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Contributor: JustYourAverageGuy JustYourAverageGuy
My girlfriend and I are looking into getting our first harness and have been drawn to the SpareParts joque harness. Does anyone have any suggestions for newbies in this department? We have quite a few toys that are O ring compatible, ranging from 1" in diameter to 2".... Help please!
02/24/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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02/24/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
I say go for SpareParts. Its washable, adjustable, comfortable, secure and waterproof and unisex. Its one of the few harnesses that have room for your balls. Your toys will fit fine.
02/24/2010
Contributor: TexasBrat TexasBrat
Quote:
Originally posted by JustYourAverageGuy
My girlfriend and I are looking into getting our first harness and have been drawn to the SpareParts joque harness. Does anyone have any suggestions for newbies in this department? We have quite a few toys that are O ring compatible, ranging from ... more
We have a few. I'd recommend looking into some of the Sportsheets ones. Easy to use, adjust, and they're machine washable. I would also recommend that you get one of those lingerie net bags, you can put in the washing machine. That's how we wash our harnesses. It works VERY well.
08/20/2010
Contributor: Greta Greta
Spareparts Joque Harness, it fits almost all dildos, it's washable and very very comfortable.

I just posted a how to choose a strap on guide today : link
11/01/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Other good ones are the Aslan and Outlaw Leather models, and Sportsheets harnesses aren't bad for value models.
11/01/2010
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by JustYourAverageGuy
My girlfriend and I are looking into getting our first harness and have been drawn to the SpareParts joque harness. Does anyone have any suggestions for newbies in this department? We have quite a few toys that are O ring compatible, ranging from ... more
We use Buzz Me Tender harness. The important feature is that it has pouches for vibrators to stimulate her clitoris while she fucks me. Bendover Beginner Kit also has a clit vibrator. The Sedeux Leather also does.

Good luck and enjoy!
12/07/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I've heard good things about the Spareparts harness, but don't have one mysewldf so I cxan't judge. We have the Mia-Z and it's awesome.
12/07/2010
Contributor: married with children married with children
we have and use the Pretty Boi. It is very well made and seems to do a good job. Its alittle expensive. It has lasted 3 years so far.
12/25/2010
Contributor: thatonegirl thatonegirl
okay i now it has been almost a year since you have posted this but if your looking for something easy to use with interchangeable o ring i would suggest Sedeux divine diva plus size harness – double strap harness. Not saying your plus size but this can get as small as 25 inches
01/26/2011
Contributor: Twinkies Twinkies
Aslan's stuff is splendid
01/30/2011