Do you wear anything to show you are kinky?

Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Just curious if anybody here goes out of their way to subtly hint they have a kinky set of sexual desires. Or not so subtle
07/12/2012
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I just got a collar in today that I plan on wearing daily. Everyone has always told me I "look" kinky anyhow. I have no idea what that even means, but apparently just looking at me people can tell I'm into what I'm into. No collar required. lol
07/12/2012
Contributor: freud13 freud13
I don't. But now I'm thinking I should find something subtle
07/12/2012
Contributor: Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
i dont currently but my Mister and i have discussed a collar (necklace style not obvious) or some subtle wrist cuffs, but something locking so its on permenantly
07/12/2012
Contributor: hall5885 hall5885
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I just got a collar in today that I plan on wearing daily. Everyone has always told me I "look" kinky anyhow. I have no idea what that even means, but apparently just looking at me people can tell I'm into what I'm into. No collar required. lol
Glad I'm not the only one who gets that. I've been told I intimate people when it comes to dating cause I look dominating and I look like I would crack a whip at them. lol
07/12/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Quote:
Originally posted by hall5885
Glad I'm not the only one who gets that. I've been told I intimate people when it comes to dating cause I look dominating and I look like I would crack a whip at them. lol
I've made the mistake of asking what it is about me that screams "kinky." A few people have said it's the way I walk. O.o I guess I strut about or something in a sexual type of way. Oh well.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Nope, I don't go out of my way to hint that I'm kinky. My desire for kink is really only my and my girl's business when it comes to the public, real world eye.
07/12/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
People usually guess, even if I try not to look kinky at all.. I guess it's my attitude.
07/12/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I wear a cuff at kinky events, but otherwise no.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I have seen people wearing handkerchiefs and things like that but I haven't worn anything. I am thinking about getting something for my sub for her to wear all the time. Can't decide what to get though.
07/12/2012
Contributor: ScarletFox ScarletFox
A few times I have worn a collar and cuffs in public as accessories but other then that, no. Though I have thought about getting a simple necklace with the Triskelion on it.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
I wore a collar for 3 years, pretty much 24/7, and used the leash as a wallet chain. I also used to use my cuffs as bracelets, without the snap connecting them.

After I stopped wearing the collar, I found this adorable necklace. It's handcuffs with a heart charm dangling off of them. Rather cute, and I've started wearing that.
07/13/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, but I've discussed getting my sub a subtle collar
07/13/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I've made the mistake of asking what it is about me that screams "kinky." A few people have said it's the way I walk. O.o I guess I strut about or something in a sexual type of way. Oh well.
that is rather interesting
07/13/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
No.From looking at me people would think I'm very conservative.
07/13/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I wear a collar and a lot of leather. So I guess so?
07/13/2012
Contributor: MissLoren MissLoren
Nah
07/18/2012
Contributor: HippieFeet HippieFeet
I'm thinking of wearing the new collar I'm getting out.
07/18/2012
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
I don't wear anything to advertise my kinkiness, no. My sub and I get a good laugh out of hearing people describe me as straight-laced.
07/18/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Just curious if anybody here goes out of their way to subtly hint they have a kinky set of sexual desires. Or not so subtle
No I don't.
12/29/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
Not on purpose, but I suppose my tights, boots, and some other things I wear often might give it away. I think people figure it out more from my personality though.
12/29/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Sometimes...depends on how my confidence level is that day, but I do like to wear relatively discreet looking collars and cuffs out in public once in a while. =^.^=
12/29/2012
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
Collar
12/30/2012
Contributor: A Good Girl A Good Girl
I don't wear anything specific.
03/14/2013
Contributor: sinnerandsaint sinnerandsaint
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I've made the mistake of asking what it is about me that screams "kinky." A few people have said it's the way I walk. O.o I guess I strut about or something in a sexual type of way. Oh well.
I'm always shocked when people come out and ask me about what I'm into, especially in public. Sir said he was attracted to me because of the way I held myself. Apparently I stand up straight with my wrists crossed behind my back automatically (I honestly never noticed). Something must give me away because we met when he came up to me in a bar and said I'd look great hogtied. haha
03/15/2013
Contributor: butts butts
Nope! I've definitely had people assume I'm kinky by my abrasive personality, I guess I act like a dom? I mean, it's kinda true but it's still an odd thing to assume by my personality XD I'm a guy and I have worn stockings under my clothes before, but most people don't see it haha
03/15/2013
Contributor: BloodHound BloodHound
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Just curious if anybody here goes out of their way to subtly hint they have a kinky set of sexual desires. Or not so subtle
If I'm out in public I really don't wear anything that screams that I'm kinky. I carry a few cards to a few kinky clubs I'm a member of but that's about it.

If I'm going to a kinky party or something. Usually have at least one piece of leather on. Normally my leather boots but sometimes I'll wear my leather vest and pants as well.
03/15/2013
Contributor: chicagobearsfan chicagobearsfan
I'd like to find something subtle, but nothing yet.
04/15/2013
Contributor: palindromic palindromic
Nothin' but the marks on my ass. And thighs. And arms. And shoulders.
04/15/2013