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Contributor: aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
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Originally posted by Sammi
And we do it with a Black Label cover. The best thing ever invented for Liberator furniture
does it actually hold up well? it seems that you'd be able to get out too easy, cuz you could just move the wedge out from under your head. no?
03/23/2011
Contributor: aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
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Originally posted by removedacnt
My husband and I have always played with bondage. We both enjoy being in charge or being the one tied up. We do have a few things that we bought but we also have used household items. As a matter of fact we have terry bathrobe belts tied up on ... more
when i was 16, my bf and i were walking behind a walmart, and he shoved me up against the wall and handcuffed me to a ramp pole that was there(romantically, of course!). i was stuck for like 2 hours. THEN we decided that since we thought we figured out how to get them off, he cuffed my wrists together. i rode the city bus home like that.....had to sneak in the window and sleep cuffed...we wire-cutter'd them off the next morning at school. LOL.

needless to say...we don't do metal handcuffs anymore. we've stuck to leather straps ever since then!
03/23/2011
Contributor: Airplane Airplane
We made our own under-bed restraint system, ha, art students on a budget can do some really creative things...Mostly we've been using bondage tape with it, he doesn't know knots very well, so, I don't want to risk being tied up and him not being able to figure out how to untie me! The tape is fun, not the strongest, but with enough layers wrapped around, it does a pretty good job.

We'll be investing in a good, solid pair of leather cuffs when some more money falls into our laps, I can't wait!
03/30/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I have this corset that is so sexy on a girl n ties her arms together
04/14/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
We have used silk ties, scarves, and we bought rope and that we are learning on how to use it (cant wait) and I really want to get an under the bed restraints.
04/20/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Relating to: A Buyers Guide to Restraints

After reading Sarah Sloane's article today on SexIs, I got to thinking. How many of you enjoy bondage? How do you do it? Do you choose the type of restraint you use based on how you'll use ... more
I would like us to do more in the future. Would love to try a little bit of everything.
05/15/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
I haven't tried bondage, but if I did I'd like to use Lelo's silk ties.
05/16/2011
Contributor: cec578 cec578
just light stuff, but I like it to some extent
05/16/2011
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
I've used rope before, am looking into almost everything on the list, and have a very large collection of large hair-ties and sturdy scarves in the same drawer where I keep my sex toys. I use what's at hand, and have been tempted to use plastic wrap once or twice when I didn't have access to anything else.
05/23/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
My experience is not extensive but he chooses what restraints to use depending on the situation. Sometimes that is whatever is at hand, other times it's more complex.
05/27/2011
Contributor: AngelEyes1975 AngelEyes1975
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Originally posted by Tuesday
There's no option for "Haven't tried it but really want to."
Same here, I think it would be cool to be cuffed or tied to the bed and "tortured" by my husband. Not thinking I would like the being hogtied etc, but..
06/14/2011
Contributor: big b big b
wife is not into it
06/28/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Usually I've used whatever's come to hand (belt or tie), but my girl has these velcro restraints, and I'm eyeing up some cuffs.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Relating to: A Buyers Guide to Restraints

After reading Sarah Sloane's article today on SexIs, I got to thinking. How many of you enjoy bondage? How do you do it? Do you choose the type of restraint you use based on how you'll use ... more
Dated a girl in college that wanted to be bound, gagged, the whole nine yards. Discovered you either love it, or not so much. It didn't do anything for me, and while she "had" to have it, I found it totally non-sexual, and actually ended up "breaking up" with her because I was having "no fun" in that department and I am sure that eventually I was not going to be making her happy, since I was just not into it. I guess to each his own, but I still don't see the sexual "fun" in it. Only activity seriously not on our list.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Summersong Summersong
Started out with furry cuffs but upgraded to the Under The Bed Restraint System!
06/29/2011
Contributor: RedGoddess RedGoddess
velcro restraints, rope play, ball gag, and blindforlds are the way to go... not all at once...lol
07/04/2011
Contributor: Karen Affeldt Karen Affeldt
I don't mind being tied up with whatever is handy but I have a FWB who has a variety of rope and leather restraints which I find extremely erotic.
07/04/2011
Contributor: lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Relating to: A Buyers Guide to Restraints

After reading Sarah Sloane's article today on SexIs, I got to thinking. How many of you enjoy bondage? How do you do it? Do you choose the type of restraint you use based on how you'll use ... more
can’t get enough of being restrained
07/04/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
We've got metal hitching rings attached to our bedframe at all four corners. Use clips and the like to attach chains, straps, whatever to those - and use cuffs for restraints.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Kinkypixie Kinkypixie
I have loved the idea of bondage for as long as I can remember and have tried to convince past boyfriends to participate with me. All of them were unwilling so I remain with no real life experience in this department. Some day..some day..
08/01/2011
Contributor: systematicweasel systematicweasel
Cuffs or rope, or maybe some other spontaneous items we find lol ^^
08/06/2011
Contributor: nancylanier nancylanier
i have to say that i myself LOVE bondage neck ties slik ties handcuffs ropes all of it whips chains like i always say " Sticks and stones may break my bones but Whips and chains excite me"
10/08/2011
Contributor: Katastophy Katastophy
I love leather restraints.
10/09/2011
Contributor: Seventeen Seventeen
Self-bondage here! Great fun Got stuck once though.. took me 15 minutes to get out of my wrist ones, whereas usually I can get out in a near instant.
10/16/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
We have so many options available to us it's ridiculous. Although chains should have been on that list, sad to see it wasn't there.
10/26/2011
Contributor: zeb zeb
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Originally posted by Avery Dragon
There should've been an "all the above" option =P

I tend to use a little bit of everything...except the furry cuffs >.>;
I agree
10/28/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Rope right now- versatile, artistic, low cost

But someday I'll invest in set of leather restraints
10/29/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I love bondage.
I usually pull out my leather cuffs. But we don't have the means to use them right now.
My fuzzy handcuffs are great too.
10/30/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Bondaaage. I have about 300 feet of brand-new pink nylon rope. He is gonna look so hot in it.

Gotta be careful with it, though. It burns more than cotton if I move it as fast as I move the cotton rope.
10/30/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Relating to: A Buyers Guide to Restraints

After reading Sarah Sloane's article today on SexIs, I got to thinking. How many of you enjoy bondage? How do you do it? Do you choose the type of restraint you use based on how you'll use ... more
I like leather cuffs for purpose (buckle, locking, whatever) but love attaching them to the bed with rope or handcuffs for the aesthetic. I also like impromptu rope hogties connecting the cuffs
11/11/2011