Collar with Nipple Clamps?

Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink 04/15/2011

I'm looking into getting a new collar and I want one with nipple clamps this time. I'm fairly new to nipple clamps, so I was wondering which one might be better for a beginner. They both seem fairly comparable, so what do you guys think?

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Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Which would be better for a beginner? Or are they both about the same?
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Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I would go with the collar with clamps. The crave collar is purple leather.
04/16/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It depends on what you mean by "beginner." Are you new to BDSM? Have you used nipple clamps before? How do you respond to being collared?

IMO, if you are really new to BDSM, you may want to individually try a collar and some clamps (probably starting with tweezer clamps) before going to a more advanced product like this one.

These clamps are a bit more intense than tweezer clamps and when they are attached to a collar, your movement will increase the intensity of the clamps by pulling on them and tightening them.

If that's what you are going for, then cool. But, if you're a "beginner" to rough play, you may want to take it a little slower. Only you know what your own tolerance for or need for pain or intense physical sensation is.

I personally find a nice set of cuffs a good into to rough play, but everybody has different tastes.

Being collared can be a really emotionally intense experience, not bad, but you have to know what you want from the experience, and your partner needs to be able to react, respond and know what to do with your reaction properly, too.

Good luck.

Be Safe, be Sane and use Consent. Don't forget your safeword!
04/16/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by tickle me pink
Which would be better for a beginner? Or are they both about the same?
collar with clamps looks good.
04/16/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
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Originally posted by P'Gell
It depends on what you mean by "beginner." Are you new to BDSM? Have you used nipple clamps before? How do you respond to being collared?



IMO, if you are really new to BDSM, you may want to individually try a collar and some ... more
As far as "beginner" I meant just to nipple clamps. I've been into BDSM (mostly on the lighter side) for awhile now, but we tend to use things around the house instead of specific BDSM gear.

Thank you for all the information! I might go ahead and try some tweezer clamps first to get a better idea.
04/16/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I'd go with the one you find more aesthetically pleasing since they are similar.
04/16/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
We have one and the clamps don't stay on very well. I also think the tweezer style clamps would be better.
04/16/2011
Contributor: Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
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Originally posted by liilii080
I'd go with the one you find more aesthetically pleasing since they are similar.
I agree here
04/26/2011
Contributor: reysgirl83 reysgirl83
I agree with the poll.
06/22/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
They are pretty similar. And they both have adjustable clamps which is good, so whichever you like best, like it was said above, go with
07/04/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
collar with clamps
07/11/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
Interestingly, most people seem to be leaning toward collar with clamps. Do some of you have personal experience with them both? I have a number of nipple clamps in my collection and from the pictures I would say the two *MAY NOT* be comparable pain-wise. The question is how much torque is in the clamp "at rest". The crave pix show it completely open which suggests that it will only get as tight as you adjust it. The other has no pix in which the clamps are not pursed tight which suggests to me the spring action may be a bit tight naturally. Not all adjustments go looser... some only tighter.

The other thing to look at for newbies is whether the clips have "teeth".
07/11/2011
Contributor: paige09nicole paige09nicole
You need to know how much you want the nipple clamps to hurt. How much pain are you wanting?
11/21/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by tickle me pink
Which would be better for a beginner? Or are they both about the same?
Collar with clamps.
11/24/2011
Contributor: Kilot Kilot
I have yet to find a set that I really like, and its really not that hard to find a nice collar w/ a ring that you can feed your clamps through. If I were looking right now that's what I would do. And it allows you take the clamps completely off when you aren't using them.
11/27/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
I like how the first one looks, personally.
11/28/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
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Originally posted by tickle me pink
Which would be better for a beginner? Or are they both about the same?
oohhhh, that looks fun!
11/29/2011
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
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Originally posted by tickle me pink
Which would be better for a beginner? Or are they both about the same?
The crave is purple....
12/11/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I like the color purple on the crave, but it would depend on a person's preference.
01/26/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
Even though I'm a guy. I would go with the collor with clamps.
01/26/2012
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Another option would be to purchase the collar and nipple clamps separately.

I have the Ruff Doggie Styes Heart Beat Collar.

Since it's not as wide as most other collars, it is more comfortable to wear for extended periods of time.

The ring in the center is perfect to attach either a leash or the nipple clamps of your choice.

Plus, the silver studs and pink hearts are a powerfully sexy combination.
Naughty and nice!
02/02/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I have the regular collar with clamps and I like it a lot. I'm not a huge fan of the crave stuff.
05/15/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by tickle me pink
Which would be better for a beginner? Or are they both about the same?
I'd like to try Collar with clamps.
05/15/2012