Does the reward/enjoyment from pegging, for you, focus more on the physical feeling of being penetrated or is it more the psychological experience? If both does it have an order?

Contributor: squire squire
Is my partner and I become more experienced with pegging I have noticed that the reward I get from the experience first comes from the psychological component, but then moves more into the physical pleasure part. It's a blend of both to be sure, but the freedom I get to fully experience the physical come first from acting out the fantasy, thus leading to my question about reward.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Physical feeling of being penetrated
7
Psychological experience during play
1
Both
35
Total votes: 43 (42 voters)
Poll is closed
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09/02/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
While she has not "Pegged" me yet, she does use toys on me quite often. Like you it starts with the psychological component, I get so excited when I know she is going to do me. Once she gets going it is all about the sensation and stimulation.
09/03/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Psychological. I like to dominate him.
09/03/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
While she has not "Pegged" me yet, she does use toys on me quite often. Like you it starts with the psychological component, I get so excited when I know she is going to do me. Once she gets going it is all about the sensation and stimulation.
This is our case as well. My wife doesn't like the role-reversal idea, but I like the strong p-spot assisted orgasms and she's OK with that.
09/03/2011
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
It is definitely both for me. The psychological reward is very compelling in the beginning, but then the physical takes over and all I can think about is how she is making me feel (fantastic).
09/04/2011
Contributor: squire squire
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Originally posted by robertk2380
It is definitely both for me. The psychological reward is very compelling in the beginning, but then the physical takes over and all I can think about is how she is making me feel (fantastic).
Quite an amazing experience where one is able to really get into their body but also be driven to states of pleasure that take you to another place
09/06/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I voted for my boyfriend. It's definitely a both experience for him. There's the whole your-cock-is-slamming- into-my-prostate thing, but there's the psychological me being inside him component to it as well. It depends on what kind of pegging we're doing with regards to which comes first.
09/07/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've never been pegged, but when using toys it's definitely a combo of both!
09/08/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
A little bit of both for me. It feels awesome, but it's also awesome to be like t hat with her.
09/10/2011
Contributor: Bottom Boy Bottom Boy
Definitely both -- I love the feeling her being 'inside' me, even if vicariously, and she thrills at the notion of being on top and 'in charge'.
09/12/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
It is both & the order changes each time she pegs me. Sometimes it is 1st the psychological then physical & others it reverses, & 1 way isn't any better or worse than the other
09/25/2011
Contributor: Big Dman Big Dman
I just love how it feels...
09/25/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Probably a bit of both, but if it didn't feel great I probably wouldn't do it, so the physical is more important.
09/26/2011
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
i like being penetrated, she likes experimenting (but not actually following through) with domination.

i get to cumm, thats all i care about when im being pegged by her.
09/26/2011
Contributor: CrimsonCat CrimsonCat
I voted for 'both', but it's mostly psychological for me. I like to be dominated in these cases. And sometimes, if for one reason or another I cannot climax, the psychological reward was enough for being satisfied with the whole act.
10/03/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by squire
Is my partner and I become more experienced with pegging I have noticed that the reward I get from the experience first comes from the psychological component, but then moves more into the physical pleasure part. It's a blend of both to be sure, ... more
My ex loved when I put the strap on, on and used it on him. He came so much more when i did that then with regular sex. it was like a power trip to me to be in control that way I loved it..
10/03/2011
Contributor: sureYnot sureYnot
I love being penetrated by a woman - the various anal sensations, prostate stimulation and being made love "to" and somewhat "taken" by her. It's all quite sexy and addictive.
10/11/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
Definitely both. It's amazing fucking him but I also like to get something from it as well.
10/27/2011
Contributor: Sexvixen Sexvixen
Being in control of my husband's pleasure gives me multiple orgasims. I cum when I blow him & when I'm pegging him without any physical stimulation myself. Just hearing him moan in pleasure from what I'm doing to him gives me orgasims, but they get real intense when I'm about to make him cum.

One time I was on top riding his dick reverse cowgirl & I spread his legs & started fingering his ass while he was inside me. We had to switch our leg positioning to put his outside of mine so he could spread his wider & I just tucked mine along each side of him. But omg. The noises he made I came so many times. I was doing the come hither on his prostate with my thumb rubbing & teasing his perineum while riding his dick alternating between up/down sliding it in & out of me to a deep thrusting grind back & forth. He yelled so loud when he came. I fucking loved every second of it. I honestly don't know which one of us enjoyed it more.
Jun 27, 9:08 pm
Contributor: JayBee JayBee
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Originally posted by squire
Is my partner and I become more experienced with pegging I have noticed that the reward I get from the experience first comes from the psychological component, but then moves more into the physical pleasure part. It's a blend of both to be sure, ... more
For me. It really does make me feel extremely horny in the psychological kind of way. Because I'm getting turned on by sharing that unlimited boundary with my wife. I've never been so close to anyone to trust them with something like that. And there's the thrill of the kink in the whole situation. What throws me to another level though too. Is the way of the power change or how I submit to her and let her have total control of me and trusting her with it. But its such a turn on every time I'm wanting her to be aggressive and dominant over me. I have such a high sex drive and I have an open mind for pleasure. I would do whatever my wife wants me to do to please her and because I want to obey her every command when I become the receiver. I want her to know that I am serious about her being the one in charge. If I don't take her seriously when she is the giver. Why would she keep doing it. I admit I do enjoy everything about her fucking me. But it's me wanting her to use me and me wanting her to pound my ass and put me in my place. I do get fucked so good that I'm always moaning loud for her. It's never really been for the way it feels. Because even though we have been doing it for a while. It still does kinda hurt on the inside sometimes. Like she goes so deep that i get a small sharp pain in my balls. But that's not all the time. And to be clear. I'll never tell my wife that she can't buttfuck me. She knows that she owns this ass and I will let her have it any time or place she wants it. She's my wife and all of my body belongs to her. Especially my asshole.
Jul 23, 3:08 am
Contributor: JayBee JayBee
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Originally posted by Sexvixen
Being in control of my husband's pleasure gives me multiple orgasims. I cum when I blow him & when I'm pegging him without any physical stimulation myself. Just hearing him moan in pleasure from what I'm doing to him gives me ... more
My wife is the same way. And she is always having a long strong full body orgasm every time she's buttfucking me
Jul 23, 3:10 am