Best Beginner Toy??

Contributor: Miaever Miaever
Just getting into toys and was curious to see what people think are good starters.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Bullets, shoot'em up....
Any Dildo'll do!!
Traditional Vibrators
Only your body will truly know, it is a beautiful exploration of your body's contours. (say it with a straight face now)
Anything, Hell as long as it gets me off...no need to get overly critical
Poll is closed
12/23/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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12/23/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Your poll is closed...
12/23/2011
Contributor: lexical lexical
lol, whoops! I'll just type my response out. I think the best option is an affordable, yet powerful, traditional vibrator. You can use it internally or externally, unlike most bullets, and you can use it with the vibrations on or off, unlike a plain old dildo.
12/23/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I'd say something simple, sterilizable, slender, and somewhat classy. The Lovemoiselle Elodie is like a classy, sterilizable version of the first toy I made for myself when I was a youngster. I wish someone had given a dildo like Elodie to me when I was 14 or so.
12/23/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Antipova
I'd say something simple, sterilizable, slender, and somewhat classy. The Lovemoiselle Elodie is like a classy, sterilizable version of the first toy I made for myself when I was a youngster. I wish someone had given a dildo like Elodie to me ... more
Sooo..gotta ask. What did you make this first dildo from? Did you hand carve something?
12/23/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I personally really like my Seduction for both internal and external use!
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If you're looking for something a bot smaller two affordable clitoral stimulators that I love are
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12/23/2011
Contributor: Nothere Nothere
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Originally posted by Antipova
I'd say something simple, sterilizable, slender, and somewhat classy. The Lovemoiselle Elodie is like a classy, sterilizable version of the first toy I made for myself when I was a youngster. I wish someone had given a dildo like Elodie to me ... more
Ditto. You don't want to know what I was using at 14 *wince*
12/23/2011
Contributor: Nothere Nothere
Vibrators: Any bullet with control pack would make for a good first vibe, and they're always handy.

As for internal vibrators...

A less expensive vibe I liked was the the Waterproof turbo glider raspberry crush. I liked it a lot and it's still a nice, basic vibrator that I love, but it has some texture and it's quite loud sometimes. But it's cheap in price. If you're wary of texture, the blueberry version has no texture and is similar.

Other really inexpensive, but not jelly, beginner vibes would be the Doc Johnson Velvet Touch or the black magic, which comes by itself or in this really neat kit. I had one that was similar to both and liked it a lot.

The seduction looks good as well. I don't own it, but the seduction or any of Evolved's traditional vibrators look really really good, and Evolved's toys are really well made, though a bit more expensive than the Doc Johnson or Cal Exotics *see above* toys I mentioned.

I would suggest the Lelo Gigi. It was great for g spot stimulation. However, I read your other post about being on a budget, so that one may not be so feasible. But it was one of my firsts and my first luxury vibe and I loved it!

And if you're interested in powerful clit vibrations, nothing beats the powerhouse Hitachi.

As for dildos...

I have to admit, I love love love glass. So, I will recommend the Bent Graduate I've not read a single truly negative review of it. It's amazing for g spot stimulation.

For a traditional dildo, I like the The B2B Sceptor. It's a great beginner toy, though a bit expensive.

Stick to plastic if you aren't going to shell out for silicone (vibrators). Jelly really isn't the way to go. Unless you really want the really really realistic, stick to plastic, silicone (which is realistic, just much more expensive), glass, metal, or wood. It's much safer and theres no nasty smells.

I can not recommend glass dildos enough. YOU NEED THE BENT GRADUATE if you're a g spot fan. But glass in general is divine.

Good Luck!
12/23/2011
Contributor: Miaever Miaever
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Originally posted by - Kira -
Your poll is closed...
Sorry I realized that I put under Eden and not a more appropriate tag so I closed this.... didn't realty expect responses. Sorry rookie mistake!!!! I moved this tho Personal Experiece... I think!?!
12/24/2011
Contributor: Miaever Miaever
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Originally posted by Nothere
Vibrators: Any bullet with control pack would make for a good first vibe, and they're always handy.

As for internal vibrators...

A less expensive vibe I liked was the the Waterproof turbo glider raspberry crush. I liked it a lot ... more
Dang you have given me a lot of Great choice this will definitely influence my purchase
12/24/2011
Contributor: Miaever Miaever
Quote:
Originally posted by lexical
lol, whoops! I'll just type my response out. I think the best option is an affordable, yet powerful, traditional vibrator. You can use it internally or externally, unlike most bullets, and you can use it with the vibrations on or off, unlike a ... more
This is very true...and oops is right I wasn't sure if ppl would get mad if I put this under the wrong tag so I closed it but thanks for the feed back...(I have had unpleasant reaction in other site forums)
12/24/2011
Contributor: Miaever Miaever
Quote:
Originally posted by Nothere
Vibrators: Any bullet with control pack would make for a good first vibe, and they're always handy.

As for internal vibrators...

A less expensive vibe I liked was the the Waterproof turbo glider raspberry crush. I liked it a lot ... more
I am looking into the Classic chic vibe have you any thoughts on this and thank you for your help!
12/24/2011
Contributor: Nothere Nothere
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Originally posted by Miaever
I am looking into the Classic chic vibe have you any thoughts on this and thank you for your help!
Wow that looks like a nice vibe. this one, right?Cal Exotics, for me at least, is a bit of a hit or miss company. Some of its vibes are amazing (price and quality), others are just not worth it. You seem to have stumbled upon a nice vibe! I don't own this one, but it looks great!

With these cheaper traditional vibes, the 2 big things that differentiates one from another are power and durability. In design, they are a dime a dozen, but how well each is made differs. For under 20 bucks, this looks like a great choice. The reviews say it's loud, so you might want to consider that, but it seems quite strong (an average of 4 vrooms is quite strong). Looking at a couple of the follow up reviews, I notice that even after a few months (or even longer) the vibe seems to be still going strong which is great.

IMO that looks like a great beginner vibe. The PU coat will make it very velvety and smooth Let us know what you decide on! Good Luck!
12/24/2011
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
If you've never had penetration before, I'd recommend you try something that can at least by used well externally, too.

It's frustrating to get a toy that is too big for you to use comfortably, especially for your first.

Depending on how much you want to spend, you could get a good yet cheap bullet and a dildo/insertable vibe.

I have the Ultimate Massager, and for $25, I was really freaking impressed.


Buying my first vibrator, I did a lot of research based on what I knew about myself. I knew I couldn't climax from hands alone - and I'd had a weak and ineffective "classic" vibe before - I knew I needed something stronger.

I don't think you can go wrong with MiMi if you're willing to spend the money and / or save up those points ! That one has such a wide variety of vibration intensities that you can find one that's just right.
12/24/2011
Contributor: Miaever Miaever
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Originally posted by Chirple
If you've never had penetration before, I'd recommend you try something that can at least by used well externally, too.

It's frustrating to get a toy that is too big for you to use comfortably, especially for your ... more
Length is not an issue girth though is... I have had some unpleasant experiences with anything bigger than 1" ( toys). My friend just kinda expected us to jump into the toy experiance but boy were we ever wrong.
12/24/2011
Contributor: Miaever Miaever
I am now looking into bullets/eggs (make a combo with Classic chic vibe) $15-$16 and under, these are some that caught my eye:

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Bullets seem to be more overwhelming than vibrators again suggestions are HIGHLY appreciated
12/24/2011
Contributor: Nothere Nothere
I did a review on thePocket exotics bullet.

It's a great bullet. The bullets I've tried (read the cheaper bullets) are quite buzzy and can be a bit numbing if used for a long session. But it's a great starter vibe.

Unless you're looking at the double bullets for a specific reason, I think that a single bullet would suffice. And the two single ones don't look much different.
12/25/2011