Who do you think uses strap ons more?

Contributor: nori nori
I was always curious to the perception of strap on usage, for pegging, double penetration, and insert play among female bodies. What do you think? (Tried to be as gender-positive as possible!)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Women use it more on their male partners
21  (28%)
Women use it more on their female partners
47  (62%)
Men use it more for Double penetration
Trans* use it more on their respective partners
1  (1%)
OTHER! :Explain in comments?
7  (9%)
Total votes: 76
Poll is closed
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11/26/2011
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
This is kind of a difficult poll to answer. I'd bet a significant number of transmen use some kind of strapon/prosthetic cock, but there are also fewer transmen than peggers or lesbian couples. So in terms of percentage, probably transmen, but in terms of NUMBERs? Probably male/female couples.
11/27/2011
Contributor: dcooper dcooper
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
This is kind of a difficult poll to answer. I'd bet a significant number of transmen use some kind of strapon/prosthetic cock, but there are also fewer transmen than peggers or lesbian couples. So in terms of percentage, probably transmen, but ... more
I agree, that's a hard one to judge really, and I'm not sure it matters. As long as people are having safe and consensual fun, who is using what on whom really isn't any of my business.
11/27/2011
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
My off-the-cuff assumption is that there would be more lesbian couples incorporating such into their play than m/f pegging couples.
11/27/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Going strictly by the numbers, I would assume that there are more m/f couples using strap-ons simply because they are such a huge portion of the population.

Going by percentage, I would guess that couples with at least one FTM would have the highest percentage of strap-on use, followed by f/f couples, and then m/f couples.
11/27/2011
Contributor: OrangeKushBB OrangeKushBB
I've always wanted to try this on a guy - at least my kinky side has.
11/28/2011
Contributor: nori nori
I was curious what people's perceptions were. ^^
11/28/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
As everyone else said, tough one, I have no idea. I am a guy and have had a fantasy of a girl going to town on me with one if that counts for anything!
11/29/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
More as in percentage or population?

For percentage, I'd say Trans* and Women on female partners.

For numbers, I'd say Women on male partners
11/29/2011
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by nori
I was always curious to the perception of strap on usage, for pegging, double penetration, and insert play among female bodies. What do you think? (Tried to be as gender-positive as possible!)
Personally I think women that use it on their female partners. Most guys I've been with are rather insecure that they would never even consider pegging. To them, females wanting double penetration just imply that their own cock is not enough. Hence it hurts their ego.
So really, it comes down choosing between woman use it on their female partners, or trans man using it on their partners. Somehow I have the perception that there are more females using strap-on on their female partners than trans man needing to use strap-on on their partners.
12/10/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by nori
I was always curious to the perception of strap on usage, for pegging, double penetration, and insert play among female bodies. What do you think? (Tried to be as gender-positive as possible!)
i us on both
12/10/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
My woman uses it more on me...however I have a Deuce that I use on her as well.
12/10/2011
Contributor: jessi2 jessi2
we use our strap on just as much as we use our double ended dildo
12/11/2011
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
I think women use it more on their male partners.
01/18/2012
Contributor: lcl169 lcl169
maybe im biased, but i would think f/f couples use them more... percentage wise
01/29/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
I would guess a higher percentage of women-on-women use them, but I wouldn't be surprised if a higher number over-all of woman-on-man relationships use them.
01/29/2012
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
Speaking from my personal experience, I've only ever used one with my female partner (and I'm a female).
01/29/2012
Contributor: Puss in Boots Puss in Boots
I've only ever used with male partners (I'm female). I'm not really interested in using them with female partners.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
lesbians?
02/23/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
I think straight guys vastly outnumber female-female couples, so there's likely more *interested* men than lesbians. Whether they admit/go through with it (or go through with it with their Significant Other) is another thing.
02/24/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
I was really surprised when I first came on this site by the number of straight couples who use strap ons for pegging. Harnesses and strapless were always a lesbian thing in my mind. Prior to being on this site, I would have thought there were more lesbians using them than straight couples but by now I have to say, I think there are probably a greater number of straight women using them on their male partners. This, as others said, is speaking strictly in numbers. Percentage-wise, I think the trans men would win, followed by the lesbians. Though, as a lesbian, I've met a surprising number of lesbians who have never used a strap on, on either side of the equation.
02/27/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I have no idea but I'd go with females using on male partner and female using on female partner.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
Females on males. That is something I would like to have happen.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I've never used a strap-on on anyone, but I would assume that more women use them on their female lovers.
03/11/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
I think its female onto female for the most part, but that's just my perception.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Various Various
I assume it is more female on female, but I could be wrong, and if I am that is pretty rad!
03/12/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Various
I assume it is more female on female, but I could be wrong, and if I am that is pretty rad!
Depends if you're talking numbers or rate. As a rate it's probably F/F, but for numbers - there are a lot of M/F couples out there, so even a small percentage is big.
04/04/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
i can't really say. i feel that women use it more on male partners but only because that's the only way we use them
04/04/2012
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
I feel like straps are used by lesbians more than straight couples, but I feel like those numbers are getting closer
06/03/2013