I'm a guy looking to get a comfortable harness that I can use to DP my girlfriend. Ideally the harness could also be comfortably worn by her for pegging. Ability to accept different size dildos is a plus.
As for the dildo, we are both anal sex beginners, so what I think I'd like is:
- slender
- long enough for strap-on use
- curved so that it stimulates the p-spot (and g-spot when I DP her in missionary)
- preferably silicone
- something smooth enough that the likelihood of tearing anal tissue is very low even with somewhat aggressive thrusting (yes, we'll use lots of lube, but as a newbie, I want to be super-cautious about the tearing issue)
Any suggestions and advice are greatly appreciated!
As for the dildo, we are both anal sex beginners, so what I think I'd like is:
- slender
- long enough for strap-on use
- curved so that it stimulates the p-spot (and g-spot when I DP her in missionary)
- preferably silicone
- something smooth enough that the likelihood of tearing anal tissue is very low even with somewhat aggressive thrusting (yes, we'll use lots of lube, but as a newbie, I want to be super-cautious about the tearing issue)
Any suggestions and advice are greatly appreciated!