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Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly 06/26/2012

I am into trying out the various floggers and whips that are available. As of right now my husband and I are experimenting with a belt so that I can figure out what my limit is. As of right now I think my tolerance to it is pretty high, unless he just isn't doing it right, LOL. I am not sur.e which product would be better for me so I am putting it on here to try to get the opinions of those who are more experienced with it. I was thinking something that would really excite me, which what we are doing does, but I want something more. I am not sure if maybe we need to consider something different and a little smaller, and I think it would excite me more if it was something that he could use on my whole body

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Which one is a better choice to feel more of an affect? (35 posts)
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
I want something that makes a good feel good sensation when being spanked with it, but yet something that can be used all over my body. Do any of you have any good ideas?
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Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I would choose the fluffy flogger
06/26/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
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Originally posted by Terri69
I would choose the fluffy flogger
Is it one that could be used all over your body? not just on specific areas? Or is it a bad idea to get something that you could use all over your body?
06/26/2012
Contributor: Andrew1992 Andrew1992
The fluffy flogger for sure.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by HisOneAndOnly
I want something that makes a good feel good sensation when being spanked with it, but yet something that can be used all over my body. Do any of you have any good ideas?
Fluffy flogger (Black / Pink)
06/26/2012
Contributor: ChickenFeathers ChickenFeathers
The fluffy one, probably, but I'm not too fond of the pink.
06/26/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by HisOneAndOnly
I want something that makes a good feel good sensation when being spanked with it, but yet something that can be used all over my body. Do any of you have any good ideas?
The Fluffy Flogger is fun and holds up.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by HisOneAndOnly
I want something that makes a good feel good sensation when being spanked with it, but yet something that can be used all over my body. Do any of you have any good ideas?
Fluffy flogger (Black / Pink) has been on my wish list for a while.
06/26/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
If you're experimenting with a belt, I would choose the Black Rose Whipping Willow. We just got this the other day, very nice quality with a nice "thud & sting" to it. Haven't had a chance to put it to the full test, but we feel it will be our go-to whip. Plus its attractive looking.
06/26/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
Thanks guys, this is all good information to know. I guess I will probably be buying both then. That way if I am in the mood for either one I will already have it.
06/26/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
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Originally posted by SecretKinksters
If you're experimenting with a belt, I would choose the Black Rose Whipping Willow. We just got this the other day, very nice quality with a nice "thud & sting" to it. Haven't had a chance to put it to the full test, but we feel ... more
Thank you, please let me know what you think after you have put it to the full test!!!
06/26/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Pink one.
06/26/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Pink one.
Agreed...
06/26/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Agree! The fluffy will help you get used to the harder ones!
06/27/2012
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
The fluffy flogger is good for a beginner for sure. The illusions paddle does have a softer side to it if you're looking for a paddle instead of a flogger, but it still hits hard!
06/27/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
The fluffy doesn't look intimidating!
06/27/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
The Fluffy Flogger. I'm actually looking into getting that one myself for later on.
06/27/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
Thank you guys for being so kind as to participate in this thread.
06/27/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
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Originally posted by HisOneAndOnly
I want something that makes a good feel good sensation when being spanked with it, but yet something that can be used all over my body. Do any of you have any good ideas?
I would suggest starting with fluffy and working your way up from there
06/27/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
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Originally posted by indiechick
I would suggest starting with fluffy and working your way up from there
Thank you very much! Sounds like that is going to be my best plan considering the input that I have gotten back on this discussion!
06/27/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I'd get the fluffy flogger.
06/27/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
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Originally posted by sexxxkitten
I'd get the fluffy flogger.
thanks!
06/27/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
The Fluffy Flogger. I'm actually looking into getting that one myself for later on.
Thanks for your input!
06/27/2012
Contributor: Karmababe Karmababe
the fluffy flogger is nice and gentle ... good way to start, the paddle is good as well tho, its padded a little so it wont deliver as hard of a sting as some others.
06/27/2012
Contributor: justme23 justme23
Fluffy
06/27/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
The Fluffy flogger
06/29/2012
Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
thanks guys, I truely appreciate the opinions of you all!!!
06/30/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
the fluffy one!
07/10/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Can't go wrong with the fluffy
09/14/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
Fluffy flogger
09/14/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by HisOneAndOnly
I want something that makes a good feel good sensation when being spanked with it, but yet something that can be used all over my body. Do any of you have any good ideas?
The fluffy flogger is great for a new and hesitant beginner. The whipping willow is pretty good but if you accidentally use too much force it can sting pretty harshly. A wooden paddle is a good start but I'd go with a padded paddle like The Purple Fur Linedpaddle. That's what I start most of my scared play mates with. It is wide and padded but has a non padded back that can sting quite a bit as their confidence grows.
The teasing whip is a bit too long, I've found, for beginners and can be hard to place with precision...though practicing with a towel is a benefit for any flogging enthusiast.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Artishok Artishok
Fluffy flogger (Black / Pink)
09/15/2012
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
The Fluffy flogger would be a good choice.
09/15/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Paddles are a great toy for newer players because they are easier to wield than a flogger.
09/15/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
fluffy flogger
09/15/2012