Tried to Join B-Day Club

Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
I sent a message to the leader of Birthday club asking to be added in but haven't heard back! Very frustrated!
02/25/2013
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Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by Sugarfina
I sent a message to the leader of Birthday club asking to be added in but haven't heard back! Very frustrated!
She doesn't message you back. As long as you sent her a message, you'll be included. I had never received a message back when back when but my birthday had been included. Don't be frustrated! She's just very busy.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
And it's still February, my birthday was the 22nd, it is that month, and birthdays were already announced! Confused and hurt! I'm Charlotte, Cody's is in September.

Can I still get my birthday points?
02/25/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
She doesn't message you back. As long as you sent her a message, you'll be included. I had never received a message back when back when but my birthday had been included. Don't be frustrated! She's just very busy.
And thank you. I thought she was supposed to message back. That's good to know. Haha.
02/25/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
I don't think they give points for two people on the same account, but I could be mistaken!
02/25/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by Sugarfina
And it's still February, my birthday was the 22nd, it is that month, and birthdays were already announced! Confused and hurt! I'm Charlotte, Cody's is in September.

Can I still get my birthday points?
I'm not 100% sure but I believe you need to message her before the month of your birthday (that way she can include you). Did you message her back in January?

This is what she says in the FAQ:

You should PM as soon as possible. It doesn’t matter if it’s 11 months from your next birthday because I save them all! If you forget, however, and message me after the shout-out has been posted for your birthday month, you will need to patiently wait until it comes around again.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
I don't think they give points for two people on the same account, but I could be mistaken!
this is correct

From the FAQ (can be found here: link):


7. My partner(s) and I use one account, can we have multiple birthdays?
a. Nope. One birthday per account only.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Breas Breas
Last thing I want to quote from the FAQ, It's about how she doesn't respond to messages:

10. Why don’t I get a reply when I submit my birthday?
a. Because I have received nearly 200 messages within a single month before and it makes it crazy impractical for me to respond to each of them. (This is especially true when they are just asking me what the club is…)
02/25/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
I'm not 100% sure but I believe you need to message her before the month of your birthday (that way she can include you). Did you message her back in January?

This is what she says in the FAQ:

You should PM as soon as possible. It ... more
OH NO!!! A WHOLE FREAKIN YEAR....
02/25/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
this is correct

From the FAQ (can be found here: link):


7. My partner(s) and I use one account, can we have multiple birthdays?
a. Nope. One birthday per account only. ... more
We're not worried about that. Thanks!
02/25/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Sugarfina
We're not worried about that. Thanks!
Hey there, I think what sktb0007 was trying to tell you is that you can register Cody's birthday for September's birthday club and by-pass the waiting for a year scenario. Waiting five months is better than twelve.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Hey there, I think what sktb0007 was trying to tell you is that you can register Cody's birthday for September's birthday club and by-pass the waiting for a year scenario. Waiting five months is better than twelve.
Hey everyone! Yes, the elephant in the room is here. Thanks, everyone, for helping out and answering all the questions and linking back to the FAQ I posted. Super wonderful of you all for looking out for each other! Everything they posted was 100% correct!

Also, if you have concerns, don't feel you can't message me or Stormy about them. We can help out clearly up the confusion without passive-aggression. No, I don't generally respond to people simply submitting their birthdays but I will respond when I get one like this:
"DJ, I really need your help because I am confused about this club thing!"

Though everyone linking to the FAQ here really does the job for me so, again, you're all fantastic!

And Stormy is also completely and totally right! Just remember that if you choose to use the September birthday, you can't go switching it every year. So you pick what you prefer and just send me the memo via PM (private message, which can be sent from my profile page).
03/02/2013
Contributor: Ryanne Ryanne
I sent mine in a month ahead and my husband did his a month ahead on his account.
03/02/2013
Contributor: SassySam SassySam
Thank you for this thread, I feel better about not getting a reply.
03/18/2013
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
Quote:
Originally posted by Breas
She doesn't message you back. As long as you sent her a message, you'll be included. I had never received a message back when back when but my birthday had been included. Don't be frustrated! She's just very busy.
Not necessarily, I sent mine in once I found out about the club (Jan. 2012), she sent me a notice that I turned it in to close to the birthday and wouldn't be able to get one for that year. Which was fine, I did get one for this year.
03/18/2013
Contributor: dlw dlw
I have received birthday points in years previous, but none this year. sad face.
08/14/2013