicked depends and yes yes because my man im with is huge and ima ddicted i clicked dpeneds because we have extra marital fun so if our partner isnta sendowed if hes good at what he doe sim ok with it
11/26/2011
Contributor: Paladin Fantasys Paladin Fantasys
I need at least 6" and 1 1/2" diameter to really get off. My wife can't take more than 5" without pain.
11/26/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
It matters but it's not the only thing that matters. And there's nothing wrong with average either.
11/26/2011
Contributor: Talena Talena
It matters...if they are small and know how to use then its ok..but if they are small and thinking they are john holmes then there is alot of "slipping out" and too much of that is never good. Or if they are big and thinking they are small then they can tend to get way too rough...just my opinion.
11/26/2011
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
The only thing that matters to me is if it's too big. I'm not one for big toys and I love my bf's exactly average size, but before him I was only with women... nothing is too small for me ^_^
11/27/2011
Contributor: LuckyDucky LuckyDucky
Quote:
Originally posted by Yiz's #1 Bunny!!
So my bff's new guy is kinda small (if ya know what I mean). So we r trying to figure out if other people think size dowse matter. Help us
I've dated people of all sizes, from quite small to "omg what do I do with this" large. In reality I learned its all in the confidence of the male in what he's doing. Its a lot like the cliche of "you can't judge a book by its cover". Same idea. Don't just a male by what he's blessed (or not) with. If he if confident and into the action it will not be a problem.
11/27/2011
Contributor: cheetahpita cheetahpita
Quote:
Originally posted by LuckyDucky
I've dated people of all sizes, from quite small to "omg what do I do with this" large. In reality I learned its all in the confidence of the male in what he's doing. Its a lot like the cliche of "you can't judge a book by ... more
agreed!
11/27/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I think it would only matter to me if he was too large so as to cause discomfort or pain. If he was small enough to the point where I could derive no pleasure from his penetrating me, he could make up for it in other ways.

But there's no way I'm letting some guy with a horse cock tear me apart.
11/27/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
It does make a difference....Is it THE defining factor for good sex, let alone a good relationship. No.
11/28/2011
Contributor: eeep eeep
It makes a difference, but as long as they can satisfy me I am happy. There is a such thing as too large and too small, but it has to be either uncomfortable or unsatisfying to be a big deal for me. After all there are always toys for if I just have to have something bigger some days. So as long as he has an open mind...
11/28/2011
Contributor: Rhinobaby Rhinobaby
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
It does make a difference....Is it THE defining factor for good sex, let alone a good relationship. No.
I disagree. A guy can get me to come even if he doesn't have a penis at all.
11/28/2011
Contributor: sexy19364 sexy19364
I think it doesn't really matter. In my opinion, oral skills are the more defining factor.
12/08/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Penis size is completely inconsequential. She may even discover that because of his small penis, he tries even harder to satisfy her.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
Nope, not at all. My husband is also small, but the best love I have EVER had!
12/10/2011