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Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Just out of curiosity, how often does your collar get worn?
I've been thinking about getting one, and don't know how much I'd like to wear it yet.
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Diabolical Kitty , Kitka , DustBunny
3
AvianMinded , Taylor , Miss Naida , Miss Anonymous , toxie m , geliebt , LavenderSkies
7
Chilipepper , Elaira , darthkitt3n , carenautilus , Collogue , Vanessa Weiss , Vanille , Tart , Missmarc
9
toysforall , Sir , LennaKieran , married with children , zracer , Ava5 , fleshlightluvr1 , emiliaa , Lummox , domsub1993 , ily , Girly Girl , -BillD , Drakoni , paige09nicole
15
Total votes: 34 (34 voters)
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Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Master and I aren't constantly together yet (LDR in different countries), so I wear mine only when I do photo shoots for him. I suspect it will get more usage in the bedroom when we visit each other. I liked wearing chokers, anyway, but since it has 'SLAVE' in silver letters, nobody else has to know about that aspect of my life.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
I have one that's a pretty teal color with a little slave ring on it. I'm just sad that it's a bit too big.

I used to wear them a lot outside the bedroom, but no so much these days.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Master and I aren't constantly together yet (LDR in different countries), so I wear mine only when I do photo shoots for him. I suspect it will get more usage in the bedroom when we visit each other. I liked wearing chokers, anyway, but since it ... more
Ah, yeah. I can see not wanting to wander around with that written on your neck.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I'm a Dominant, I do not wear a collar.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I wear it pretty much when my Dom tells me to wear it. So some of the time when we play and every time I masturbate. I like wearing it though. I'd like to get one that wouldn't be awkward to wear in public.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
When I'm at a party with Master, I will wear his collar. Or sometimes if I'm having a really rough day, and want an extra bit of reassurance. (Think of it as a kinky security blanket.) The rest of the time, I don't wear it. I am a Domme 95% of the time, so it would be inappropriate.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Miss Naida Miss Naida
I say in the bedroom because I am to put my collar on at 8:30pm every night. Not saying that I can't wear it any other time (I do) and I wear it around the house but always after 8:30pm and sometimes during the day and sometimes out about town.
08/19/2011
Contributor: fleshlightluvr1 fleshlightluvr1
We're not too much in the domination stuff. Never really thought about trying.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I'd have to say ONLY in the bedroom.
08/21/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
I usually only wear it for play/scenes, but sometimes it feels nice to feel that sense of belonging. I don't usually wear it in public, though, since it's a bit obvious.
08/22/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Steel on leather locking collar, wear it whenever. Sometimes when I want to be pushed around, but not necessarily as a slave thing
08/26/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
If I had one I'd wear it whenever possible, aside from work. <3 I think for our 6 month anniversary my boyfriend (who is sort of becoming my dom...though we're both switches and don't want to solidify a label or whatever) might get me one.^_^ We're thinking about it.
08/27/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I wear mine all the time except to shower and sleep. The only time during the day I take it off is if it's something majorly important because mine actually looks more like a collar.
08/28/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
I do not yet have a collar that is really appropriate or comfortable enough for all day wear, so I chose "whenever I want," since I DO wear one of mine outside the bedroom frequently. Someday I hope to get one I can wear more regularly!
08/29/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
I'm beginning to think I'd like to have one...
09/05/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I've thought about getting one for my sub, but he would only be expected to wear it when we were playing. We're not full-time, and I think it would be odd for him to be collared if we were switching or going vanilla.
09/18/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I'm in between collars right now, but before, I would usually wear it during any play, and on special occasions. The new one we're getting, though, is freakishly cute and I'll probably end up wearing it a lot more
09/20/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Princess-Kayla ♥
Just out of curiosity, how often does your collar get worn?
I've been thinking about getting one, and don't know how much I'd like to wear it yet.
occasionally in bed.
10/11/2011
Contributor: 7Miles 7Miles
None of these. I wear it when he tells me to wear it
10/21/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
My collar is for play, and does not signify a relationship. I wear it whenever I feel like it.
10/21/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
i will like one
10/21/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I only take it off to swim, shower or sleep.
11/08/2011
Contributor: paige09nicole paige09nicole
I don't have a collar, although I have looked into buying one a couple of times. Im sure I would only wear it during a sex session when my boyfriend wanted me to wear it or if I wanted to surprise him.
11/21/2011
Contributor: DustBunny DustBunny
90% of the time, so lets say all day. The only time it's off is when showering and going from work acceptable collar to home collar.
12/01/2011