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Eden Bloggers – April 28, 2011 at 7pm: Blogger's Club

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Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Kayla
Pssssht. Next month's meeting is How to Get More Visitors to Your Blog, so you should definitely pop in for that.
Omg, I should read all the stuff I'm backed up on before I post! That's EXACTLY what I need!!!! YAY! \o/
04/28/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Blast, sorry for disappearing! My idiot neighbours backed into my housemate's car and I had to go deal with it.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
Lol, I was too slow.
I tend to keep resources like that ready. There's always a post round-up on EdenBloggers to get publicity for your recent blog posts too, so that can help get readers as long as it isn't a review post.
04/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kayla
Being on social networking sites help a lot. Twitter helps me, and Facebook can be okay too. I find Twitter better for getting readers though. There are a ton of mommy-blogger type directories and link directories too.
Yeah I have a friend who has sort of a mommy blog I think I will ask her if I can post mine on hers as well and get some of her subscribers to view mine as well.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Omg, I should read all the stuff I'm backed up on before I post! That's EXACTLY what I need!!!! YAY! \o/
Congrats! For being the first poster on page 5, Kake, you win the Love Balm in your choice of flavor!

(We're going eco-friendly with prizes since last week was Earth Day! The big one is coming up next!)

Please PM me your address so I can get it sent to you. (Or e-mail at kayla@edenfantasys.com is cool too.)
04/28/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Blog directory? Where can I check this out and what do I need to do to qualify to add my blog to it???
I see Kayla got you the link, all you need is to add your blog on the thread
04/28/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Dusk
I usually use italics when I want to emphasize a word like I would when I was speaking. In fact, I often use it for the moments when I would be rolling my eyes if actually talking to you, XD
Same here!
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Pixel
Blast, sorry for disappearing! My idiot neighbours backed into my housemate's car and I had to go deal with it.
Ick. That would not be fun. Hope it isn't too bad!
04/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kayla
I tend to keep resources like that ready. There's always a post round-up on EdenBloggers to get publicity for your recent blog posts too, so that can help get readers as long as it isn't a review post.
My notepad is filling up, trying to refresh and take notes lol.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Definitely looking forward to next month's club meeting then, I need all the tips I can get! Still working on establishing a loyal base of readers.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
I've noticed quite a few hits on my blog are coming from Eden!
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Kayla
The first thing to understand is what we're talking about and why you'd ever want to use it. The coding that you'd use for your blog is called HTML. This coding is pretty basic, and it's the basic coding that all websites are made ... more
Id like to take out an odd blank space in one of my sidebars and reduce the sidebars from 1 to 2. However, I think my current wordpress theme doesn't allow editing of the template, so I'm screwed, right? I'd also like to be able to make my own templates, at least for blogger, if not wordpress. (I have one on each site. The blogger blog is my erotic poetry blog since it's nsfw & i've heard a lot about wordpress removing sites w/ adult content recently).
04/28/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I do really need to get around to some php/css coding though, I need to make a child theme for Wordpress but I haven't gotten around to it yet. Hopefully my theme doesn't get updated soon or I'll lose the shit I already did.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I think Google is having server issues, I had problems with my email earlier
that would explain it. damn interwebs!
04/28/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Kayla
Ick. That would not be fun. Hope it isn't too bad!
Ehhhh. Her car is all jacked up, but not totaled. She is not going to be happy when she gets home!
04/28/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Id like to take out an odd blank space in one of my sidebars and reduce the sidebars from 1 to 2. However, I think my current wordpress theme doesn't allow editing of the template, so I'm screwed, right? I'd also like to be able to make ... more
You should be able to edit any wordpress theme if it's hosted on your own domain - there's an "editor" with a ton of the code and everything in. Some are locked though so you have to purchase the Pro theme to make edits.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
My notepad is filling up, trying to refresh and take notes lol.
Don't worry too much. The forum thread doesn't go anywhere, so you can always check in later, too.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
I need to change my blog header, its so basic and boring right now
04/28/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Id like to take out an odd blank space in one of my sidebars and reduce the sidebars from 1 to 2. However, I think my current wordpress theme doesn't allow editing of the template, so I'm screwed, right? I'd also like to be able to make ... more
Yes, I heard of wordpress removing adult blog.

I'm self-hosted, just using the wordpress platform, so I think that is what kept me safe.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Dusk
Definitely looking forward to next month's club meeting then, I need all the tips I can get! Still working on establishing a loyal base of readers.
It takes awhile. That's really the biggest part. Getting people to your blog and then having good content to make them come back.
04/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Id like to take out an odd blank space in one of my sidebars and reduce the sidebars from 1 to 2. However, I think my current wordpress theme doesn't allow editing of the template, so I'm screwed, right? I'd also like to be able to make ... more
Yeah Im a little curious just how much you can say on them without them getting pulled.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Kayla
I actually started a personal Google Calendar because I kept getting lost by dates and meetings.
my dumbass accidentally added the ENTIRE CLUB CALENDER to my calender. I still have to customize it to get the popups & texts though, i think.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Lady Venus
Yes, I heard of wordpress removing adult blog.



I'm self-hosted, just using the wordpress platform, so I think that is what kept me safe.
I've heard a lot of issues lately with Wordpress removing adult blogs, so I'd be careful. They also are against advertising links or affiliate links, so again, be careful.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Venus
Yes, I heard of wordpress removing adult blog.



I'm self-hosted, just using the wordpress platform, so I think that is what kept me safe.
Yeah, if you're self-hosted it's your host that would matter. Using the wordpress platform won't get you pulled, it was just wordpress.com having issues.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
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Originally posted by Kayla
It takes awhile. That's really the biggest part. Getting people to your blog and then having good content to make them come back.
It sure does. I am trying to get a couple mini series started, to give my readers something to want to come back to.
04/28/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kayla
It takes awhile. That's really the biggest part. Getting people to your blog and then having good content to make them come back.
I wonder if you checked pages on fb that are more mom geared, with their permission posted links...hmmm...Im thinking out loud now.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
Some little finer things you might be interested in are how to make a link, how to add an image, and how to add a textarea.

So what is a link? A link is what allows you to link to other pages. Just in case something isn't formatting right or you want to add your own, manual link to a sidebar, it's good to know the basic HTML for making a link. It is:




What about an image? An image allows you to embed a picture in your text. Pictures can be sexy, scary, or just represent facts more accurately, and pictures are always a good idea to include in blog posts to keep the reader's interest. Here's the HTML.




What is text are and why do you care? Textarea is basically a small box that tells the internet that you don't want it to actually use the HTML you're going to type out. This is vital if you want to make it easy to copy/paste your banners. (See an example here.) Whenever using a textarea tag, it's definitely suggested that you also include an example of what your visitor will be copy and pasting. The HTML for that is:




Do you regular use images? What about links? Have you ever used a textarea box?
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Lady Venus
welcome!...although I see now that I spelled it wrong...it's actually w3schools.com ...LOL
lol, i figured it out
04/28/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Ooh, I've never used a textarea box before. I use images and links all the time, though!
04/28/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
I wonder if you checked pages on fb that are more mom geared, with their permission posted links...hmmm...Im thinking out loud now.
Some mommy bloggers post "giveaway round-ups" where they invite you to post your giveaways that you have going on, so you could always start a giveaway and find those.
04/28/2011