Pegging...how/when do you bring it up?

Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
so how or when do you bring it up cuz i know there are plenty of women who dont like guys who like that, and i'd hate to tell someone then have it spread all over to people in my life who i'd prefer to keep it a secret from
03/13/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
You need to go slow - think of all the possible taboos that it breaks - anal play, what guys do, what girls do...

I wouldn't bring it up until she's comfortable with the idea of toys and anal play going either way (with both her and you receiving and giving). Until she's comfortable with both of those pegging is probably too many things at once.

You also need to be able to trust the person you're intimate with.

I haven't written anything on it yet, but here's a good piece:

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03/14/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
You need to go slow - think of all the possible taboos that it breaks - anal play, what guys do, what girls do...

I wouldn't bring it up until she's comfortable with the idea of toys and anal play going either way (with both her and ... more
XD sometimes i forget that anal is taboo cuz i'm so used to seeing it as standard as vaginal sex i blame porn.
03/15/2012