Pegging Tips: What you wish you would have known?

Contributor: smashthepatriarchy smashthepatriarchy
Do you have any tips or pointers that you wish you would have known before you started pegging? Or any interesting/funny stories? Let's hear them!
02/19/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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02/19/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
It doesn't sound sexy, but do some dry-run rehearsals. Put on your harness and dildo and see how it will all work out without doing penetration. Try out positions, etc.

Also let the woman practice! Having something "sticking out" can be very different, and she might not be used to the moves that she'll need to use. Wear your dildo for a while to get a feel for it and practice thrusting. This will also help you figure out how best to adjust your harness. "Jacking off" with your hand and pelvic thrusts is also good - try to give yourself an orgasm that way.
02/20/2012
Contributor: InnocentISwear InnocentISwear
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Originally posted by ScottA
It doesn't sound sexy, but do some dry-run rehearsals. Put on your harness and dildo and see how it will all work out without doing penetration. Try out positions, etc.

Also let the woman practice! Having something "sticking out" ... more
"Having something "sticking out" can be very different, and she might not be used to the moves that she'll need to use"

This! I still laugh a little bit about how the dildo slaps against my legs when I walk. It's an entirly new thing to get used to.

We haven't been pegging for long so I'm watching this thread for the tips too!
02/22/2012
Contributor: Big Dog Big Dog
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Originally posted by smashthepatriarchy
Do you have any tips or pointers that you wish you would have known before you started pegging? Or any interesting/funny stories? Let's hear them!
Watch your diet that day. Keep it liquid. No nuts, no corn or heavy dinners.
02/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm watching this thread for tips because we haven't tried anything like this, but it may happen in the future.
02/28/2012