I'm exhausted, so bear with me if this comes off as rambling... but I could use some advice.
So my male partner and I have discussed pegging for about two years now. I want to be able to do this for him, and I even bought a harness, but I just can't get into the headspace for it.
It's not any sense of stigma or squeamishness, but I just tend to shy away from such a dominant act. You see, we're both submissives by nature who happened to fall in love and now have to try switching.
I'll flog him, tease him, and make him do some foot worship, but for some reason THIS is what has me completely freaked out. "It's just too dominant" my brain keeps saying.
I've read lots of advice on the physical side of pegging, but I could use some guidance into the psychological side of preparation.
Anyone been in this position?
So my male partner and I have discussed pegging for about two years now. I want to be able to do this for him, and I even bought a harness, but I just can't get into the headspace for it.
It's not any sense of stigma or squeamishness, but I just tend to shy away from such a dominant act. You see, we're both submissives by nature who happened to fall in love and now have to try switching.
I'll flog him, tease him, and make him do some foot worship, but for some reason THIS is what has me completely freaked out. "It's just too dominant" my brain keeps saying.
I've read lots of advice on the physical side of pegging, but I could use some guidance into the psychological side of preparation.
Anyone been in this position?