Sturdiest Bondage Restraints For Small Wrists

Contributor: Madeira Madeira 09/23/2010

I'm trying to figure out what would the best choice for wrist restraints for my very narrow wrists, I also have small hands meaning that wrist restraints that aren't tight enough don't hold me well. I also like to *really* struggle. If I can escape, I will escape. So, I need a good pair, ideally ones with matching ankle restraints.

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Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Which set of cuffs do you believe is most sturdy, and likely to hold up to rough play.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Sir , sasweetheart89 , meganthomas , Illusional , Miss Morphine , Lummox , thatonegirl , moonlitlilly , DarkApparition , LavenderSkies , ellejay , C4ss , potstickers , Elliotstar , Lio , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , CantankerousUnagi , Solar Ray , Lady Marmelade , Adam02viper , The Curious Couple , tickle me pink , AgnesTrevejo , Anjulie , K101 , darthkitt3n , Reyes , yoham45 , Judas Iscars , Dyma , cujo467 , Ratito , Shellz31 , ThoughtsAblaze , SiNn , Steve of Eden , Ghost , The Mother of a SiNner , systematicweasel , thebest , briluminary , kellyg , pinkcupcakes , Breas , Missmarc , Stagger13 , Miss Anonymous , ~miss senora~ , Mew , Jon S , Stinkytofu10 , Bignuf , DreamWolf , fufucat , samanthalynn , BiJess , MissCandyland , gsfanatic , ellieprobable , brevado , sXeVegan90 , glasskitten , unfulfilled , amazon , hhh , Apirka , SecretKinksters , roskat , Lioncub , SMichelle , pokefan15 , Falsepast , satinlady550 , karenm , pestilence , damnbul12 , kkybf , souviet , deltalima , Eugler , xcapricax , giftdgecko , tunacan75 , Dear Ruby
84  (87%)
~LaUr3n~ , dv8 , Elaira , dezzydezire , Howells , Master DarkWolf
6  (6%)
dhig
1  (1%)
Owl Identified , fghjkl , RosesThorns , Sinfully , BlooJay , fizzygato
6  (6%)
Total votes: 97
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Contributor: Sir Sir
Own the Luxe white wrist cuffs, and I love them. They're perfect for my submissive.
09/23/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Both the Luxe and the Jaguar cuffs from ASLAN are amazing, and either one would be a good buy. The Luxe cuffs are a lot more padded, a lot squishier, whereas the Jaguar cuffs are more on the thin side. The Jag cuffs have some neat color options and the Luxe cuffs only come in white, unfortunately.

As for small wrists, I have VERY small wrists and ASLAN's stuff is always good on me. The only thing is that sometimes you have to kind of overlap the ends a bit, but it's nothing too troubling.
09/25/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
Jor has uber-tiny wrists. Like most watches don't fit right. And there's only one real pair of cuffs that fits him him. It's the Purple Fur Wrist Restraints on here. They hold up well too. I can't comment on the other ones you've listed.
09/25/2010
Contributor: DustBunny DustBunny
I've met other with this issue, most eventually had cuffs made for them when they found what they really wanted. There's also the divinity line with Spartacus that uses velcro, so I'd think it can close to a larger range of wrist sizes because of that.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Bill Ditchburn Bill Ditchburn
Just measured our dragon silk wrists, and at the smallest setting, internal diameter is 1 3/4". Which looks pretty small to me. Largest setting is about 3". Multiply by 3.142 for circumference!
11/11/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
Not on your list, but I've always found adjustable belts very good for this. Leather belts are great for restraints. I know from experience it kept my 6' 200-something lb ex-bf well in place. Also, works really well if you're on a budget
12/05/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
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Originally posted by KnK
Not on your list, but I've always found adjustable belts very good for this. Leather belts are great for restraints. I know from experience it kept my 6' 200-something lb ex-bf well in place. Also, works really well if you're on a budget
Oh and zip tie handcuffs are great! They can get really tight. There really is no minimum to how small they can go.

Here's one site. They also sell other professional grade handcuffs too. The best stuff for that is professional grade like for the military and police department.

I got a hand on some since my ex was in the military and liked being restrained.
12/05/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
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Originally posted by KnK
Oh and zip tie handcuffs are great! They can get really tight. There really is no minimum to how small they can go.

Here's one site. They also sell other professional grade handcuffs too. The best stuff for that is professional grade like ... more
link

Oops, that's the site I was talking about
12/05/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
Jor has uber-tiny wrists. Like most watches don't fit right. And there's only one real pair of cuffs that fits him him. It's the Purple Fur Wrist Restraints on here. They hold up well too. I can't comment on the other ones you've listed.
I also use the purple fur wrist restraints for my small wrists!
02/20/2011
Contributor: AgnesTrevejo AgnesTrevejo
Luxe white wrist cuffs!
05/11/2011
Contributor: yoham45 yoham45
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Originally posted by Dusk
I also use the purple fur wrist restraints for my small wrists!
Great!
05/14/2011
Contributor: MastersXKittenXSlave MastersXKittenXSlave
I could not tell you with the cuffs but I also have small wrists and hands and easily get out of everything I would just suggest rope and working with the rope and making cuffs out of the rope. That way you can make it the perfect size for your wrists. also if you like color you could either buy colored rope or dye the white rope.
07/22/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
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Originally posted by Madeira
Which set of cuffs do you believe is most sturdy, and likely to hold up to rough play.
def fthe Luxe
07/25/2011
Contributor: systematicweasel systematicweasel
Luxe ones are nice ^^
08/07/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
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Originally posted by DustBunny
I've met other with this issue, most eventually had cuffs made for them when they found what they really wanted. There's also the divinity line with Spartacus that uses velcro, so I'd think it can close to a larger range of wrist sizes ... more
Yep. Just got a velcro pair by Kinklab that I actually don't see on EF, but the velcro makes them easily adjustable enough to fit a doll's wrists.
08/07/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Luxe white wrist cuffs
10/24/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Not sure but my friend who has small wrists owns the Black jaguar cuffs and loves them.
10/24/2011
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
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Originally posted by Madeira
Which set of cuffs do you believe is most sturdy, and likely to hold up to rough play.
Luxe white wrist cuffs
02/22/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Master suspension cuffs.
03/31/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Luxe white wrist cuffs
08/15/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I don't know but I'm interested in this poll, too.
08/15/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Probably Luxe, though check the reviews to see if they have minimum wrist sizes
08/15/2012
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
The white ones are so pretty.
08/17/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Luxe white.
09/13/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Black jaguar
01/09/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
So sad the white wrist cuffs don't seem to be around anymore
01/14/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Which set of cuffs do you believe is most sturdy, and likely to hold up to rough play.
Luxe white wrist cuffs
01/14/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
This was a helpful poll for me!
01/15/2013
Contributor: kkybf kkybf
The luxe white ones
01/15/2013
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Which set of cuffs do you believe is most sturdy, and likely to hold up to rough play.
the white one's appear to be the smallest
01/15/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Very useful poll, I was going to post a similar question!
01/25/2013
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
I on't own any of these, but I would imagine the suspension cuffs would be able to hold up to more rough play than the others. However, they look like they'd give you some problems with the fit, though.
02/02/2013
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Which cuffs are most likely to fit my small wrists?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Sir , Owl Identified , sasweetheart89 , meganthomas , Lummox , DarkApparition , LavenderSkies , potstickers , Lio , KatPawz2003 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Solar Ray , dhig , Lady Marmelade , Adam02viper , The Curious Couple , tickle me pink , AgnesTrevejo , darthkitt3n , Reyes , yoham45 , Judas Iscars , Ratito , Shellz31 , SiNn , Elaira , Ghost , The Mother of a SiNner , dezzydezire , kellyg , pinkcupcakes , Howells , Breas , Jon S , pleasurehunter , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , MissCandyland , glasskitten , amazon , SecretKinksters , Lioncub , SMichelle , Falsepast , BlooJay , Stinkytofu10 , souviet , deltalima , Dear Ruby , fizzygato
50
ellejay , KatPawz2003 , SiNn
3
Sir , Owl Identified , dv8 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , SiNn , amazon , Dear Ruby
7
Total votes: 60 (52 voters)
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Contributor: KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
I have a 5" wrist so I have this problem myself. read my review of the Fleece lined link and you will see my opinion of them.
02/16/2011
Contributor: AgnesTrevejo AgnesTrevejo
Luxe white wrist cuffs for me.
05/11/2011
Contributor: yoham45 yoham45
Luxe white.
05/14/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Which cuffs are most likely to fit my small wrists?
Luxe white
07/25/2011
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Luxe white wrist cuffs.
03/31/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Luxe white wrist cuffs.
Yep!
03/31/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Luxe white wrist cuffs
08/15/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
I don't care for the suspension cuffs much
09/13/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
probably the white luxe cuffs
01/09/2013
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Which cuffs are most likely to fit my small wrists?
Luxe white wrist cuffs
01/14/2013
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
In terms of overall value and use, which cuffs do you think are the best value?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Sir , Owl Identified , sasweetheart89 , meganthomas , DustBunny , Miss Morphine , Lummox , LavenderSkies , potstickers , Lio , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Solar Ray , Adam02viper , The Curious Couple , tickle me pink , AgnesTrevejo , darthkitt3n , Reyes , yoham45 , Judas Iscars , Ratito , Shellz31 , SiNn , Ghost , The Mother of a SiNner , kellyg , pinkcupcakes , Breas , Jon S , MissCandyland , glasskitten , SecretKinksters , roskat , Lioncub , SMichelle , Falsepast , Stinkytofu10 , souviet , deltalima , fizzygato
40
Sir , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf
3
ellejay
1
Sir , Owl Identified , dv8 , Lio , dhig , Lady Marmelade , Adam02viper , SiNn , Elaira , The Mother of a SiNner , dezzydezire , Howells , amazon , BlooJay , Dear Ruby
15
Total votes: 59 (52 voters)
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09/23/2010
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Contributor: AgnesTrevejo AgnesTrevejo
Luxe white wrist cuffs!
05/11/2011
Contributor: yoham45 yoham45
Quote:
Originally posted by AgnesTrevejo
Luxe white wrist cuffs!
No doubt!
05/14/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
In terms of overall value and use, which cuffs do you think are the best value?
Luxe!
07/25/2011
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Master suspension cuffs look the best to me...
03/31/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Luxe white
08/15/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
I'd also take a look at the ones sold by Liberator. They're VERY adjustable.
09/16/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
I'd go for the Luxe.
09/19/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
The Luxe apparently wins
09/21/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Black jaguar
01/09/2013
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
In terms of overall value and use, which cuffs do you think are the best value?
Luxe white wrist cuffs
01/14/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
In terms of overall value and use, which cuffs do you think are the best value?
luxe.
01/15/2013
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Is it just me, or is Edens discontinuing a lot of it's kinkier stock? I would have chosen the lux cuffs, they they're discontinued, so I suppose I have to go with the black jaguar cuffs.
02/02/2013