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Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Here are some topic ideas for next month's EdenKink meeting. Let me know what you'd like to talk about!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Rules and Rituals: Yours or those you've heard about.
7  (10%)
What are some of your kinky favorites and why? Toys, types of play, whatever.
22  (31%)
Finding a play partner, especially in areas that aren't as conducive to meeting people in the community
36  (51%)
BDSM stereotypes and how they've affected you. How you've helped open others' eyes to the world of BDSM.
6  (8%)
Total votes: 71
Poll is closed
01/30/2012
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Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Here are some topic ideas for next month's EdenKink meeting. Let me know what you'd like to talk about!
Finding a play partner, especially in areas that aren't as conducive to meeting people in the community
01/30/2012
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
I have to say, I'd like to hear about other people's experiences encountering stereotypes about the BDSM community a lot. I've encountered some negative stereotypes, and some people who have related BDSM to domestic violence. I'd like to learn more about what the stereotypes are and how we can confront them to make the world a more kink-friendly place.
01/30/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Finding a play partner!
01/31/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I voted for the BDSM stereotypes. We've encountered this a lot.
01/31/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
I have to say, I think for the most part we've addressed finding a play partner about as well as it can be covered just in general discussion during meetings. We've discussed fetish communities online, and munches and such, as well as just finding somebody and bringing up the kink aspect. Myself, I'm not seeing much else that can be done with that topic. I could be totally wrong though, I may be missing something. If so, I take it back
02/02/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Here are some topic ideas for next month's EdenKink meeting. Let me know what you'd like to talk about!
wish we could vote for more than one! finding a play partner and rituals are both super interesting subjects to a newb like myself.
02/02/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Yum, Edenkink
02/02/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by Serenesub
I have to say, I think for the most part we've addressed finding a play partner about as well as it can be covered just in general discussion during meetings. We've discussed fetish communities online, and munches and such, as well as just ... more
I agree, I think all of the others are interesting, but finding a partner is something that's already been covered to death. There really is no simple answer for it.
02/05/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
I have not encountered BDSM stereotypes in person as no one I know IRL knows what my husband and I do behind closed doors
02/09/2012
Contributor: SaraU29 SaraU29
The sky's the limit on the favorites topic.
02/09/2012
Contributor: loveme10402 loveme10402
They all seem like interesting topics to me tho.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
I want to keep having fun
02/11/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
Love them all but i vote for ways to meet people.
02/11/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
Quote:
Originally posted by loveme10402
They all seem like interesting topics to me tho.
agree
02/12/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
And that's that! This month, we're going with BDSM Favorites - Toys, Kinks, Rules, etc.

I promise I'm not ignoring the majority vote. We will get to the topic of how to find a kinky partner. However, the direction I'd like to go with that topic is going to take a minute for me to work out. So keep watching for it!

In the meantime, be thinking about some of your favorite fetishes, kinky toys, rules, rituals ... Like someone said, the sky's the limit!

I'll have the meeting thread up in the next few days! Keep your eyes peeled! Thanks so much for voting!
02/14/2012