I'm only the bottom. My fave is the crop or his hand.

My least fave is the paddle of doom. Or so I've nicknamed it. It is a cutting board with a hole and strap to hang it up. It is at least an inch thick. !shudder!

When I top I love my crop! When I'm on the bottom, I love the underbed restraint system.

That's a tough one. I guess I'd have to say collar and leash.

I haven't gotten a chance to top yet. ~pout~ M says "Some day." Lol.

Lesse... it's such a difficult question to answer cause they're all so different. But I think my favorite is the Delrin Cane, to be honest. Because there's so much involved in a caning, from endurance to emotion. At least, for us. YMMV

It depends on who I'm catering to. I personally love dishing out and taking a variety of riding crops. The wider one is easier to wield but I recently bought a very narrow tipped one and it delivers quite a stinging sensation that's different from the wider crop which is easier to process.

But plain old clothespins are definitely one of the more effective toys I've come across. The girl I use them on hates them and I love that. And whenever people use them on me, I really really love to hate them. They don't hurt that much the second you put them on, but the pain gets worse the longer they stay on and you can either play nice and unclip them or rip them off and be really mean. And they come cheap.

I don't like bare hands. I have to put up with them a lot because my partners like that I don't like them. But damn, you don't even need a flogging toy if you know how to wield your hand.

I keep seeing a lot of clothespin use in videos. Not sure I could handle them, though

I'm a sassy submissive bottom. We have loads of sex toys and many designed just for BDSM...we love a lot of Sportsheets things such as restraints and hogties. MY favorite toy relating to BDSM is a heavy Elk leather moppy-type flogger we had special made for us. It is heavenly and thuddy. MY most hated, despised toy is actually a 39cent wooden 5-gallon paint stirring stick that hubby purchased from WalMart...we actually have 3 (and I was the silly thing that painted them pretty colors...as if THAT would make them better or less painful. Tee-hee).Hubbys fav is the paint stick (I call it the PAIN stick). Figures that the one I hate is the one he loves.

I absolutely love my bit gag but hate the drool I produce. I beg for it every time I play

Also, butterfly clamps. I love me some nipple torture

Nipple clamps and clothespins are my favs. Clothespins are deliciously versatile, but then, so are teeth.

I LOVE being gagged, ball gag, bit gag, scarves, I don't care which. LOVE gags!