Informative topic breakdown of Strap on dildo:

What is your current harness and dildo that you are using?
I'm a beginner and I'm trying my hardest to understand how to properly select the harness and dildo separately rather than having to get a kit but I..

Luxe White Jaguar - How low is too low?
I'm a first time harness wearer/user, and I purchased the Luxe White Jag. I know this harness is made to sit low on the wearer, to allow clit...

Strap on video
I have found the best strap on instructional videos that I have seen. They are on the web site xnxx.com. Just type in strap on masterclass in the...

Vibrating Strap On
Anyone know of a good vibrating strap on harness that will fit a plus size woman? My husband loves to be pegged but quite honestly, I don't get much..

How does it look in person?
Looking at the black one online, it looks kind of orthopedic. Has anyone found this to be true in person or does it look sexy?

Probably not that one. While it was rated OK, it probably isn't really sturdy enough for good strapon use.

What I recommend is going slowly to make sure you like it and then, if you think you will, get good equipment from the get-go. What this means is starting out with basic anal play to make sure you both like it, then moving to a handheld silicone dildo, then finally getting a harness. That way, the most specific piece of equipment (the harness) is only bought when you know you like dildo play.