You undo the snaps, pull the straps out of the backing leather pad, and reconnect them to the O-ring without the pad (one by one is by far the easiest - pull the strap out and reconnect so you don't have to puzzle out the arrangement)

I'm not talking about the Latigo harness that one I've figured out how to do it on. I'm talking about the Spareparts one.

Yeah that's what I figure as well. I'm wondering how well it'll work with the Nexus Maximus since the part that joins them together is big but like I said I'm looking at getting the other harness first. Out of curiousity, what is your favorite harness for pegging Scott?

Thanks for the info. Of the two which do you think is better? I notice the Jaguar doesn't have any backing at all. Is this an issue with single ended dildos rubbing you raw? I noticed in your review of it you mentioned the Aslan cuff so you could use a second dildo internally. Does it pretty much stay in one position or will it actually move in and out with your movement? I'm guessing Eden doesn't carry these? I looked on google but it's not specific enough to find it.

I have the Aslan Wonder Woman and the Latigo Leather. For the price, the Latigo Leather is a decent harness, but it does naturally seem to ride a little higher (it can be cinched down low). The Wonder Woman looks neat, but the large O-ring in front of the small hole can be difficult. If the person wearing the harness has sensitive skin they can notice the stitching in the back pad as well.

Haven't found the perfect harness yet. The Jocque and Jaguar both look good, as do the Outlaw Leather models. The Commando interests me - it looks like it naturally rides a bit higher, but should work well for doubles.

On a harness like the Jocque or the Aslan you mount the big "joining block" of the Nexus right up against the giver's skin so that they're stimulated by the clit ridge and vibrator. The getter's end projects through both holes in the harness.

Does that help you conceptualize it?

The Jaguar can have the backing pad used. What you do is unsnap the O-ring and put the dildo's base in between the O-ring and the Jaguar. You can also do this on the Wonder Woman/Prince style as well, but it's a bit floppier. You can also squeeze a second dildo in facing the other way. It takes a bit of work, but it is functional (the second dildo's base is also between the O-ring and the harness, but it projects through the internal hole).

Single dildos generally don't have a rubbing problem. Occasionally you can get hair sticking to them or trapped, and that can hurt a bit.

Aslan makes a cuff to support a 2nd dil that is worn internally. I usually use the Tex with the Leo for partner penetration. Aslan also makes a driving pad that attaches to the harness; it absorbs the pounding. I use it 50% of the time as most of the time I enjoy the straight stimulation.
The Spareparts is awesome but the backing can either be used or not but it doesn't absorb much. The Spareparts is washable which is a plus but to me the Jaguar feels and looks more sexy.
The internal dill doesn't move all that much while thrusting.

Lot of good information there thanks Liz. If you don't mind I gotta a couple more questions. You said the dildo doesn't move very much. Does a double dildo move more than the two singles or is it about the same? It sounds like you still like your Jaguar better is that correct?

In my experience they move about the same. The double moves a bit more because the dildos are stuck together and don't have the space, but on a tight harness the movement isn't much - what stimulates the giver is the pressure changes.

Sometimes with a double you can loosen up the harness a bit (because the giver's body helps support and direct the dildo), which can increase the thrusting action.. With two singles you don't really have this option.

Thanks for a 2nd opinion Liz. I don't see any reviews on harnesses or dildos. Have you used yours with any double dildos? Any info is appreciated thanks.

I like the vibrating one. That's the one I would go with.