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Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
Hello, I am wondering if anyone can help with some clerification on terms i have read while researching pegging.

Bullet in a pocket. Do these types of vibes come with no wires? if there are wires how do you handle them.

Pocket or rabbit, what is really better. does dildo's that can be used for pegging have a place for a bullett.

does harnesses chaff.

pvc is flimbls and collects hairs lint ect. what eles a good beginers medium for a anal dildo.

thanks for the help
03/15/2012
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Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
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Originally posted by Loriandhubby
Hello, I am wondering if anyone can help with some clerification on terms i have read while researching pegging.

Bullet in a pocket. Do these types of vibes come with no wires? if there are wires how do you handle them.

Pocket or ... more
Any of the vibes that you'd put in a pocket in a harness will work best with no wires. You can find a lot of decent bullets without wires. Some harnesses come with a bullet and I've never seen any of these have wires.

I don't think it'd be possible to use a rabbit in a harness. I've never seen one that had a base for use in a harness. Some silicone dildos with flared bases do have a place for a bullet. Tantus makes several nice ones, as I believe Vixskin does, and other manufacturers as well.

A good quality harness won't chafe. But expect to spend some money on it. Avoid nylon straps and read the reviews to find a good one.

Silicone is BY FAR the best material for harness dildos, in my opinion. It's body-safe, non-porous santizeable, shareable, soft so you won't hurt anyone while thrusting too hard. It does collect lint and hair but clean it and store it in a pouch and it's not too bad.
03/24/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
You can get bullets with or without wires. The ones with wires tend to be a little stronger, and the wire can just run up and out to wherever you put the control box/battery pack (some you can clip to the waist strap). A rabbit probably won't work, but with some harnesses you can slip a vibrating dildo inside you, but do make sure that the bullet doesn't "hang out" the back as it will be less comfortable and will turn off and on in many cases.

You can get harness-compatible dildos with a vibrator pocket in them. You need to make sure it's deep enough that the vibrator is entirely enclosed- most Vixen dildos will work, but some Tantus dildos don't have enough depth. If there isn't enough depth the end of the vibrator will poke you in your vulva or mons pubis and it may turn on and off. In many cases the vibrators aren't too strong once the vibrations go through the harness and your partner's anus.

Some harnesses may chafe, you want one that's soft and adjustable. Don't get a plastic harness - invest in a good, comfortable harness that will last. Get one with a "O-ring" attachment rather than a patent type (Vac-U-Lock), as the O-ring type allows access to a much wider variety of safe dildos than the patent types.

For starting out get a smooth silicone dildo, of around 5-6" insertable length.
03/25/2012