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Contributor: Sharay88 Sharay88
Why are you into BDSM? Is it for Pleasure, Fun, Fantasy, or Fetish? Whats your sexy BDSM secret?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Fun
Sharay88 , Falsepast , GirlOnGirl , shorejen9 , - Kira - , tunacan75 , Adriana Ravenlust , Life's Little Secrets , Geogeo , Supervixen , Sammi , Nyx (Under the Covers) , Passion plum , DeliciousB , novanilla , inkky , Stinkytofu10 , RedKyuubi , Kitka , KiraCat , The Mother of a SiNner , hhh , gsfanatic , Lacey- , woodsdragon
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Fetish
Falsepast , tunacan75 , Life's Little Secrets , Geogeo , Nyx (Under the Covers) , DeliciousB , novanilla , inkky , ginnyluvspotter , RedKyuubi , Kitka , KiraCat , The Mother of a SiNner , gsfanatic , Lacey- , woodsdragon
16
Fantasy
Falsepast , shorejen9 , tunacan75 , Adriana Ravenlust , Life's Little Secrets , Geogeo , Supervixen , Sammi , Nyx (Under the Covers) , Passion plum , novanilla , inkky , ginnyluvspotter , RedKyuubi , Kitka , KiraCat , The Mother of a SiNner , gsfanatic , woodsdragon
19
Pleasure
Sharay88 , Falsepast , GirlOnGirl , shorejen9 , - Kira - , Sera26 , tunacan75 , Adriana Ravenlust , Life's Little Secrets , Geogeo , panthercat23 , Supervixen , Sammi , Nyx (Under the Covers) , Passion plum , DeliciousB , novanilla , inkky , Mrs.Cruz , RedKyuubi , Kitka , squire , KiraCat , The Mother of a SiNner , gsfanatic , Lacey- , woodsdragon
27
Total votes: 87 (30 voters)
Poll is closed
11/16/2012
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Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Interesting choices
11/16/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Sharay88
Why are you into BDSM? Is it for Pleasure, Fun, Fantasy, or Fetish? Whats your sexy BDSM secret?
It's a little bit of everything really
11/16/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
It feels good to me.
11/16/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
It's fun, it's pleasurable, and it fulfills my sexual fantasies. So...yeah.
11/16/2012
Contributor: Nyx (Under the Covers) Nyx (Under the Covers)
I guess all of those? Really, it just taps into something that makes me feel much more alive than vanilla sex does.
11/16/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
All of the above.
11/16/2012
Contributor: inkky inkky
All Of The Above
11/16/2012
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
It's more for my boyfriend but i have started getting into it too
11/16/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Cruz Mrs.Cruz
i was a self mutilator and still get those urges. so instead of cutting myself my husband gets the joy of torturing me. the pain brings me pleasure and release, as well as making for one wicked orgasm! works for us since hes sadistic and im a masochist.
11/17/2012
Contributor: Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
It has always been there, lurking under the surface for me. I am hard wired, in a way of speaking, to be a slave, and I feel the most complete and comfortable when I am not fighting against my slave nature.
My Husband, on the other hand, has this in his very DNA. His family has a very long history of the lifestyle passed down from generation to generation.
So, for us, there really is no one reason why we do this thing we do. For us, its just what we are and what we do.
11/18/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
All the above
11/18/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
All of the above.
11/18/2012
Contributor: squire squire
I'd say all of the above really.
11/18/2012
Contributor: KiraCat KiraCat
All?
11/18/2012
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Sharay88
Why are you into BDSM? Is it for Pleasure, Fun, Fantasy, or Fetish? Whats your sexy BDSM secret?
I just enjoy it
11/18/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Definitely all of the above
11/19/2012
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
All of the above
04/04/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
All of the above plus "control" and a few more
04/08/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
Interesting choices
haha agreed. i think some of them overlap, would you guys agree?
07/17/2013