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Contributor: Gdom Gdom
My SO will be buying her first harness soon and I was looking for suggestions as to what dildo we should get. I'm looking for something generally non-realistic (although something slightly realistic like the Mistress is fine) and around 1.5" (maybe up to 1.75") in diameter. Thanks in advance for any help you can give! I'm really looking forward to this!
01/17/2013
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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01/17/2013
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by Gdom
My SO will be buying her first harness soon and I was looking for suggestions as to what dildo we should get. I'm looking for something generally non-realistic (although something slightly realistic like the Mistress is fine) and around 1.5" ... more
My wife pegs me about once a week. It is fantastic for both of us. Here is some advice: The maximum diameter dildo that is comfortable for me is 1 3/8 inch, but 7 inches long is fine. Anything larger in diameter hurts even with lots of lube. We tried Vibrating Leo(1 1/2 inch diameter) and I couldn't take it. We love silicone dildos. The Vibrating Mistress(1 3/8 inch by 6 inches) is our favorite. My wife also likes to masturbate with it. Another dildo that we enjoy is Vibrating Leisure(1 1/4 inch diameter and 7 inches long). We also enjoy a double dildo Nexus Jr.

It is important that the harness have a pocket for a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. We use Buzz Me Tender and Bend Over Beginner harnesses.

Our favorite position is with me on my back with my legs drawn up - that way I can really take in the max length. Not a fan of girth though, and this position isn’t good for bulky dildos. Also, in this position, she can easily reach my penis for a handjob.

Have fun and let us know how you make out.
01/17/2013
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Get silicone.

For the best prostate stimulation get one with a curve in it. Three nice ones are the Tantus Curve, Comet or G-Spot (the last two are the same, just different colors). For a first toy don't get anything with much texture.
01/17/2013
Contributor: Jenna@Tantus Jenna@Tantus
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Comet and G-Spot are different sizes. But other than that these are all great suggestions. And no texture is better, ScottA is right.

G-Spot&Comet
01/18/2013
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
For prostate stimulation I love the Echo, but you should probably work up to that level of texture if you're not overly familiar with anal play.
01/18/2013
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
When you do get one I'd say do make sure it's 1.5" diameter or bigger and 6-7" insertable length (remember that it's not all going inside, there's about an inch or more of space between your bodies during use). Wider toys are stiffer and find the prostate better, and longer toys don't fall out during thrusting.
01/18/2013
Contributor: SumFun75 SumFun75
Have fun with what ever you get..
01/18/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
If you like the Mistress, you might like the Raquel. It's Vixskin, which is a wonderful material, is non-realistic, has a nice curve, and it's 1 5/8" in diameter and over 7" insertable. Having tried many different materials now, Vixskin is hands-down our favorite.

And I totally agree with SumFun75: have fun!
01/19/2013
Contributor: playsalot playsalot
My new favorite is the Amor. And we are currently using The Heavey duty leather harness. I like a little smaller dildos than the other people on here though.
01/20/2013
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
i like the mistress vibrating dildo
01/27/2013
Contributor: John444 John444
Quote:
Originally posted by Gdom
My SO will be buying her first harness soon and I was looking for suggestions as to what dildo we should get. I'm looking for something generally non-realistic (although something slightly realistic like the Mistress is fine) and around 1.5" ... more
Lux fetish is reasonably priced <40 with a leather harness that actually stays in place when thrusting. Dildo is similar to a Tantus and so satisfying. It is around 1.75 " at the head but with some warm up it will slide it in easily.
05/30/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
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Originally posted by playsalot
My new favorite is the Amor. And we are currently using The Heavey duty leather harness. I like a little smaller dildos than the other people on here though.
You use the Amor anally? The Fun Factory toy? I adore mine vaginally, but its grippy micro-texture made me think it would be too rough for anal.
And yes, those of us that like shorter and/or slimmer toys seem to be the minority!
05/30/2013