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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Alrighty,

I have this wonderful ball gag that I wish I could use more often. My issue is that when I wear it I can never relax my lips because when I do, my lips get bit as they nestle below my teeth. During sex, I hate focusing on my lips, I want to focus on the pleasure.

I don't know if this is due to my lips being big (I find them quite normal they are not thin or vuluptuous, they're in between) or due to the ball being too small for my mouth.

Does anyone else have some kind of similar issue, and what have you done, or planned on doing that might solve the problem?

I was thinking about getting a bigger sized ball or perhaps going with a begginner ball gag which looks more comfortable.
06/15/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Are you trying to keep from drooling? I don't think that's avoidable...but I haven't only used but one gag ball.
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Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I would say,if your lips are below your teeth with the gag on, it may be too big for you - the wider you open your mouth, the more your lips hang below your teeth.

I'd say maybe try a different style gag?
06/15/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I would say,if your lips are below your teeth with the gag on, it may be too big for you - the wider you open your mouth, the more your lips hang below your teeth.

I'd say maybe try a different style gag?
I agree with that. Originally reading the post, I did not understand. But now I do, and I agree with you, Carrie Ann.

You may want to try a bit style gag, or a smaller ball, or even a plug gag. Both bits and plugs may keep from this, and they are also as pleasurable and attractive.
06/15/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Do you know the name/company of the gag? I have one that does this to me and it's because (like Carrie Ann & Sir said) it's too wide for my mouth. I don't bottom that often, so I don't wear it much, but when I do I cut my lip sometimes. Honestly it doesn't bother me much because discomfort and pain is part of what I like about being on the bottom every now and again, but I can see that not being a plus for everyone.

I would recommend pacifier gags like the beginner gags that Tantus do. They're great because they're small, but also because they have a flat base that the mouth piece is mounted onto. That means it's better at muffling sound and also, at least in my opinion, easier on the lips. Tantus' Fantasy gag is also great and has a flat base, but it's fairly long and hits the gag reflexes on a lot of people.
06/16/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Actually, the ball is quite small for my mouth (its the small ball gag by spartacus) I can open my mouth wide enough that the ball is not touching anything and still be comfortable. So I do not think that the ball is too big. I think if I got a bigger ball my lips would have more area to cover and would not slip under my teeth.

I think I should get one of the begginner ones. My lips will be able to relax more. Thanks everyone on your advice.
06/16/2010
Contributor: Gary Gary
You know... I have never once even tried a ball gag on just to see what it felt like. I should really put that on my to do list!
06/16/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have tried only once with the one I currently have and I'm embarrassed to say that I had to watch some porn to see if I was biting/putting my lips on it right, lol.
06/18/2010