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Contributor: paralax paralax
Does your partner refer to your rectum as a pussy while pegging you? would you do this? Is this a turn on or a turn off?
09/26/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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09/26/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by paralax
Does your partner refer to your rectum as a pussy while pegging you? would you do this? Is this a turn on or a turn off?
For me it would be a turn-off. Butt, ass, trasero, arsch, okole, etc work just fine. I'm a guy and so I don't have a pussy, thank you very much.

I also don't get into the whole "super femdom" types of pegging play.
09/27/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Gotta agree with ScottA here, If I were in this situation, that is how I'd feel.
09/28/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I have before during feminization type play with my partner, but it's not part of our regular play.
09/28/2010
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
Haven't pegged before, but I don't think I would want to feminize my husband. Of course, to each his own.
09/28/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I look at it like this:

"OH MY GOD! QUIT JACKING OFF IN FRONT OF ME!"

"um...I'm scratching my ear"
09/28/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Nope, I just call it my bf's ass, rear, or butt, etc. Never a pussy or the like.
09/28/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I've heard it called a "man pussy" or "man cunt" and while I've never used it on a partner before, I think I'd be open to it. If it turns them on, why not?
09/28/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
I look at it like this:

"OH MY GOD! QUIT JACKING OFF IN FRONT OF ME!"

"um...I'm scratching my ear"
Exactly. It's not a pussy/vulva/vagina/cun t, it's an ass - so why not call it that?

I don't mind if she "f___s my ass", but why not call it that? It can be sexy, too.

Oddly enough (or I imagine oddly, given the earlier post) I don't have any problem with her calling the dildo her "cock" or "dick", even though she usually doesn't. I guess because the dildo is providing that function, so to speak.
09/29/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
Nope, I just call it my bf's ass, rear, or butt, etc. Never a pussy or the like.
Same here.
09/29/2010
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
That's a major turn off for me. For my wife and I, using the strapon has nothing to do with role reversal or feminization, it's purely about anal pleasure and prostate stimulation. An ass is an ass. Let's leave it at that.
10/07/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
For me it would be a turn-off. Butt, ass, trasero, arsch, okole, etc work just fine. I'm a guy and so I don't have a pussy, thank you very much.

I also don't get into the whole "super femdom" types of pegging play.
FWIW the last line was intended to convey the hypotheses that perhaps couples more into femdom might be more likely to use "feminine" terminology. Although I must say that using "female" terminology in a that sense seems to be a bit demeaning to women.
10/08/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
An ass is an ass for us.
10/08/2010