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Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
so I know that fetishes and fantasies are not necessarily interchangeable concepts, but I'm curious about both/all of yours! let's share our desires here, what turns us on, what we find kinky and sexy but won't just tell anyone.


this is a super safe community, all but completely anonymous, and it's nice to have a place to spill your guts!

also, seeing that someone else has a fetish similar to our own often helps us feel more confident in pursuing it or just feeling comfortable with it in general. and happiness ensues!

love you guys.
05/22/2012
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Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
so let me start by listing my own fetishes and fantasies...


impregnation fetish (imagining he's coming in me and will get me pregnant)
sex with an older brother fetish (though i never had an older brother)
spanking
choking
dirty talk
fisting
double penetration with a toy and a penis in my vag
double penetration with a toy in my ass and a cock in my vag, or vice-versa
pegging fetish
strap-on sex fetish, receiving or giving
bondage fetish - being tied up and playfully to painfully struck with open hands or whips, etc. while simultaneously experiencing pleasure via clitoral or g-spot stimulation

and more! can't think of anything else at the moment but when i do, or when something knew comes up, i'll leave it here. thanks in advance for sharing, guys.
05/22/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
Bondage is the best! And basically any type of domination scenario.
05/22/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by FruityCloud
Bondage is the best! And basically any type of domination scenario.
thanks for sharing, fruitycloudpuff!

ps, love your screen name!! so cuted.
05/22/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
Having my wife use a strap-on on me is definitely my ultimate fantasy. We're getting closer, but not quite ready for that yet.
05/23/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by meitman
Having my wife use a strap-on on me is definitely my ultimate fantasy. We're getting closer, but not quite ready for that yet.
ah, lovely! can i suggest a couple toys to start with?

the small silk followed by toy five in a small are great starters for pegging. good luck, use lots of lube, go slow, and be sweet!
05/23/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I have a... Nuclear fall out fetish? Like, I don't quite know how to describe it. I like the idea of a cold war, where you're on edge and worried about the main world powers duking it out. I like the idea of being stuck in a medium sized bunker and having to live there. I like the idea of a Mad Max like world when the dust clears and there are roving gangs of those who prepped well enough. I shared this at the book club and everyone was very accepting, but I still haven't heard of anyone else with exactly the same sentiments.

Other than that (often combined mentally with that) is a slight submissive side of me. Just the usual wanting to be underneath someone and controlled by them.
05/23/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
Thanks alice! I'll have to look in to those.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Wide Awake Daydream Wide Awake Daydream
Mine is very similar to Ryuson's. I like the thought of being caught somewhere without a way of escaping (underground bunker, hidden facility in the mountains, that sort of thing). Sort of like I'm at my captor's mercy. But I have to admit that I'm pretty vanilla and my captor is usually merciful . Usually, the captor plays dual roles, such as causing embarrassment/humiliat ion yet being a protector at the same time, like keeping someone else from causing embarrassment or harm. Sometimes the captor is the one that is harmful, and one of his henchmen is the one that ends up being the protector or caretaker. ...Yes, my imaginary world is quite complex(lol). Whichever scenario it is, I'm usually being dominated by an 'enemy'.
05/27/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Wide Awake Daydream
Mine is very similar to Ryuson's. I like the thought of being caught somewhere without a way of escaping (underground bunker, hidden facility in the mountains, that sort of thing). Sort of like I'm at my captor's mercy. But I have to ... more
that's so interesting! thank you much for sharing. i hope you get to fulfill that fantasy one day.
05/27/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by meitman
Thanks alice! I'll have to look in to those.
anytime! hope you get alot out of them.
05/27/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
How about airplane SEX! I do the flying, she drives me crazy! On the return trip, she does the flying, and I push all HER buttons (and you know what I mean)! Together we both spiral out of control into one heavenly bliss! It is danger and pleasure all wrapped into one!




05/27/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Fun thread, here are mine.

-Impregnation fetish. I love having his cum inside of me, and the idea of getting pregnant is so unbelievably hot. I even fantasize that we're having sex and I have a bump.

-I fantasize about messing around and him fucking me while I'm wearing a short skirt, preferably in public

-Ditto for panties (thongs)

-Sex outdoors if we could do it without getting caught

-I like to be dominated and tied up, but I'm into the pain-and-insult type of bondage. I just want to feel like he's in charge and I'm his little Slut. Oh I like being choked, too.

-I want to try anal toys on him and peg him (contradictory to the last one, I know)
05/28/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Fun thread, here are mine.

-Impregnation fetish. I love having his cum inside of me, and the idea of getting pregnant is so unbelievably hot. I even fantasize that we're having sex and I have a bump.

-I fantasize about messing ... more
outdoor sex is alot of fun - i've gotten to fulfill that fantasy several times!
05/28/2012
Contributor: BusyMe BusyMe
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
so let me start by listing my own fetishes and fantasies...


impregnation fetish (imagining he's coming in me and will get me pregnant)
sex with an older brother fetish (though i never had an older ... more
outdoors is number one..

and I mean like somewhere in the depths of the wilderness

then.. spankings..


and then random fetishes that I don't have to worry about fulfilling but receiving..
05/28/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I am into Bondage and Domination. I have a fantasy of group sex, but I don't think that I will ever feel comfortable acting out.
05/28/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
suspension bondage and flogging.

Hubby wants me to dominate him, I like being dominated. We are a mess. hehehe
05/28/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
Quote:
Originally posted by meitman
Having my wife use a strap-on on me is definitely my ultimate fantasy. We're getting closer, but not quite ready for that yet.
I must admitt, it is the most erotic thing I have ever done to my husband. It even looks good. hehehehe
05/28/2012
Contributor: shellbelle23 shellbelle23
My big fetish is being totally dominated. Not so much like the degrading insulting type but definitely the do as i say when i say it thing. I also love a good power struggle. Where we're almost fighting over who's going to be in control. Makes it so hot! It's a plus that we have our restraints that stay attached to the bed posts.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Iadoreyouu Iadoreyouu
Oh, wow. I don't know where to begin! I'm a really good girl, and I come to Eden to share my naughty side.

completely restrained and used as a toy
Impregnation
Double penetration
Being with another female and having super rough sex. Oral, anal, vaginal
Trying a strap on with my husband. I don't think ill ever talk him into it!
Trying a clit pump
I love to fantasize about orgies and multiple partners, but I keep it strictly fantasy.
12/07/2012
Contributor: Grellopop Grellopop
I, like iadoreyou, come to Eden for some naughty relief, though im a good girl in RL...

I have no clue where to start.

But for BDSM fantasies i like:

electro
enema
extreme restraints
Master/slave play
Pet play
prolonged penetration (so, having things inside and having to keep them i for a long time, or do other tasks with them in)
sense deprivation
spanking/caning

=)
12/16/2012
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
I don't have too many wild fantasies.
I would love a master, someone to take care of me, discipline me when I misbehave, maybe with a spanking and some dominating sex. I like being dominated and a little bit of private humiliation. As long as my master loved me and respected my boundaries I would do whatever they wanted.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
My biggest fetish at the moment is being spanked. It's like I can't get enough of it!
01/18/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I have a lot too:

being in an adult nursing relationship
anal play of any kind
being "raped"
medical fetish play (without the needles)
possibly using a toilet slave
enema play
I'd love to do cock and ball torture on hubby
I'd also like to peg hubby
having hubby be my sub
erotic spankings (not for the pain, but the eroticism)
bondage and forced orgasms (with my new Hitachi)
possibly an adult baby relationship (with diapers)
02/26/2013
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
so I know that fetishes and fantasies are not necessarily interchangeable concepts, but I'm curious about both/all of yours! let's share our desires here, what turns us on, what we find kinky and sexy but won't just tell ... more
Bondage, (done)
Double Penetration,
Threesome,
Spanking, (done)
Choking, (done)
Consensual Non-consent,
Cutting/Blood play
Pegging (done)
Whipping~ (done)
CBT (done)
FemBoy (done)
Petplay
Being his pet and sub (done)

He is curious about water sports, so it's possibility~

I'm sure there are more I can't think of right now ^^
04/16/2013