The New Intimacy

Does anyone use....??

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Does anyone in here use paddles or whips? I wanted to get one of those paddles with the words on it. If you use these things, how did your partner react the fist time? How did you get him/her to open up to it?
10/22/2010
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Save Extra 20% On Love Cushion And Toy Set!
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • Save 50% On Shower Nozzle With Enema Set
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: caribeguy caribeguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Danielle1220
Does anyone in here use paddles or whips? I wanted to get one of those paddles with the words on it. If you use these things, how did your partner react the fist time? How did you get him/her to open up to it?
My wife and I do this occasionally. I think I started it years ago- I spanked her with my hand. Later the same night (alcohol was involved) I asked her if she wanted to whip my a$$. She used a belt on me. Weeks later she came home with one of the whips with the frayed ends.

I like it (receiving) more than she does; I like it pretty hard. I guess I just like the pain and pleasure thing. It's a real turn-on to me. I use it on her too but I'm careful to not hit too hard- not nearly as hard as she does me.

By the way.... this led later to her asking for a strap-on. While we only use these things 2 or 3 times a year, she occasionally likes to whip my butt then have her way with me using her strap-on. I must admit I enjoy both. Actually its the taboo mental turn-on that I enjoy more than the act itself but it makes for a wild, sexy night.
10/25/2010
Contributor: queertastic queertastic
Quote:
Originally posted by Danielle1220
Does anyone in here use paddles or whips? I wanted to get one of those paddles with the words on it. If you use these things, how did your partner react the fist time? How did you get him/her to open up to it?
My partner and I have a collection of whips and paddles. Before you buy any implements, talk it over with your partner first. Find out what they like/don't like. Communication is key in any aspect of a relationship!

My partner first found out I liked spanking when I was a bit tipsy and we were talking online. I didn't even remember the conversation until she brought it up later. =)
10/25/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
talk to mistress kay (just search for her contributor name) as she's right intothe bondage gear and in my opinion possibly one of the most knowledgable members of the community regarding whips & paddles etc
10/26/2010