Tantus small or medium first?

Contributor: HotMama2three HotMama2three
DH is ready to try pegging. We have successfully used an aneros mgx, and a pure plug medium, and of course my finger, though 2 was too much for him. Should I get the Tantus small or medium next? I feel like the small is just too small, and am hoping to be able to use whichever dildo we choose for DP for me as well, and i already think the pure plug is too small.
07/10/2012
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Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I always think it's better to go a little bigger and work up to it, rather than get something that's on the small side and which you end up only using a couple of times before wanting to upgrade. Go for the medium.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I agree with buying the medium. Just have more foreplay. You may need to go to 2 fingers though in order to insert it comfortably. Just go nice and slow and easy and it should work.

My significant other and I use the tantus charmer and it works quite well. It is 1.1 inches I believe.
07/11/2012
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
My hubby is very, very tight but we love pegging. We originally tried with something that was too big and that put us off for a while. We got back into it via the Bend Over Intermediate Kit, but when you consider that the Silk Large is huge and doesn't get used by us you might want to try the Bend Over Beginner Kit. That's got both the Small and Medium. We already had the Small and it's just too small, but at least that way you'd have both so could alternate.

Oh and we also found that the Sliquid Sassy Booty lube works very VERY well too
07/11/2012
Contributor: HotMama2three HotMama2three
Ordering the silk medium and the joque harness...thanks everyone!
07/12/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Medium would probably be good - I recommend 1.25-1.5" diameter and 5.5-6.5" in length for a first pegging toy.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionCpl
My hubby is very, very tight but we love pegging. We originally tried with something that was too big and that put us off for a while. We got back into it via the Bend Over Intermediate Kit, but when you consider that the Silk Large is huge and ... more
I was just about to suggest the bend over beginner kit. I was having a hard time deciding between the small and medium too but now I'm having a hard time deciding between the kits and just buying the small on its own. I like what PassionCpl said so I think I'll do that too.
07/13/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
There really isn't too much of a cost advantage for the kits vs. buying separately. I wouldn't limit myself to a kit.

The Tantus Curve is a nice dildo.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Peg Peg
We agree with the others; Medium
07/13/2012