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Reviewers Spotlight - September 1st @ 8pm: Dwtim and ZenaidaMacroura

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Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
keep trying. maybe some day when he's super turned on you can try again? my boy had to try with me, and keep at me for a long time before i enjoyed anal.
Yeah. I'm gonna keep trying. I just need to get him SUPER drunk and SUPER horny. That's usually when he lets me do my freaky stuff. Haha.
09/01/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Ivy Wilde
What was the most difficult review for you to write?
Tenga Flip Hole. Every review I had read just generalized the texture, I want to describe it the best I could, took me two days to get it where I liked it. Another more recent one was the Masseuse 3 DVD. It was very hard not to bash it into the ground.
09/01/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
kinda random question... has anyone ever turned in a review overdue? i did 2 days ago... (oops!) and it was 2 days after the admin sent me the email saying 'its overdue, please write it!' and it still hasnt been published.

i''ve gotten to the point where i dont have to go through editors before my reviews are published... so i'm wondering why this one is taking so long?
09/01/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
Have you tried just using your finger? It feels great when giving oral at the same time. The main issue is he needs to be really relaxed and comfortable.
Yeah, he'll let me use a finger, but pretty much only on the outside, which he loves. If it goes in more than about a centimeter, he starts flipping out, even if I give him plenty of warning. He just doesn't like how it feels.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
I am writing all of these down. We have used fingers of course, small plugs and thin vibes and dildos. He was so cute the first time I brought up anything anal on his part. I think he just had to get past the preconcieved stuff.
I'm more than happy to keep talking about it in messages if you want. My husband is a total anal newbie, and I like small dildos and things like that, so we've got a whole bunch of smaller things. But I do definitely recommend the Please. I've heard good things about the Silk Small too, but the Please looks like it would do a better job of simulating a finger
09/01/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
I am writing all of these down. We have used fingers of course, small plugs and thin vibes and dildos. He was so cute the first time I brought up anything anal on his part. I think he just had to get past the preconcieved stuff.
1" to 1-1/4" is a good size to start out. Also, if you have a choice, softer materials obviously are easier and feel smaller than harder materials.
09/01/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
That's so cool. I'm really trying to get my bf to budge on the whole pegging thing, but he won't at all. He let me try out my small silk on him once, and he said it felt unsettling, so now he won't do anything like that.
They have the little finger ones that are really small and unintrusive, we started with one like that...they have one similar here. It is small and kind of ehh but will maybe put him at ease. link
09/01/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Tenga Flip Hole. Every review I had read just generalized the texture, I want to describe it the best I could, took me two days to get it where I liked it. Another more recent one was the Masseuse 3 DVD. It was very hard not to bash it into the ... more
hahaha... i reviewed that too! i pretty much DID bash it to the ground. that was awful. thinking of selling it on ebay cause i dont even want to GIVE that thing to anyone i know. yuck.
09/01/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
kinda random question... has anyone ever turned in a review overdue? i did 2 days ago... (oops!) and it was 2 days after the admin sent me the email saying 'its overdue, please write it!' and it still hasnt been ... more
Oh my gosh, yes, I've turned in late reviews. Way too often, really. And way later than that.

Hmm. If you don't have to go through editing, it should just auto-publish. I don't know why it wouldn't.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
kinda random question... has anyone ever turned in a review overdue? i did 2 days ago... (oops!) and it was 2 days after the admin sent me the email saying 'its overdue, please write it!' and it still hasnt been ... more
If it was a descriptive review, that might be why it hasn't published yet.
09/01/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
Oh my gosh, yes, I've turned in late reviews. Way too often, really. And way later than that.

Hmm. If you don't have to go through editing, it should just auto-publish. I don't know why it wouldn't.
well, it said 'submit to administrator' and now it's just waiting... i guess for the admin to publish it?
09/01/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
Have either of you reviewed an item that you were unsure of and nervous to use? How did the experience turn out?
The Eleven for sure, it was the biggest I had yet to use. I had used stainless so that was not a worry. I am so glad I did, it has made anal fun more pleasurable and let me move on to bigger toys.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
I had a sneezing fit and walked away for a bit. Did I miss anything good?
09/01/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
Oh my gosh, yes, I've turned in late reviews. Way too often, really. And way later than that.

Hmm. If you don't have to go through editing, it should just auto-publish. I don't know why it wouldn't.
good to know im not the only one who procrastinates though!
09/01/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
They have the little finger ones that are really small and unintrusive, we started with one like that...they have one similar here. It is small and kind of ehh but will maybe put him at ease. link ... more
Yeah. I have the small silk, but I think that's still too intimidating. That one you linked looks better for him.
09/01/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I'm more than happy to keep talking about it in messages if you want. My husband is a total anal newbie, and I like small dildos and things like that, so we've got a whole bunch of smaller things. But I do definitely recommend the Please. ... more
Will do, I will get with you once he gets home. He should be in from tommorow until tuesday.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
well, it said 'submit to administrator' and now it's just waiting... i guess for the admin to publish it?
Ya, that sounds like a DR to me. It's in, don't worry too much about it
09/01/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
If it was a descriptive review, that might be why it hasn't published yet.
oooh... because an admin has to read it? im not sure of that process. and why do folks need descriptive reviews rather than regular ones? i usually try to be pretty subjective in both types of reviews. thanks for your help.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
Yeah, he'll let me use a finger, but pretty much only on the outside, which he loves. If it goes in more than about a centimeter, he starts flipping out, even if I give him plenty of warning. He just doesn't like how it feels.
He's too tense then. A lot of external stimulation first can help. Either stroke his perineal region with a lubed hand or rim him if you are comfortable with that. Also, don't stimulate his penis, that makes him tighten up more as he gets more excited. Maybe start with a massage and ten focus on his butt/perineum?
09/01/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
Will do, I will get with you once he gets home. He should be in from tommorow until tuesday.
Cool beans

I'm taking a half day tomorrow, but I can do messages from my phone
09/01/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
1" to 1-1/4" is a good size to start out. Also, if you have a choice, softer materials obviously are easier and feel smaller than harder materials.
Ya'll should see the notes Im taking lolol. Remind me to put these up when I am done so the kiddos dont stumble upon them...that would be awkward.
09/01/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
Yeah. I have the small silk, but I think that's still too intimidating. That one you linked looks better for him.
also note that the small silk is listed as 1" diameter but it is NOT! it's only 3/4" diameter. good to know when shopping for something just slightly larger to bump up to!
09/01/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
Oh my gosh, yes, I've turned in late reviews. Way too often, really. And way later than that.

Hmm. If you don't have to go through editing, it should just auto-publish. I don't know why it wouldn't.
DRs don't auto-publish.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
oooh... because an admin has to read it? im not sure of that process. and why do folks need descriptive reviews rather than regular ones? i usually try to be pretty subjective in both types of reviews. thanks for your help.
The big difference between a descriptive review and a regular one is that the DR is quite often the product description. The summary is the first and sometimes only thing that a lot of customers read. Because those are basically going to be the face of the product page, an administrator needs to look them over for approval. They don't always get published right away, so with those all you can really do is be happy that you've completed the assignment
09/01/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
He's too tense then. A lot of external stimulation first can help. Either stroke his perineal region with a lubed hand or rim him if you are comfortable with that. Also, don't stimulate his penis, that makes him tighten up more as he gets ... more
Good advice. I do usually try it during a blowjob or something like that, so he is a little tensed up. I did rim him once when he was super drunk, and he LOVED it. Haha. I think it's also partly a mental thing, like he's just closed off from the idea.
09/01/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
If it was a descriptive review, that might be why it hasn't published yet.
Sam on Desriptive Reviews, we can still upload pictures to the product page right? The Minx is a dr and I know I will be unable to NOT take pictures of it lol.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
oooh... because an admin has to read it? im not sure of that process. and why do folks need descriptive reviews rather than regular ones? i usually try to be pretty subjective in both types of reviews. thanks for your help.
DRs are generally written objectively. They are the featured review on the product page.
09/01/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
DRs don't auto-publish.
Ah, I see. I've never done a DR. Learn something new every day.
09/01/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
Ya'll should see the notes Im taking lolol. Remind me to put these up when I am done so the kiddos dont stumble upon them...that would be awkward.
Feel free to message me as well if you like. I enjoy anal play and we peg as well.
09/01/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
also note that the small silk is listed as 1" diameter but it is NOT! it's only 3/4" diameter. good to know when shopping for something just slightly larger to bump up to!
I originally got it for me, but it was too small. Haha. It is REALLY small.
09/01/2011