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Contributor: Ashen Ashen
My fiancee is very interested in trying pegging, with some requests for what I get her to wear. Neither one of us has experience with pegging, though I have an average anal toy experience.

She wants a strap-on that she can feel as well, so I was checking out feeldoes, but she says the bulb looks uncomfortably large. So I've continued to look, but I haven't found anything good yet and was hoping this forum would have some advice.

Another problem is she has very large hips, so normal harnesses won't fit. We need something that can accommodate.

Thanks
07/15/2012
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Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
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Originally posted by Ashen
My fiancee is very interested in trying pegging, with some requests for what I get her to wear. Neither one of us has experience with pegging, though I have an average anal toy experience.

She wants a strap-on that she can feel as well, so I ... more
i have not tried the feeldoe, yet. it is part of our next order. But the fettish fantsy one is similar and we have that one. The bulb looks big but it feels great inside of you. it really hits the lower g spot area perfectly.

the harness i have is the driver. It goes up to 44 inches. Maybe if you poke around and ck out all the max lengths for them you may be able to find one that works for you.
07/15/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I haven't had any luck with double ended dildos like that. What we've done if I want to feel thrusting is use a harness that I can insert a dildo in both ends on. Most Aslan Jag harnesses are like this. Depending on how wide your wife's hips are, this may or may not work. What are her measurements?
07/15/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
I agree with Kira that two individual dildos would work better. We have the Nexus Sr. and the Feeldoe Realdoe. Both are good but I think using two individual dildos base to base would be better. This allows each of you to pick one that fits your individual needs.

In terms of harnesses, this RodeoH harness is out of stock but comes in a 41" size. They are very stretchable and should accommodate an even larger waist. Another option is the SpareParts Joque large which accommodates up to 65" waists.

Both are very comfortable to wear although the RodeoH is a simple slip on like underwear. I would recommend it for beginners.
07/15/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i'm VERY tight with a very low tolerance for large or girthy insertables. With a little foreplay, i can easily accomodate the bulb on the feeldoe and it feels fantastic, but i strongly prefer it in a harness for stability. i was worried about the size of the bulb too, but it's really much easier to insert that you'd think.
07/16/2012