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When using handcuffs, what do you prefer?

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Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I have two kinds of cuffs the metal kind like police officers use and then the slip on your wrist kind that are red and black that could easily slip on off.

For yourself, if you use cuffs which do you prefer the ones that there's no way you're getting out of or the ones that give the illusion of being restrained and just slip on/off.
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12/11/2011
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Contributor: bratofthekitties bratofthekitties
Not to be persnickity (sp?) but I always thought they were called handcuffs if you can't get out of them and restraints otherwise
12/13/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I like my restraints to be inescapable or at least not easy to get out of, but I don't like metal cuffs because if you fight them you'll hurt yourself in ways you didn't want to be hurt. I like either leather cuffs, or rope, but preferably leather cuffs because they're more comfy.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Kallisto Kallisto
Restraints should be inescapable, but quick and easy to remove by someone else.
12/16/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
if I'm with a trusted partner, I like to feel like I'm totally stuck
12/16/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Yeah, I believe half the point of bondage is to give up control. If you can slip out of your restraints whenever you want to, it kind of defeats the purpose.
12/16/2011
Contributor: bunnygrl bunnygrl
Not being able to get out myself definitely adds something for me.
12/17/2011
Contributor: SweetieLuv SweetieLuv
Quote:
Originally posted by Kallisto
Restraints should be inescapable, but quick and easy to remove by someone else.
agreed
12/17/2011
Contributor: SweetieLuv SweetieLuv
ones i can play along with
12/17/2011
Contributor: KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by bratofthekitties
Not to be persnickity (sp?) but I always thought they were called handcuffs if you can't get out of them and restraints otherwise
Some handcuffs have a "safety release" which makes it so the wearer can get out on their own if needed.
12/20/2011
Contributor: KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
If I can get out you have a problem.
12/20/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by Kallisto
Restraints should be inescapable, but quick and easy to remove by someone else.
This exactly.
12/20/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't like to be able to escape and if there is a way out of them, I'll find it. I don't like knowing I can get out of them if I want to.
12/26/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
The ones you can't get out of
12/26/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
I like cuffs that look more realistic than novelty cuffs.
12/26/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
I haven't met a pair of cuffs that I couldn't escape from, I love trying to escape!
12/27/2011
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
As I'm new to restraint play, I prefer ones that I can get out of.
12/30/2011
Contributor: dks210 dks210
I chose the second option. Mostly because I can be a little paranoid at times.
01/18/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
ones you can't get out of
01/20/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Always make sure the key has more than one copy and both are within reach and never leave a bound person alone. That said, traditional, real cuffs.
01/21/2012
Contributor: isisandshiva isisandshiva
Quote:
Originally posted by KatPawz2003
Some handcuffs have a "safety release" which makes it so the wearer can get out on their own if needed.
this is why I chose other, after a friend borrowed a pair intended for a costume(the key long gone) for non costume reasons and got stuck I reevaluated my stance on handcuffs, which I love, to think that a saftey release is for the best in non police related situations.
01/22/2012
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
I like mine to have a release for safety
05/03/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Ones that are very hard to get out of? Our Sportsheets velcro pair isn't impossible to get out of but it's hard to if you wrap them up tight.
05/06/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Ones with a safety release, just in case
05/06/2013
Contributor: Croc Croc
Can you really buy handcuffs without safety release?

I really wanted ones like that, but couldn't find(((
09/20/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I have two kinds of cuffs the metal kind like police officers use and then the slip on your wrist kind that are red and black that could easily slip on off.

For yourself, if you use cuffs which do you prefer the ones that there's no way ... more
I have some of the "play along" kind. I've never used the real thing. I, of course, trust my husband so I don't think it would really matter to me either way if I did have the real thing however.
09/20/2019