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Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
We've dabbled with pegging a few times over the years, often with limited success. When we found EF we decided to give it a go again and were a lot happier with the results, mostly thanks to the better quality products and reviews.

Now we're considering picking up one of the advice books (it's actually the Violet Blue one that we're considering) and wondered whether anyone has read any of them and has any thoughts or recommendations or is there really nothing in these that can't be found with a few Google searches?

Note that we're primarily interested in books right now, although good DVD recommendations are always worth considering.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
"The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex" - Violet Blue
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"The Ultimate Guide To Strap-On Sex" - Karlyn Lotney
Other (please give details below)
Total votes: 8 (8 voters)
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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05/31/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionCpl
We've dabbled with pegging a few times over the years, often with limited success. When we found EF we decided to give it a go again and were a lot happier with the results, mostly thanks to the better quality products and reviews.

Now ... more
I'd try "The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex" - Violet Blue.
06/01/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionCpl
We've dabbled with pegging a few times over the years, often with limited success. When we found EF we decided to give it a go again and were a lot happier with the results, mostly thanks to the better quality products and reviews.

Now ... more
I would get the adventurous guide!!
06/09/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The Violet Blue is OK up until you start doing the actual pegging (it talks about bringing it up, looking for supplies, myths, etc.), but once you've got your harness on and he's lubed and ready it doesn't tell you too much. I haven't seen any of the other ones, but it seems to me that a good general-purpose anal guide and some web browsing might be the best way to go.
06/09/2012
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
Thanks for the votes and especially for the replies It looks like the Adventurous Guide is miles ahead when it comes to recommendations, but ScottA's post has us thinking that it might not be the one for us now, since - as you say - we're already at the point of being harnessed and lubed up, lol. A general-purpose anal guide (or maybe even a gay anal guide?) might be something to consider.

Thanks again to all who have stopped by and joined in the conversation one way or another
06/09/2012