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With impact play do you like 'thuddy' or 'stingy? If 'thuddy' flogger, paddle or hand? Same for 'stingy'

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Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I love impact play, aka someone hitting you in a controlled careful fun manner, and love knowing how people feel about sexual actives. So share: Do ya like it? If ya do: how?
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06/20/2012
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Contributor: Sir Sir
I prefer to give stingy, but really, impact is my favorite medium of play. I enjoy canes, paddles, riding crops, single tails, and also floggers. I'm partial to canes and riding crops, however, but for intense sting, I love single tails. Dragontails are excellent for giving a horrendous sting, and of course, the lovely whips (I am fine with snakewhips, but I think that I've gained a preference for bullwhips).

Thud can be given from many things. Punching or very heavy canes/mallets are great for this. Thuddy floggers are nice, too, I enjoy throwing them (but they are generally very heavy, so they become tiresome more quickly).
06/20/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I like both thuddy and stingy. Paddles, hands, thick canes and rolling pins are great for thuddy pain. Thin canes are great for stingy pain. Floggers can be good for both in my experience, depending on the width, length and material of the tails. I have no experience with whips.
06/20/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Depends on my mood, love all listed! ^^
06/20/2012
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
depends on my mood
06/20/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I love the sting of hands.
06/21/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
I love giving thuddy, preferably hand or paddle
06/21/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
It really depends on my mood, but I do definitely like both.
06/21/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Depends on my mood and pain threshold on a given day but I like hands, paddles and floggers.
06/21/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
My partner also uses the backside of my wooden hairbrush to nail me sometimes.
06/21/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I'm old fashioned, but there's nothing quite like a smack on the ass, in that fun, playful, "damn, nice ass" kinda way.
06/21/2012
Contributor: Phoenix77 Phoenix77
Thuddy, and floggers, paddles, or (sometimes) hands. In that <-- order.
10/01/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by pinkpottergirl
I love impact play, aka someone hitting you in a controlled careful fun manner, and love knowing how people feel about sexual actives. So share: Do ya like it? If ya do: how?
Thuddy, and with a hand or a flogger.
10/06/2012
Contributor: Artishok Artishok
Thuddy
10/06/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
I like a good stinging hand, and a leather belt. I haven't used paddle, crops, floggers or whips yet, but I plan to! I like something that leaves a good sting, too--when I want a spanking, I WANT a spanking!
10/06/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We just started by using a DIY that looks like a crop. We like light tapping - thudy. We just got the Narrow Paddle to try out - its getting interesting to experiment.
10/06/2012
Contributor: chicagobearsfan chicagobearsfan
Love impact play. Prefer Thuddy to stingy, but I like a mix of both. Love floggers, but paddles and hands are great too.
05/09/2013
Contributor: SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
I enjoy giving. I don't really have a preference between thuddy or stingy, but I have some VERY mean toys of each.
05/12/2013
Contributor: lilswitch lilswitch
Have yet to try it but I hope I will get to soon.
05/27/2013