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Contributor: Ansley Ansley


Summer doesn't officially start for another thirty days or so and it's the perfect time to start planning! To help you set the mood for romance this summer we are giving away a $300 Coquette shopping spree on Eden Cafe. Click the link to find out how to enter!

In addition to that, there's a 20% off coupon available for the entire site - just enter SUMMERFUN into the promo code/coupon box to take advantage of the discount. This coupon is valid until Tuesday, May 29th.

Thinking back have you ever had a steamy romance during the summer - a true-blue "summer fling"? Did you ever run into that person again?

For the single folks among us, do you think this summer looks promising for finding a new love interest or someone just to share the summer with? Where do you like to meet new people?

What is your absolute favorite thing to do during the summer and are you able to incorporate sex toys into your hobby?

Are there any romantic vacations in your near future? What's an ideal summer vacation sound like to you?
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I've never had a summer fling, but I think they're romantic and appeal to that side of me quite a bit.

I love to be anywhere near water during the summer and if I were crafty enough I could sneak one of my waterproof toys out on the lake with us and do whatever. But, sadly I'm allergic to the sun and I can only go out at night so it doesn't matter anyway.

I think the most romantic/ideal summer vacation would be to pick a really small town in Ireland and just go hang out for the entire summer and get acquainted with a life that's very different from our own. Or a trip to Turtle Island in Fiji. Either/or works for me.
05/21/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've never had a summer fling because I never went anywhere during the summer to be able to have one.

My favorite thing to do during the summer is play with the kids in their pool. It's 3 1/2ft deep and 15 ft wide so it's perfect for my 3 and 5 year olds and I'm able to catch some sun and do some water aerobics.

The ideal summer vacation would be anything because my husband is not the traveling kind and my father never was either so I've never been on vacation before. I've been on school trips before but that's different than vacation with family or friends.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I've never had a summer fling because I never went anywhere during the summer to be able to have one.

My favorite thing to do during the summer is play with the kids in their pool. It's 3 1/2ft deep and 15 ft wide so it's ... more
Never ever? Aw, that's sad. Hmm we should have an Eden get together, surely that's worth traveling for!

We're going on vacation in two weeks (hope you all miss me terribly while I'm gone *evil grin*) and I get to meet Sam but we're not going for a totally happy reason so it's kind of a mixed situation. Hubs and I have only been on three vacations with each other and only one of them was romantic.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
I've never had a summer fling unless you count when we started dating..
We have always tried to take the kids some where each summer as neither of us had parents who took us on vacation. We have been to some neat places and some we won't go back to.
The past three years hubby and I have had our vacation in Haiti doing medical missions with our church. While it is hard work, we truly enjoy it and call it our vacation.
Hubby and I did go to Washington and New Jersey this spring and had a great time-just the two of us!
A good vacation would be anywhere that we were together.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Never had a legit summer fling but hopefully this summer can produce a fun one! No vacation spots in mind though.
05/23/2012
Contributor: macho99 macho99
Virgin boy has never had a fling. Though when I do take the public bus, I try to be plugged up. I just make sure that I have re-lubing stops.
05/23/2012
Contributor: xlustlovex xlustlovex
never had a summer fling.
05/23/2012
Contributor: bh253 bh253
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Summer doesn't officially start for another thirty days or so and it's the perfect time to start planning! To help you set the mood for romance this summer we are giving away a $300 Coquette shopping spree on Eden Cafe. Click the link to find ... more
Never had a summer fling.

My favorite thing to do in summer is relax. Surely, I can incorporate toys into that.

Never been on a romantic vacation, though if I did, I would love to go somewhere exotic or to Disneyland. Can't tell you why, but I have always wanted to go to Disneyland with someone I love. LOL
05/23/2012
Contributor: DiscretionAdvised DiscretionAdvised
We have a honeymoon planned for the tropics next Feb. It's always summer there!

I can't wait. So much sex.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
My perfect summer vaca would be a cottage on a lake, quiet, private with lots of good food!
05/23/2012
Contributor: Jim Dougher Jim Dougher
Love those summer encounters! Love to be seduced by someone in that semi-private grove or woodsy setting
05/23/2012
Contributor: MissManners MissManners
Well I am going away this summer so I'm sure to throw some sex toys in with the luggage ^_^
05/23/2012
Contributor: zombiphile zombiphile
Hmm.. My ideal summer vacation would be somewhere in Europe. I'd just like to do some out of country shopping. Perhaps visit a London whipping haus.:p
05/23/2012
Contributor: Internet Brat Internet Brat
I have had many summer flings in the past, and they are the best kind in my opinion. Some I never seen again and others I still talk to. There's just something about the warm weather that brings desire and romance out heh heh
05/23/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
I have never had a summer fling. Although now that the kids are gone, I"m looking forward to a lot of camping and outdoor fun.
05/23/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
What is your absolute favorite thing to do during the summer and are you able to incorporate sex toys into your hobby?
I love to take a stroll in the park or go to the Beach and swim! I don't think I can incorporate toys when I do these things. LOL

Are there any romantic vacations in your near future? What's an ideal summer vacation sound like to you?
Idk about romantic vacations but I did go to San Diego, CA with my husband and daughter recently! We had a blast. I love it there. A romantic getaway location for me would be Hawaii!
05/23/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I just want to go to the beach and kick back. I want to see the ocean and get some sun. I wouldn't mind going topless and smoking some sweet leaf too.
05/23/2012
Contributor: kittykat21 kittykat21
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Summer doesn't officially start for another thirty days or so and it's the perfect time to start planning! To help you set the mood for romance this summer we are giving away a $300 Coquette shopping spree on Eden Cafe. Click the link to find ... more
Shopping spree from eden and coquette. Go to edens cafe to register awesome
05/23/2012
Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
Most of my relationships have started in the summer, but they ended up being long-term relationships versus flings.

Any vacation sounds like an awesome one to me. I just want to go on a blatantly unplanned road trip, or go camping. That's all I can afford for now. c:
05/23/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm not the fling-type. This may be good for the male species.

This summer will be hip-deep in summer classes (online), so no chance of meeting anyone for any sort of romance. And I'm still tender from losing former-Master.

Although, if I had the money, I'd travel to England so I could visit former-Master, as distance and lack of money are really the only things in the way. I don't care about the Olympics - just spending a few weeks of summer with him would be lovely.
05/23/2012
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I must admit, I've never had a summer fling--but I did wind up with an autumn love from a summer crush.
05/23/2012
Contributor: DominaJen DominaJen
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Summer doesn't officially start for another thirty days or so and it's the perfect time to start planning! To help you set the mood for romance this summer we are giving away a $300 Coquette shopping spree on Eden Cafe. Click the link to find ... more
I did have a summer fling before heading out of state for college. We wrote each other and did date for a little while after I got home.

I'm not single, but bi and I have recently met someone I am planning on spending much the summer with. I've been meeting new like minded people at kink events recently.

I love to swim and I have a bullet that attaches to a shower poofy for after swim fun in the shower

No planned romantic vacas, but we are going to do some day trips for sure. Ideal summer vaca would be going somewhere with beautiful beaches and super clean clear water.
05/23/2012
Contributor: SelectZen SelectZen
Were only just getting the sun over here in Ireland, been miserable weather for months.
05/23/2012
Contributor: chickyto82 chickyto82
Never had a summer fling but we love to go camping by ourselves and listen to the wild life.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Kabookie Kabookie
My summer started with a chance encounter on St. Valentines Day.
We met for the first time and it still is heating up!
Cupid hit the mark this summer and I feel it's going to get very hot...
05/23/2012
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
I can't remember the last summer I did anything but work, so no fling for me. Although I'm much happier with my mate then I ever could be with a silly temporary thing. ^_^
05/23/2012
Contributor: Chrissie Chrissie
Summer flings!! I had a summer fling once on the island on the Caribbean island of Barbuda. I was down there vacationing and I met a wonderful man who showed me a helluva good time. We were only together for about a week but boy oh boy did I enjoy my time spent there. The beaches, horseback rides, views and oh, of course the having sex everywhere too! I did this about 6 years ago and I'm thinking it might be time to try for another summer trip/fling!
05/23/2012
Contributor: Beatitude Beatitude
No summer flings here! I don't like summer, lol. It's almost too hot to enjoy getting close to people.

But what does sound good is running glass and steel toys under cold water, or putting the steel ones in the fridge for a while. That is how I plan to beat out summer.
05/23/2012
Contributor: ToyQuest ToyQuest
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Summer doesn't officially start for another thirty days or so and it's the perfect time to start planning! To help you set the mood for romance this summer we are giving away a $300 Coquette shopping spree on Eden Cafe. Click the link to find ... more
I've never had a summer fling...it's never worked out, mostly because I've never met anyone during the summer...I have semester flings.

I don't think this summer will be promising for me, since I'll be studying for the bar, but if the person I was with on and off for 5 years gets his act together and will commit, I'm all in.

I like reading over the summers, though I'm usually working and am too exhausted to do much reading. I like getting off in the shower with my toys though.

No romantic vacations planned for me, but I did read about these hotels that are intended for sex, they have private pools and everything. While I'm not a big water person, that sounds like fun. The ideal vacation for me would be a sex filled one with a significant other.
05/23/2012