Constructive discussions on Hands free:

handcuffs
which handcuffs would be best for a beginner?

Handling Very Sensitive Topics...
When you are asked very personal and prying comments or gawkers, how do you respond? My husband was shot and killed a week and a half ago. I am now..

A handjob question about initiation?
When you give a handjob to orgasm, who initiates it most often, you by offering or your partner by requesting?

How do you feel about Playboy merchandise?
By that, I mean how do you feel about women wearing it (or you, yourself, if you're a woman). I've never really wanted to wear it, myself. I am NOT a.

Masturbator or Hand
What do you prefer Masturbator or Hand

I like Sportcuffs wrist cuffs. link I have the black ones. I have experimented before with metal handcuffs and found them very uncomfortable for long sessions. The sportcuffs are adjustable, so my husband and I can both wear them. They're made of neoprene, which is a lot more comfy. The only downside to these that we have seen so far is that you're somewhat limited in how you can restrain someone with them if you don't already have some sort of bondage bar. You can tie someone's hands in front of them or behind them, of course. We have a metal bed frame, so this extends our options somewhat. (We haven't shelled out the money for a bondage bar--yet.)

Hope this helps.